Why He's Not Texting You: 9 Rules Men Use On Texting
When is the best time to text a guy or should you text him first?
Are you going nuts in thinking why he haven’t sent you a text yet after quite some time or why he suddenly stopped texting you? A guy shares some ideas, his rule on texting and surprisingly it turned out insightful and good.
And these tips are coming from someone who could get numbers and have an amazing interaction in person but would ruin everything because of texting. It took a lot of changing and, on two occasion, actual tears.
1. Don’t text a girl or a guy you’ve known for a short period of time when you’re drunk.
This is my biggest text rule. Seriously, don’t do it. Texting a friend or girlfriend drunk is different than texting a woman you’ve met recently. Trust me on this, you will just end up to text messages you regret sending next morning.
2. If the person didn’t reply right away don’t get offended or say something needy or even send more texts.
This is something that is applicable to texting anyone. We all have had a situation where there was one person who seemed to always be available and reply quickly to our texts and it would turn out into a long conversation every time we spoke and then when the time comes that we didn’t reply right away, you become a needy person and sulk. This was a problem I had for a very long time. Don’t be that guy/girl. If you do this then the other person may want to text you but won’t because they don’t want it turning out into a long drawn out conversation.
3. He Doesn’t Text Me or Reply Back
Don’t get offended if he or she doesn’t reply back. I’m embarrassed to admit this, but I remember countless times that I’d text a girl and she wouldn’t reply and it’d ruin my day. I’d be obsessing over why she hadn’t replied and if I had said something wrong. Once you start going down this path it just keeps going.