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On Supergirl and Homophobia

I am seeing a lot of posts saying how calling out what happened at SDCC as homophobic is ‘ridiculous’. I’d like to address first the scope of what homophobia is, then move onto how the incident was driven by homophobia. 

Definitions:

When you hear the term homophobia, it conjures up images of assault or of slurs being thrown out in the open. This is often not the case. Incidences of homophobia can range from the above to smaller instances that make you question whether of not you’re being ‘hysterical’ or ‘dramatic’ for thinking you’re being discriminated against or not. Merriam-Webster defines homophobia as: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals. 

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People saying Bum isn’t a murderer. 

When someone has killed someone - I’m sorry but you’ve killed that person regardless. Bum will no doubt kill again and once again… it’s plain murder. Whether it’s his uncle, his teacher, the girl across the street or a dog. Killing someone is murder. 

I mean sure his uncle deserves to die but at the end of the day it’s still murder. Bum could have said “no” to killing Jieun but we all know he would either die or just be tortured and Jieun would still die anyway. 

Bum still killed guys. He’s just as fucking bad and idiotic to stay with Sangwoo but he won’t leave him. 

anonymous asked:

Hello! I'm really impressed at how much love your ship gets. I often hear that people hate OC x Canon ships. I have an OC x Canon ship myself but I'm way to afraid that it will get hated. Do you have any advice for me? :) <3

Heya !!

Aw, I was a bit afraid too when I started posting about them, it’s been a few months but I’m still overwhelmed by every like/reblog/message, or cute tag. 
I’ve often been too shy to show my art, but… I am glad I took the risk, because… gosh, every little thing from you guys means the world to me !

A lot of people are scared of getting hate. It’s sad because we should all be able to share what we love and create stories ! Especially shippings, it’s just crushes and love, it’s not meant to harm anyone. I do believe most people will enjoy stories with you, and share theirs with you too, and if they don’t like it, they’ll ignore it (it’s totally understandable that we don’t enjoy everything, too ! It doesn’t mean you’re a bad person if you don’t support everything from everyone !) 
What I mean is, creating stories, shipping, it’s not bad, not wrong. So you shouldn’t be scared or shy. You should only feel love for them, curiosity for their story, joy to build around these characters. Not shame or fear. 
And I think it’s important to feel good about ourselves and what we do, right ? ^^

But of course, if someone wants to be rude just to be rude, it’s hard to avoid ;;

So for advices… 
Don’t be ashamed of what makes you happy, what you love.
I think it helps when people can see how happy it makes you… happiness spreads, you know ? It shows in what you do, and people feel it when they look/read. So don’t be scared to show how happy it makes you !
Be optimistic, each cute message means the world, and if there’s a bad one ? Depending on the kind of message, you can either ignore or try to reply politely, but try not to get mad owo Don’t let this stop you ! The good it brings you is way more important ! ❤

I hope… it helps a bit. I hope you do post ! And I truly hope it brings you as much joy as Khadgrin for me ❤ 

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here’s some mau draws while i work on the giveaway pieces in the next few days/weeks ❤

also just to let you guys know i’ve read all the comments on the giveaway and you guys are really nice ;x; i want to draw stuff for everyone but i don’t really have the capacity to do so.

but well knowing myself i would probably have another giveaway in the next half a year for so idk :3

“your story is shit and gets lots of notes I don’t get it smh!! I try so much harder than you but get no notes!!!”

do you
do you really
I’m not quite convinced
your green monster is showing
maybe that’s why everyone is ignoring you
just maybe

anonymous asked:

hi I was wondering which of your mutuals you associate/ship with the svt members? I need some more blogs to follow!!

anonymous asked:

I'm not saying that you're wrong or that I disagree but why do you think that Sehun is bi?

Well, I just feel Sehun doesn’t have a specific gender he acquires too. If that makes sense? I’ve seen him say things about both males and females the way you’d hear a heterosexual talk about the opposite gender. I take in the times he has spoken on women, and as of late he just said what he’s attracted to with no gender. So I’ve also found the way he treats both or comes off is sometimes as attracted to both, with the possibility of liking one a bit more. I’ve personally from what I know of Sehun as a fan, never seen him strictly attracted to women or men. I’ve also just seen him as someone that has an attraction to all, and anyone that fits what he enjoys and likes. 

I know people take into account as him as a confirmed homosexual due to Baekhyun’s words, and him saying I like men, or him being a confirmed heterosexual because of his celebrity crushes, and like girls on IG or the “playboy” rumor mess, but did anyone just think perhaps he’s just a bisexual man? I mean Bi-Sexuals exist and it’s possible to like both, and have a stronger like for one, but still, be attracted to another gender. You know?

He also could be asexual and or pansexual. With what Baek said.

I just extremely get that from him. Like if you ever just pay attention to how he speaks, Sehun is way more intelligent than what people give him credit for. Also, highly self-aware about the world around himself.


No, Sehun hasn’t told me this lol. It’s just things I’ve noticed in him over 5 years. I feel he’s just now since as of last year is more of “Oh Sehun” and not “EXO’s Oh Sehun” if that makes sense. Like I pick up more on his character as of late, and that has a lot to do with how he’s speaking more. 

People are so set on him being one or the other when for a long ass time I’ve never viewed him as a person to just subject himself to one thing. He’s really grown and matured lovely. I’m so proud of his growth as a man, and I feel most people just look past a lot of what he does as cute, and don’t see the man before them. I’ve picked up on a lot he speaks about. There was this interview he did last year, that spoke volumes to me like the EX’act Monster and Lucky one interviews.

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Q:  How would you explain something that you like because it’s been a long time with it, and something that you like because it’s new?

Sehun: I think of new things as something that I get to experience and be enlightened by. As for old things, what I learn from them will become feelings and memories and that way, I can remember them. To be specific, it would be human relationships. I think relationships are the most important in life. With humans, the more you see each other, the more you become fond of the other, don’t you? The process of getting close with someone is fun. It’s the same with new things. If you meet someone new, you will obviously have things to learn from them, there will be things you get to gain and on the other hand, you will have an influence on that person. I think those kind of things are fun.


Q: When did you experience the broadening of your outlook on the world?

Sehun: I like things that are eye-openers, I like learning, I like experiencing, and I said that I enjoy coming upon new things. And so I am the type to try everything. That way, I can inform the people that I like and I can be of help. When people say they’ll do something, I can recount my experience and that will help them. I think that also includes how I see the world. So I think I will challenge all kinds of things.


Q: What is a moment that you wish to have in your life?

Sehun: Um, I hope to have a very touching moment. I’m really looking forward to that moment. What it is specifically, I am also uncertain, but I wish to have a touching moment that renders me speechless. I think it is impossible to feel touched if you don’t like that person. When you think of someone you really like, when you were once touched by that person or because they did something that touched you, that is when you are able to come up with plans to make them feel touched. Surprise is also incorporated in the sentiment of feeling touched, isn’t it. Because if there is no element of surprise, you cannot feel touched.


Q: What is the compass in your life?

Sehun: How should I explain this. If there is a road straight forward or backward, and if there is a road on my left and right as well as side roads, I will take the side roads. There are pros and cons of side roads. Side roads are fresh and they’re not complete. Also, there is something you can experience from it. As with the common straight roads ahead, because there are already many information on it, I know that there might not be things I want to try experiencing. However, as for the side roads, people who have not gone through them don’t know what they hold. And though it cannot be gauranteed, I might be able to be a bit more comfortable and be able to go faster, and it will be fun. The con is that there are many bends. Extremely many. And if you’re not careful, you might end up at the start and go the straight road ahead instead, you might not keep walking the same road too. So you need to be wise with your choice of roads. You’ll learn and experience many things, I think you need to rely on and go with people who make the the environment great. If I can only handle being wise, I will be able to safely and enjoyably cross that bend while living a dynamic life. I think being an EXO member isn’t all straight roads and within that, I want to have more dynamic experiences, do a lot more, know more things, help the people around me and learn from each other. I want to live that way.

cr: http://103oclock.tumblr.com/post/145669302873/full-trans-sehun-exact-lucky-one-interview

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Q: Are you type to believe in chance, or are you the type to believe in the inevitable?

Sehun: I think there are both. In human relationships, I think you can’t estimate when chance will come. It looks for you when you’re not thinking about anything. I don’t know about the inevitable

http://103oclock.tumblr.com/post/145669608868/full-trans-sehun-exact-monster-interview

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I suggest reading his whole interviews around late 2015 to now. I just would love to hear him talk, he really has such a beautiful and intelligent perspective on life. I spoke about this on my blog last year too. He does bring up women (once), but I don’t take that as he’s just hetero. Also, his Diary for the war was short and telling to me as well.

He said things along the lines of being more honest and more of himself. Yes, that could mean anything, but still. I feel he’s perhaps bi-sexual. 


I could be looking too much into nothing, but however these are just my feelings on the matter, and as long as Sehun is happy despite who he identifies as or not, he’s an amazing soul that I wish more people would listen to. 

Dirty ink

A good pure heart,

but a drop of your dirty ink has soiled it.

You can never remove what is a part of you

or what has become.

You can only learn to live with it.

And living with this scar in my heart,

I am not living,

but simply just existing.

The scar taking control of my life

or what could’ve been. 

Navigator and Wild Card

Mahiru and Impostor for dangan thieves AU

A lot of extra sass quotes for Mahiru because navi’s talk a lot apparently and Twogami has a different kind of mementos chats hmm…

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anonymous asked:

your homophobic, you don't understand the cast openly mocked an LGBTQ ship, it doesn't matter if it's canon or not, the fact that they disrspected half of their fanbase is horrible, wtf. get educated.

so you assumed i am homophobic on one post in which i defended a cast that’s been harassed by a certain part of the fandom for months now?? talk to me about being disrespectful, especially after the sc fandom has sent DEATH THREATS to chris but i guess that’s ok 

anyways, the only thing they said is that they are just friends, which is the truth so??? i don’t even know what’s all this fuss about, it certainly wasn’t directed towards the lgbtq community