anonymous asked:

Can you help me understand? I was born a female and somedays i feel like a female but other days i want to be a boy, i like guys still either way but i don't know how to explain it to my friends.

[Sorry for the late reply! The message got lost. ; n ; ]

From the sounds of it, you might identify as one of these: 

Gender fluid is a gender identity which refers to a gender which varies over time. A gender fluid person may at any time identify as male, female, neutrois, or any other non-binary identity, or some combination of identities. Their gender identity can vary at random or in response to different circumstances.

Multigender is a term for anyone who experiences more than one gender identity. It can be used as a gender identity in its own right, or can be an umbrella term for other identities which fit this description. Multigender people may experience two or more gender identities at the same time, or their gender identity may change over time. [meaning you identify as multiple genders at once, less switching between. More of a solid state, generally.]

Non-binary gender (see also genderqueer) describes any gender identity which does not fit within the binary of male and female. Those with non-binary genders can feel that they: [feel free to check the links in the text bellow for more info]

Now, explaining your gender identity to others can be difficult, especially when it’s not strictly one thing or the another. I think one of the most important things is to make sure they understand how important this is. That this isn’t a joke, or some ‘passing fad’ or whatever. It’s also important to express with personal pronouns you would prefer, if any. [They/them he/his she/hers etc.] 

But, I guess a really, really basic way of explaining it is like this: 

yugyeomsdf asked:

hey ur gross as fuck for waiting for the underage seventeen members to be 18 and just being gross in general thanks


things I want: S.Coups doing bodyrolls in tight black jeans

things I will need in order for that to happen: 17 getting a sexy concept

things I want to happen before 17 gets a sexy concept: all members to be 18+

why: because it’s fucking gross to make a 16/17 year old do a sexy concept

believe me when i say i do not experience any kind of sexual or romantic attraction to any of the members younger than joshua and perhaps not even joshua himself so you can calm down now