12 feb 13

DAY 3242

Emirates Palace, Abu Dhabi          Feb 12/13,  2017        Sun/Mon . 12:52 am 

A birthday free day of the Ef .. a quick reference to the calendar and a confirmation .. it is indeed birthday Ef free .. love and luck and blessings and affection and greetings to all that were of birth .. tomorrow .. in some part of the world ..

Children born before your very eyes, grow and produce children, who now prepare to grow their own in time .. and the procedure, though biological in science, is introduced through rituals and traditional norms in permission ..!

A formality of tradition .. though not entirely necessary .. procedures happen even without .. but society and morals and several other incumbrances, not insurmountable, suddenly raise an ugly head when a path not traditionally trodden is not taken .. 

It was prevalent in times gone by .. gone by, by millions of times .. and prevalent in times of the present .. alarming in some, and not so in others .. the condition of those that matter being of consideration .. mostly the elders and that most complicated and ever readable term ‘family’ ..

And the transfer of relation from daughter to daughter-in-law, of two different families coming together as one .. the tribe increasing and thereafter increasing with each biological construct, it is of not much alarm in time for the universe to be of same family ..

Marriages are an understanding, rather than a ritual or a legal paper .. the ritual lends some termed authenticity, an announcement, a confirmation through prayer or ritual, that make two into one .. 

But would it stop if there was absence of either .. prayer and paper ..?

A social gathering unobtrusively makes many ways in the exhibition or in a sense a confirmation of the thought .. 

Gentleman or Lady bumps into you, a gesture of conversation occurs .. it does normally .. and in a while either one shall emit -

“Meet my Wife .. or meet my husband ..”, and you acknowledge the union with greeting and pleasantry ..

You never ask -

‘Err married ..? Could I see your marriage certificate ..?”

Naa .. you do not do that .. you accept .. you understand .. you trust .. you believe ..


Three crucial words that fructify in your mind and in the minds of all that are introduced then, of the status of the individual just met .. but in many ways those three words do also justify and signify and confirm in more ways than one a sacred unwritten law that governs the matter of marriage .. one that is defined through procedures to be of endless association and togetherness .. infinity !

The concerned wedding is a ‘destination wedding’ .. a term I just learnt yesterday - DESTINATION WEDDING ..!!

A destination that is away from home of either .. of some exotic, or commanding value, of eminence, of possessing the opulence that perhaps is a mode of giving the bride or the groom - status ! Or a managerial concept in that the destination becomes the ‘wedding planner’, and the time trial and exertion of a personal touch, is of convenience for its execution .. simple .. the job is delegated .. 

Delegated by the Father of the Bride, to make impressive impressions on the other .. an exercise which I may have commented on before .. 

The Father-of-the-bride bringing to the event the very best at the very best expense .. to what .. to get rid of the daughter !!!!! Alright ‘rid’ is harsh .. but gets through all the effort to understandably, give away his daughter to another ..

It has challenged my thinking often .. 

Love ..

Amitabh Bachchan

Valentine Season ❤

Since no one around here seems to be knowing what Valentine week is, so, I thought I would enlighten my fellow Tumblrs.

The week prior to Valentine’s Day is known as the Valentine Week.

Below is a list of each day of that week and their special names

7 Feb Rose Day

Originally posted by lilpieceofmyworld

8 Feb Propose Day

Originally posted by ordinarysuperhero

9 Feb Chocolate Day

10 Feb Teddy Day

Originally posted by insanity-99

11 Feb Promise Day

Originally posted by 2mainstreamhipster

12 Feb Kiss Day

13 Feb Hug Day

Originally posted by tana-the-dreamchaser

here at murdergirlfriends we will be hosting a lauraela week! a week in febuary, 7 - 13, where we are given topics for each day and we will post!

day one (feb. 7) - first impression
day two (feb. 8) - role reversal
day three (feb. 9) - other characters
day four (feb. 10) - coming out
day five (feb. 11) - favorite lines
day six (feb. 12) - au
day seven (feb. 13) - free choice!

here’s how to participate! 

  • make a post with the given topic of the day!
  • tag as #lauraelaweek in one of the first five tags!
  • put what day the topic is for!! for example i might write a fic for day six so in the tags i would put #lauraelaweek and #day 6
  • that’s it! you can post a hc, fic, drawing, edit, gifset or anything you want for the posts on lauraela week!
  • remember to post the right theme on the right day!!

anymore questions? send them to @lauraelaweek​!

everything posted in the tag will be reblogged onto the blog!

reblog to spread the word maybe

Graylu Fluff Fest 2016 finally has the prompts, so get ready to create! Graylu Fluff Fest will be starting on February 7 and ending on February 14. (The Graylu coloring is by the wonderful @yukine-s! Thanks, Mari!)


  • Day 1 (Feb. 7): Maid
  • Day 2 (Feb. 8): Eyes
  • Day 3 (Feb. 9): Back Hug
  • Day 4 (Feb. 10): Books
  • Day 5 (Feb. 11): Stars/Constellations [alt. Starry Night]
  • Day 6 (Feb. 12): Ice Skating
  • Day 7 (Feb. 13):  Under the Blankets
  • Bonus Day (Feb. 14): Music


  • Make sure one of your first 5 tags is “graylu fluff fest” or we won’t be able to see it.
  • Smut is allowed, but please make sure to tag the posts as “nsfw”. Also, any works that contain non-con, BDSM, abuse, etc. will not be accepted
  • No brotp, please!
  • No reposting or plagiarism is allowed. All work submitted must be your own.
  • The prompt set is optional! We have provided you with some guidelines you may use, but you are allowed to use your own ideas as well.
  • Late submissions will be accepted, but please refrain from submitting early.
  • Remember to have fun and enjoy this wonderful ship! ^-^
  • (here is the link to the official rules/info page: http://graylu-fluff-fest.tumblr.com/rulesandinfo)
DAY 2873

Jalsa, Mumbai                  Feb  12/13,  2016               Fri/Sat  1:46 am

On Vasant Panchami they say an auspicious day to acquire something new .. and so the above .. delightful and full of astonishing functions inside !! Drove it down to the house and did not feel like getting off it ..

But ..

The goodness of the day is over .. the other takes over .. 

The love for cars is considered a male predominant act .. sorry .. women are equally attached to it .. and my admiration has always been for them that have that .. not for any other reason but .. get off after a ride on a bike of high cc .. a car of power cc and the adrenalin shall keep pumping for the rest of the day and night .. its a sense of conquer .. of controlling this massive monster like metal with the ease of a strong man .. controlling it , riding it , maneuvering it, and just being seated within its portals is a world of its own … the noise of the exhaust as the engines ramp in , the smell of leather on the seat as you adjust your body to its new demographics .. that slide on the rough the swish of acceleration .. just incredible ..

Many simply do not understand this .. but we do and I do and I love it ..

The morning has been under tubes of crackling sounds and machinery that can thread bare the entire body .. at time embarrassingly so .. to discover ailments that have troubled the system for long ..nothing found and nothing advised .. just continuance of life till it gives up on its own .. its that stage now .. so its back to normal and back to gymnasium and back to expert training and back to winning ways ..

It is the simplest and the easiest looking movements that constitute the maximum effect of positivity in the system .. so a mere skip and jump or a balanced rotating uneven vessel has the capacity to work almost the entire body without it getting to know about it ..

So all is well and within control ..

Ram Madvani made a film “Neerja” which was seen today .. stunning !! How did he ever make this film with such reality .. the process, the management, the execution .. all … impeccable .. yes the praise for artists is always there but at times such as these, the best performance comes from the maker and here Ram needs all praise ..

Ram did my docu ‘Everlasting Light’ which not many have seen .. some day we shall put it up .. it is so delicately put together, with a sensibility that shall amaze many .. my wishes go out to him and to the film ..

Amitabh Bachchan

What star sign you were really born under due to the Earth's axis procession
  • <p> <b><p></b> <b>21 Jan-16 Feb:</b> Capricorn<p/><b>17 Feb-12 Mar:</b> Aquarius<p/><b>13 Mar-18 April:</b> Pisces<p/><b>19 April-14 May:</b> Aries <p/><b>15 May-21 Jun:</b> Taurus<p/><b>22 Jun-20 Jul:</b> Gemini <p/><b>21 Jul-10 Aug:</b> Cancer<p/><b>11 Aug-16 Sep:</b> Leo<p/><b>17 Sep-31 Oct:</b> Virgo<p/><b>1-23 Nov:</b> Libra<p/><b>24-29 Nov:</b> Scorpio <p/><b>30 Nov-18 Dec:</b> Ophiuchus<p/><b>19 Dec-20 Jan:</b> Sagittarius<p/><b></b> The dates of the signs were fixed, over 2,000 years ago, when the zodiac was first devised. Then, they corresponded to the constellation of stars that appeared behind the Sun on the day you were born. But the wobble on the Earth's axis means that the constellations have drifted since then. Also, Ophiuchus was deliberately left out of the original zodiac, even though the Sun clearly passes in front of it after passing in front of Scorpio and before reaching Sagittarius.