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Okay guys this is my first masterpost—albeit rather small masterpost—(minipost?) and I’m doing it on my phone so please bear with me.

I just wanted to bring to everyone’s attention how! Fucking! Awesome! The majority of the 1D fandom is. (◠‿◠✿)

So today, Danielle Peazer did an #AskDanielle for the Cyber Smile Foundation, which is an organization against cyber bullying. Seems nice, right? How sweet of Danielle to support the foundation and openly take questions from her followers, even though she knows most of them are Directioners, who are dying to know about her recent breakup with Liam Payne.

So. Let’s begin with clicking the hash tag #AskDanielle. Scrolling through the Tweets, there seems to be a common theme going on here… As seen above, most (mainly all) questions on the #AskDanielle tag are asking her about her weave. If you don’t know, this fandom is obsessed with proclaiming Danielle’s hair is a weave. She’s disputed this several times and even blocked people over it. In an interview, Liam actually commented on the hate she was getting about her hair, and how she was beginning to wear it straight most of the time because of the backlash. Okay. Let’s dissect this. Danielle is mixed. Half white, half black. If most Directioners weren’t stupid 16 year old white girls living in a bubble they would know that most mixed kids have curly hair thanks to both hair textures from their parents. Everyone else with a brain just accepts it, and moves on. Danielle is natural, meaning she chooses not to perm her hair, and to keep it in its natural curly state. But because she is black/half-black (or however she identifies) her hair MUST be a weave right?! Blak gurl hav hair????? That’s long???!?!?!? That is what most Directioners think. What started as a “joke” catapulted to full on bullying. For the two and whatever years Liam and Danielle have been together, she has dealt with this. But what mainly gets me going is how RACIST this “joke” is. Because black women can’t have long or big hair without it being a “weave.” Black women who wear weaves are always targeted so negatively by so many people. Even our own people. Weaves are SO “ghetto,” and “ratchet,” but when a white woman wears one, it’s just “extensions,” right? If Louis’ girlfriend Eleanor suddenly got longer hair, hers would be called extensions. But never a weave! Because weaves are for ghetto black girls. Shout outs to the white girls who “wish they were Beyonce” because “she’s so beautiful.” Yes. Correct. Her hair is beautiful too, now, right? Correct. So how do you think her hair stays laid like that? WEAVE. EXTENSIONS. HAIR THAT ISN’T HERS. And that is completely fine! I’ll be damned if Katy Perry can alternate between colored wigs every damn day, but Rihanna can’t. Fuck that. Anyway, back to Danielle. So Danielle logs on to see all of these bullshit racist as fuck weave questions. Then she also sees questions about Liam. Oh joy! Now she’s being bombarded with questions about her ex-boyfriend! But look again, they aren’t questions about her relationship with Liam, they’re questions about their sex life; specifically Liam’s “10 inch penis.” If you visit the hashtag and scroll and scroll, there are multiple questions about Liam’s dick and how well she took it. This is again, racism. ‘How is it racist, Charlotte?’ You wonder. Well let me drop some history on ya real quick. Can I do that? Can I drop some history on y’all? (This is when the black congregation says “YAS PASSA (pastor)!” “Go on, now!” “PREACH PREACHA!) By asking Danielle about her sex life is not only hella intrusive, but it’s racist. When you inquire about someone’s sex life, ESPECIALLY someone you don’t know, you are sexualizing them. Since slavery, black people have been characterized as hyper-sexual. Black men would get called rapists, and black women would get called Jezebels. These are false attributes that have been placed on us to prove white people’s theory back then that we were animals. SO, by asking Danielle how freaky she was in bed with Liam, is racist, because you are labeling her as hyper-sexual. And I know people ask Eleanor those questions too, but not in the same context. With Eleanor, there’s a level of respect. Because she’s so pretty!!!1!1!1 And perfect!!!1!1!1 With Danielle there is no line. Especially when she’s asked how Liam dominated her chocolate body. (I KNOW I don’t have to explain how racist that Tweet was). So great job, 1D fandom! Awesome job, Directioners! You have failed the racism test again. You ought to be proud. I don’t give a fuck if you are a “sass account” or whatever, you have no fucking right to be racist. Go hang onto the boys’ balls and discard your racist bullshit and bullying. Because the Directioners with brains are tired of calling you out on your racism. We are exhausted.

SLAPPING LOUIS’ ASS WITHOUT HIS CONSENT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT

SLAPPING LOUIS' ASS WITHOUT HIS CONSENT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT

  1. SLAPPING LOUIS' ASS WITHOUT HIS CONSENT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT

SLAPPING LOUIS' ASS WITHOUT HIS CONSENT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT

  • SLAPPING LOUIS' ASS WITHOUT HIS CONSENT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT

SLAPPING LOUIS' ASS WITHOUT HIS CONSENT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT

SLAPPING LOUIS' ASS WITHOUT HIS CONSENT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT

SLAPPING LOUIS' ASS WITHOUT HIS CONSENT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT!!!!!!!!!

i swear to god i swear to god i swear to god i swear to god i swear to god i swear to god i swear to god i swear to god i swear to god LOUIS HAD EVERY FUCKING RIGHT TO PUBLICLY DISTANCE HIMSELF FROM SOMEONE WHEN THERE WERE (AND STILL ARE) MILLIONS OF PEOPLE SCREAMING AT HIM AND HIS FAMILY ABOUT HOW GAY HE IS AND IN A HIDDEN RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT SOMEONE.

BEING CALLED GAY ISN’T AN INSULT. BUT SOMEONE IS ALLOWED TO GET ANGRY AND REACT WHEN PEOPLE CONSISTENTLY DON’T FUCKING LISTEN TO THEM WHEN THEY SAY THEY’RE NOT. LOUIS WAS ALLOWED TO GET PISSED WHEN PEOPLE BELITTLED HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH ELEANOR FOR 4 YEARS. LOUIS WAS ALLOWED TO GET PISSED WHEN PEOPLE HARASSED HIS MOTHER ABOUT HER SON’S SEXUALITY AND HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS BANDMATE. HE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO GET MAD AT SOMEONE WHEN THEY SAY ‘lol louis’ gay as hell louis’ gay and dating harry’ WHEN LOUIS HAS SAID THAT NEITHER OF THOSE THINGS ARE TRUE.

THAT’S NOT HOMOPHOBIA. THAT’S LOUIS ATTEMPTING TO REGAIN SOME SENSE OF CONTROL OF HIMSELF, HIS LIFE, AND HIS IMAGE.

YOU WANNA BLAME SOMEBODY FOR MAKING LOUIS ‘’’’DUMP’’’’’ HARRY AND THEIR FRIENDSHIP???

BLAME YOUR FUCKING SELVES.

anonymous asked:

when larry comes out i hope you feel stupid and know that we'll all be celebrating and laughing at you people because we were right

you know what? this is a genuine concern of mine. i mean it, it’s a real concern that if this day comes, this is what y’all will be doing.

harry and louis’s relationship and/or sexualities are not a game. and saying ‘LOL YOU WERE WRONG WE’RE RIGHT NANA NANA BOOBOO’ is horseshit. rubbing YOUR RIGHTNESS it in the faces of people who didn’t ”””’believe””” would be completely ignoring and invalidating harry and louis’s decisions and making it all about you and how great and accepting you were the whole time. someone’s sexuality isn’t a horse race or a football game you can bet on for fun. it involves real life people with real feelings and it would be like you yelling ‘I KNEW IT!!!!!!!!!’ into the face of a friend who just came out to you. and as someone who had that happen many times when she came out, it doesn’t feel good.

god, why am i even trying, it’s like speaking to a brick wall.

i don’t care. go wild. make fun of me if it happens. be a shitty person and live that way, i don’t care.

Can everyone plEASE STOP TALKING ABOUT HOW AMAZING THAT ‘DARK’ FANFICTION IS. All it’s doing is glamorizing an abusive relationship and you need to STOP BECAUSE THE WAY FIC!HARRY IS TREATING BO IS VILE AND REPULSIVE. No matter how attractive he is, no matter how many “feels” he gives you, domestic violence is not ok; DON’T RATIONALIZE IT. If some guy ever treats any of you that way (and I pray so hard you never experience it) get the fuck away from him. Call the police, tell a friend, a coworker, a family member, do whatever you need to do to get out of that situation. Because that’s not hot, it’s not sexy, it’s not okay. 

S T O P

anonymous asked:

Some of the responsibility has to be on Louis. He KNEW the implications of wearing a rainbow shirt during that time. I have no sympathy for him and his reaction was completely overblown when he could have avoided the ENTIRE THING by not wearing the rainbow shirt in the first place. Fuck him and fuck Harry for November, because that was the ultimate queerbaitfest.

i-

like i’m honestly so embarrassed for you for sending this absolute garbage pile of a message. like this might be the absolute nastiest message i’ve gotten in my 4 years on this site

i am abso-fucking-lutely not going to BLAME LOUIS for any of this. it is not his responsibility to prevent rude assholes from harassing him and making speculation of his life on the internet. that’s on THEM. what kinda victim blaming bullshit is this???

he didn’t do anything wrong; he wore a goddamn t-shirt. it wasn’t a rainbow shirt. it was t-shirt with the old school logo of a major company. it was a raglan shirt from a brand he wears literally all the fucking time.

people jumped to the wild conclusion of GAY RAINBOWS bc it was louis. that’s it. they twisted this shit to fit into their narrative about him and it is not his fault they do that.

he has to prevent nothing. they need to learn some fucking respect.

i’m just amazed by this like ???????????

anonymous asked:

why internalized misogyny?

bc ‘EW WOMEN EW GROSS LOL LOUIS HATES WOMEN DON’T TOUCH GROSS WOMAN EW VAGINAS LOLOL’ and ‘NO WOMAN FOR LOUIS ONLY HARRY HARRY WITH A PENIS LOL BC VAGS ARE GROSS UNLIKE HARRY’S PENIS’ is nasty as hell and basically implies that women are gross and aren’t good enough for h/l simply bc they’re women which is…..

DING DING DING DING DING!!!!!!!

MISOGYNY!

anonymous asked:

Why do you hate Little Things??!!?

because it gives off this nasty, ‘I, HE-MAN, WILL SAVE U, LADY, FROM UR SAD’ and i ain’t about that life.

it ties the recipient of the song’s value to that of the way a man perceives her. like, you have these insecurities and those are 100% valid, but these man boys are reducing them to something that can easily be cured by them and their lOoOoOve. nearly the whole song is a list of insecurities with this big, neon ‘BUT WAIT!!! HANG ON!!!!’ attached to each of them. liam’s verse is a little weird to me, but it really starts with the ‘but’ in harry’s verse. to me, it’s not really an ‘i love you and all the little things about you, they’re of value to me, whether they are to you or not,’ it’s more of an ‘you’re self conscious about your size and kinda have a muffin top in those jeans, but eh, i love you anyways,’ like it’s some hardship he has to look past in order to be with her. although props to harold for (what i think is) recognizing how icky that was and changed it to ‘and’ in performances, which rings more of ‘your weight is a part of your perfection and i wish you’d see that.’

niall’s verse goes back to the ‘I AM MAN. I LOVE U NOW ALL UR INSECURITIES ARE NOTHING BC OF THAT.’ like, encouragement and love and support from your significant others are always good and completely necessary, but saying ‘i love you more than you ever will’ is not the way. it’s wrong to try and reinforce that HIS opinion of her is worth more than HERS of herself in a society that already pressures that. that’s not helpful, that’s incredibly damaging and has the potential to decrease self-worth even more.

zayn and louis’s parts are the only ones that don’t make me uncomfortable. they are a but a sad wisp of what the song could’ve been.

anonymous asked:

(1) I'm sorry if you're done with this topic, but I would like to give my two cents about Ra*nbow Direction. I think the theory of it is amazing. I think the idea of inclusion of LGBTQ youth (and adults, because there is a huge adult population of them in this fandom) is sorely needed given @Louis has been pretty negative about queer issues, but the stigma that it is linked solely to "L*rries" is really upsetting to me. I don't think Harry and Louis are together. Never have been, never will be.

(2) But knowing that this fandom accepts and supports me as I am is really important. @Louis’s tweet to that Guardian writer REALLY upset me. He made it seem like being gay is bad. And I have felt that way for the past three years. It’s not bad to be gay. It’s GREAT to be gay. But that tweet hurt me and I have had a hard time looking at Louis the same way since. So R*inbow Direction is needed. And I don’t think it’s about shoving L*rry in anyone’s face. I think it’s saying “hey, you’re great”.

(3) And at this point in my life, that’s what I need. To be apart of something that accepts me even when a member of that band doesn’t seem to. Anyhow. This is long and I’m sorry. But I just wanted to say that as a lesbian non-L*rrie, I appreciate R*inbow Direction. I know you do not, and I respect that. But I just feel sometimes that the LGBTQ members who are against it realize some LGBTQ fandom members who aren’t shippers may appreciate it. Have a good day. :)

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