Our first kiss was so awkward! But, in a perfect way. We were on the couch in my apartment, and it was crazy because we had been texting for so long nonstop, talking about this moment and it was finally here. He has a fear of heartbeats (I know weird lol) and he told me he could feel his heart racing. It was so corny and sweet, but he told me to feel, so I put my hand on his chest…And then he said “Now feel how fast it goes when I do this” and he kissed me. Our teeth bumped each other and it was soooo bad for a kiss looking back, but we really didn’t care. In that moment, it was so sweet and romantic and it only took a few seconds before we found our groove lol
Okay so technically my first memory with him was a Skype call because we met online and we’ve been long distance for a majority of our relationship. I had been snapchatting him back and forth all day but I was packing to go home from school so I asked him to just Skype me because it would be easier. So we talked on there for a few hours while I was packing. I kinda miss those days. I wish I could skype him tonight. Deployment sucks ass.
This has sporadically been on my dash for a while. I’ve always wanted to do us but haven’t gotten around to it until now. I’ll be doing it on my personal blog so check that out if ya want :) I found the list of what to do on each days and here they are. Join me!
Day 1: How did you meet?
Day 2: How did they ask you to be theirs?
Day 3: Your first memory with them.
Day 4: Your first kiss.
Day 5: Favorite gift they gave you.
Day 6: Nicknames for each other.
Day 7: What do you think of their family?
Day 8: What does their family think of you?
Day 9: An inside joke.
Day 10: How many times have they upset you?
Day 11: Why is your relationship different from others?
Day 12: 10 things you like about them.
Day 13: Your song.
Day 14: How often do you see each other.
Day 15: What about his friends?
Day 16: Things you have in common.
Day 17: Things about them that bother you.
Day 18: Upcoming plans you have together.
Day 19: What is your favorite memory with them?
Day 20: When you feel closest to them.
Day 21: What your future will be like together.
Day 22: A movie that is special to your relationship.
Day 23: What you two do together.
Day 24: How long have you been together?
Day 25: Ways you have changed together.
Day 26: What your friends think of them.
Day 27: What is the next holiday you will celebrate together?
Day 28: Meeting his family.
Day 29: What is your favorite thing about them?
Day 30: The one thing that makes them different from everyone else.
This is going to be so much fun. I hope yall will join me if you aren’t already participating.
Our first kiss.. I remember it perfectly, but at the same time it’s all a blur.
It was when we first got back to his house from the airport. His sister kept asking if we had kissed yet, and I told her no because we could never be alone for longer than a second. So she shoved me towards the living room where Bobby was putting his shoes on, and said, “Go. I’ll keep anyone out.”
Jesus, my heart was in my throat. I’d barely said two words to him, how the hell was I supposed to kiss him?!
He barely got the words “Hey, babe” out and I shoved my mouth to his. Not aggressively, but I wasn’t fucking around. He pulled me onto him and we just sat there and kissed. And it was the most exciting moment of my life. I can’t even explain what I felt, and this is where it gets blurry. It was like.. we melted together. That’s so cheesy, but that’s honestly what it felt like. I forgot I was even human. I forgot I had arms and legs and a beating heart. For that moment, I was just lips. Lips on lips. I was just my fingers, my thumbs that were perfectly placed behind his ears.
gjkdfhgjksdfhlgjk and it still feels that way every single time.
Day 30: What makes him/her different from everyone else?
The way he goes above and beyond to make me happy. I’ve never had anyone love me the way he does. He’s so selfless. He does everything he can and more just to make sure I have a smile on my face. He’s different from everyone else because he never stops trying to make me fall in love with him over and over. He’s given me a love that I couldn’t have imagined anyone would feel towards me. He’s got the biggest heart I’ve ever seen and would walk miles just to help someone. He’s a far better person than I am, he makes me so proud everyday to be called his. I love him because he’s different from everyone else, it makes everyday together a new adventure☺️
Day 11: Why is your relationship different from others?
That is a very easy question but could have a very long answer.
To begin with, our relationship started out on the internet as friends. Second, we are both girls. We were brought together by fate and we have fought so hard to keep this love safe. Most relationships are between people who know each other in real life. For us, it was a whole 6 months before we even met but that never stopped us from falling deeply in love from 2,000 miles away. We care so much for each other and honestly are each other’s best friend. We tell each other everything and have so much fun doing the most simple things. We don’t let people’s judgement cloud our love for each other. We have never let this distance get in the way and we WILL NOT let these 13 weeks of boot camp change our love either. We are young and committed and nothing in the world could ever break us apart. I want to marry Alisa. I will marry her. I will stand beside her in the good and bad times. I will be her rock and give her everything she could ever want. I will be her forever love.
I hated him so much. Oh my god. It as my first time working at summer camp. First day. First weekend. We all had to sleep in this big lodge and be up at like 6 am. It rolls around to 12 in the morning and this guy comes crashing into the main room and from my room down the hall I hear him yell
“Who wants to go to Dennys?!”
I was so mad, it was so late and I was so tired and this 6'4" giant was being so loud.
The next day we had to move wood rounds together and he had me a flower saying “Sorry Nature Nerd, I killed it.” Then I calls him Butter instead of his usual nickname Beans. I think it was downhill from there.
Day 30: The One Thing That Makes Him Different From Everyone Else.
If I had to put everything into words, it would be “how he makes me feel about him.”
Not only am I talking about the insane love that I have for him, I’m also talking about how sure he makes me feel about everything. I was never one to make rash decisions, but when we got together, forever couldn’t come soon enough. Forever couldn’t come soon enough because of how much I KNEW that this was it.
I’m also talking about how our physical moods can go from wanting to cuddle to sex to talk back to cuddling to whatever else but it’s always so in sync and it’s wonderful.
I’m also talking about how even though he’s almost 7000 miles away, I still get the same butterflies that I get when he’s touching my skin or kissing my forehead.
I kinda ruined this hahaha :) Let me explain… we weren’t dating yet but we were talking a lot and seeing each other a lot. And there were a few kisses here and there. I was really hoping that he would ask me to be his girlfriend because to me, he was the perfect match. So, there was this one day where it was the last period of the day of school and he walked me to my study hall and standing there waiting to talk to him was our good friend Hannah (the girl that got us together in the first place) and she wanted to ask him something. And by the way they were talking, I could just tell he was gonna ask me to be his girlfriend. And me being an idiot kept asking him over and over what he and Hannah were talking about and of course he wouldn’t tell me. So, later that day we hung out. And we were laying on his bed together when I asked again, “So, what were you and Hannah talking about?” And just wouldn’t tell me! I was getting too anxious! So I sat up and gave him a stern look and asked the question again. I think I started tickling him too just to get it out of him easier. Eventually he gave up and just asked. He said he wanted to wait and ask me in a cute way but I pretty much ruined that hahahaha :) No matter if it was asked in a cute way or not, he is mine and that’s all I could ever ask for <3
Day 28: Describe meeting his/her family.
Awkward awkward awkward lol I’m not very good with meeting new people so it took me a while to open up. I’m still shy in front of them but it was all good. He’s dad embarrassed me within a minute of meeting me but that’s another story lol. Nothing bad though, his family is cool and I didn’t meet them all at once which was nice I think. Just kinda casually made my way in I guess you could say. When we drove to TN together to stay at his grandparents I met his moms family all at once but that wasn’t bad it was actually one of my favorite trips, filled with lots of memories that I hope we can remake some day. Happy times with the love of my life are the best. ♡
very awkward. i met one half at his cousins wedding then the other half his older brothers wedding. i had to share a hotel room with two of his cousins that i’ve never met before, and yeah. i basically was a mute and they all tried to get me talking.