one time i made a post about how autism is good & not a bad thing worthy of stigma & someone replied with something along the lines of “uh how about you talk to the parents of an autistic child and see how hard it is” like 1. uhh okay i talked to my mom 5 minutes ago she said we’re having lentils for dinner & 2. why in god’s name would you trust someone’s opinion on autism if they weren’t autistic especially if that opinion was opposed by most autistic people lmao