...well there's nothing wrong with that

anonymous asked:

I don't think I've ever been in love or even had a crush? Idk if I'm ace and I'm a little scared cause I probably am? And I feel like society builds these concepts of what having a "perfect life" would be and getting married is usually a huge part of it and my family keeps asking if I'm seeing someone and Idk how to deal with it. I love being with other people as friends but I just don't get the attraction thing. So yeah this came out much more serious than I planned... Well I love your blog!

if u dont feel like being in a relationship then dont force it, u dont have to be attracted to other ppl and theres nothing wrong with that!! u could stay open for any possibilities and if theres maybe the right person someday then thats nice but even if there isnt, thats fine as well. u dont need a romantic partner in ur life to be happy ! i know theres a lot of pressure to have this “perfect life” but things are changing and u dont need to confirm to any silly standards anymore bc fuck that noise

Bitty is short. There’s nothing wrong with calling him short. I keep seeing posts acting like calling him short is offensive in some way and my 5′1″ ass is like ??? let him be short?? 

He’s 3″ shorter than the American average for white males. He’s particularly short for the sport he plays. He’s far shorter than anyone else on his team/in his friend group except Lardo. Considering his environment, he’s short. It doesn’t matter that he’s half a foot taller than me, saying “I’m shorter than Bitty and I can reach things” doesn’t change the fact that he is significantly smaller than would be expected in his sport or the fact that he’s significantly smaller than most of his friends

like yeah the “he can’t reach stuff” jokes get old but really people there’s no harm in calling him short, y’all need to calm down and just enjoy the glory of the Jack/Bitty height difference

taeyeon vs wiz

well it all started when wiz posted this tweet

wiz’s dj, later on posts these tweets:

here theyre both saying she ‘backed out’ of the performance. You cant say you aint got beef when you go around mistyping taeyeons name on twitter and then brushing it off when someone corrects you. That was intentionally disrespectful. There was disrespect on both parts, but taeyeon was not at fault. I hate that theyre coming out here acting like theres nothing wrong when things have already blown out of proportion to the point where people are dragging taeyeon, calling her racist, as if stepping on that stage was literally the first time she saw him.  People said taeyeon backed off because she was racist, why  would she agree to a collab, let a teaser be released and rehearse with him if she was racist.

BUT ANYWAY LETS CONTINUE,

she later on released her side of the story on instagram, this is her statement translated:

After she posted this, taeyeon fans and sones went out of their way to show this to wiz and dj bonics.  Wiz’s reply was:

I’m sorry but what happened to ‘she gave no reason’ for backing out of the perfomance? can he not make his mind up?

you know that the best thing is though?
Dj bonics tweets.

they cant even get their stories straight. if you’re going to lie, at least make sure you guys are telling the same lie.  The best thing is that he pretends he didnt say the word hotel and has now deleted the tweets.

‘where did i say hotel?’

??????????? ?? ? ??? ?? ? ?????????

fans must of shown her the tweets, or she saw them herself, but she responded, and she posted photo proof of her at the hotel at 1am. the caption roughly translates to ‘hey buddy, i didn’t go to the hospital, i was here waiting for you,and could only wash up now’

not only am i so proud that she stuck up for herself, im dying because she looks adorable af wtfffff, and here is part of her original sc story that she posted at 1am

so she waits for their rehearsal until 1am but nothing happens so she goes back to her room as she needs to wash up. but no according to wiz, ‘she went to the hospital’ because obviously in the background of these pics u can clearly see a hospital setting.

bc obvs taeyeon just went up to to wiz and went ‘Khalifa sunbaenim, hospital kaja’

another thing i’d like to point out is another of Dj bonics tweets:

haha but dj bonics-hyungnim, your dms are closed!!! what person could have possibly sent it???

Taeyeon is clearly not at fault, but everyone blames her. the fact that she is still staying hmble and respectful is amazing to be honest.
i wouldn’t expect taeyeon would be the gentleman here instead of two dudes. 

Lastly, i would just like to show y’all some words from one of wiz’s staff:

haha im just here sipping my tea

“she backed out for no reason”
“she went to the hospital
“she went to the hotel”

hahahahahahh aight sureeeee

so guys i think its safe to say that taeyeon is innocent huh??

taeyeon stans and sones, lets try not to get too worked up over it though, wiz was never ACTUALLY releveant until he tried to mess with our beautiful princess x

keep supporting taeyeon and send her lots of love. she deserves it <3

Originally posted by sn-sd

@chanxings-gizibe

Well if you think Taylor Swift is playing the victim everyone in the entire world practically Is , because EVERYONE talks about their feelings me included , some just decide to write it down in a notebook and turn it into grammy winning hits and theres nothing wrong with that …

Not a fan of wlw being told their ships are crackships because they’re not canon. There’s something so sneakily homophobic about it.

Wlw already have so little representation, it just doesn’t sit well with me that we ship people who aren’t canonically romantically involved (because writers are too scared to have more than one lgbt+ couple on their shows, but that’s a whole different topic I can’t even begin to tackle) and get told that those ships are a joke. That they’re less relevant and meaningful when the only reason they aren’t canon is because writers decided they wouldn’t be.

It’s oh so funny that we see potential for some amazing ships between actresses with great chemistry even tho we know it’ll never happen. HILARIOUS that we ship these ‘crackships’ and not the over abundance of other wlw relationships that we see on TV… oh wait

Miss me with that cloaked homophobia

anonymous asked:

wait what. why cant u reblog skinny girls just bc they may have anorexia? we need representation as well and theres nothing wrong with being skinny as long as its healthy, just like theres nothing wrong with being fat as long as its healthy. u can have anorexia even though you're fat just saying...

Well, it’s not so much that, it’s because it can be triggering. No one said you can’t be skinny and healthy!! Just as you can absolutely be fat and healthy. The issue here is reblogging those images can cause someone who has recovered from an ed to relapse, and I certainly don’t want that!!

nothing like being up till 2 am…………for the third time this week………..lady-starkiller over here is really treating this flesh prison like a temple……………

My favorite trope in Hannigram fics is the good ole’ “looks like traditional therapy isn’t working too well for you Will, so I’ll have to try some unorthodox methods and maybe try jerking you off/sucking your dick here in my office to help overcome your deep set mental issues,” scenario. 

  • *in the lab*
  • Molly: *watching Sherlock curiously*
  • Sherlock: *sitting at his microscope, dressed a vicar*
  • Molly: *raises an eyebrow* Sherlock, can I ask you something?
  • Sherlock: *distracted* Mmm?
  • Molly: *folds her arms* Why are you dressed like that?
  • Sherlock: *looks up; smiles simply* I'm undercover.
  • Molly: *intrigued* Oh. At Bart's?
  • Sherlock: *rolls his eyes* Obviously not.
  • Molly: *nods* Riiight *giggles; shuffling papers*
  • Sherlock: *narrows his eyes* What?
  • Molly: *shrugs* Nothing, it's just...you don't seem the type to try and impress me.
  • Sherlock: *frowns* I told you. I'm undercover.
  • Molly: But not right now.
  • Sherlock: ...
  • Sherlock: *through gritted teeth* Clearly.
  • Molly: *gesturing* So the disguise...
  • Sherlock: *clears his throat* For the...character.
  • Molly: *smiling* Sorry. My mistake *continues work*
  • Sherlock: ...
  • Sherlock: *glances at her*
  • Sherlock: *fiddles with the white strip at his collar* Do you like it?
  • Molly: *flashes him a smile* I prefer detectives.
  • Sherlock: *smirks*

man i still love su and im not fully caught up with it yet but i feel the crew really like lapis too much and theres just so much wrong with that,

like shes mean and borning and dull and just… theres nothing to her, like theres so many eps with her like theyre TRYING to develop her but its just?? *lapis is mean and doesnt learn anything* like okay thats….uh..
and im scared peridots whole character is gonna be lapis’ comic relief partner and that sucks cuz peridot it a really good and well written character! and jasper needed more to her and so did bismuth (but she was a guest voice so i kinda see how they cant rly do much)

i mean i still love the show though, but….man

tho i havent seen the ronaldo episode and i heard that was good and funny and had no lapi

anonymous asked:

a boy broke my heart, he is absolute scum yet i still feel lonely. :( how do you deal with being single so well? i feel like shit

because like….your value isnt defined by whether or not youre in a relationship and like…. if he’s scum he doesnt deserve you anyway. theres nothing wrong with being alone. surround yourself with good friends. theres nothing wrong with being single like, at all 

I have this friend who, hes predominantly in to super underground shit. I’m predominantly in to underground movies, but movies are the biggest thing for me in that aspect. I love a lot of mega underground bands…but not like him. We were talking about favorite guitarists and I said “I know its really cliche, but Brian May and Jimmy Page are my favorite guitarists.” I was worried that would be met with judgement and “Well, -insert super mega underground guitarist here- is way better” but he was like so nice about it and said “There’s nothing wrong with them being your favorites. I’m not judging you. Theres a reason they are two of the most famous guitarists in the world.” and it meant a lot to me just because again, I was expecting judgement and like “Well Jim Bob from the 1968 band, Leaky Vagina, is really rhe best guitarist of our times” but he was totally supportive and nice about it

anonymous asked:

Aphrodite supporting sex workers. I support strippers. Does she still mean those porn blogs that keep adding you on Tumblr? I don't hate them, but I've never been fond of sex. I think the sight of penises is gross. I don't get turned on by it or the idea of fucking lol. I don't masturbate. I remember telling a friend that and they said it wasn't normal that I don't desire sex. I only enjoy making out but nothing too far...

Okay well this probably heading more into UPG territory, but while theres nothing wrong with having a porn blog, the issue is when they in a way force themselves onto other people. So my personal belief is that they don’t really count because Aphrodite, while being the goddess of sex, is also the goddess of consent. She wants all parties to be willing and happy participants, so those that force themselves, their kinks, their desires, their way of thinking onto other people are not part of those Aphrodite supports. Again, that’s just how I see it. 

Also, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you for not being fond of sex and for not masturbating. Don’t let anyone tell you anything different. And I think most people, even those who enjoy having sex with men, think penises are gross lol! I def do not enjoy looking at one so much so it truly makes me question my own sexuality so i feel you on that! 

Pssst…I enjoy making out more than having sex…way more satisfying! 

All of you - Phanfic

Summary: Dan is feeling low about his appearance, people keep pointing out his insecurities such as his weight and his height. Phil notice Dan isn’t acting as normal so decided to figure out what is wrong and does everything he can to help him. 

Rating: PG (what theres hints of past sexual acts but nothing sexual in the fic) 

Word count : 2014

Warnings : nothing too much, Dan is sad about his appearance but Phil makes him feel better, talk of self hating but body positivity actions does this make sense? probs not. 

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Can we please end this bullshit of attacking a person for not knowing every single fact of everything ever, like you do because you’re some kind of all-knowing God.

Goth!Felicity in this episode represented the nagging, dark thoughts of Felicity that try (and are not always unsuccessful, as proven by 4x11 as well as 4x06) to break through the surface of her personality. I don’t think it’s as simple as Felicity’s new self masking her old self. People are more complicated than merely one mask hiding another mask which hides another mask. Felicity is a complex character, and I wouldn’t say she has many “layers” to her, I’d describe it more as an intricate web. The traumas and joys of her past combine with the traumas and joys of her present to create the person she is now, and everything is all entangled network of feelings and emotions and memories. This is how people work.

I think what’s important to note is what Felicity chooses to show to the world. As evidenced by the bitter, cynical, brunette hallucination, Felicity Smoak used to choose to let her anger at the world show through everything she did, said, and wore. That was the part of her that prevailed back then. In present day, in Season 4 of Arrow, Felicity is a very different person. What makes her different? What she chooses to show to the world and what aspects of her are manifested. She still has a cynical and bitter edge to her, clearly. She still can be as biting as that hallucination sometimes. But what does she choose to show and to be? She chooses the happy and bright Felicity. She chooses the cheerfully humorous, adorable, and loving Felicity. While she may use this as a front sometimes to hide her inner pain, this isn’t completely a mask. This is who she is, because this is the part of her that exists that she chooses to be.

Felicity has chosen to be strong and be a hero. She has taken the parts of her personality that she wants to show the world, i.e. her strength and brightness and ability to move on from pain and trauma, and she has used that to create her own character development. She recreated herself from the ashes of what Goth!Felicity gave her to work with. Will Goth!Felicity (aka, the dark feelings) still manifest herself? She will. But that’s not who she is as a person anymore. Hallucination Felicity was wrong. This isn’t a mask, this is the new person that Felicity has chosen to be, the already existing character traits that she chooses to strengthen while letting the other negative traits be secondary. It’s all a testament to Felicity’s strength, and it’s not about masks at all. 

@smoakd

i really hope no one tries to cover up osomatsu’s actions by saying “well all his brothers left him and now he’s so so alone! :’(”