honestly you can’t just keep making the same mistakes again and again hoping that one time it will eventually work out. bad habits don’t magically disappear. you have to make conscious efforts to make improvements in your life, and when you notice ritualistic bad habits, you can’t just hope that next time will be the time you finally succeed. if you’re doing something wrong, fix it!!! if you see the same thing happening over and over again, take it as a sign! it is rare for these things to unravel by themselves, so figure out what the root of the problem is and do what you can to fix it!!!
I’m not trying to get up here and bore you with my feelings but I’m about to be 28 and there are so many of you here tonight that have been hanging out with me online, or listening to my music for 10 years, 12 years, 6 years, whatever it is. (December 13, 1989)
unpopular opinion but on posts where wiishu says she has good news, that doesn’t necessarily have to be 1.) a baby or 2.) engagement. women can have more news than what’s up with their uterus or marital status. women can have news outside of their romantic relationships. women’s worlds don’t have to revolve around a man. women can stand on their own.
the whole “listen to classical music when you’re studying or doing homework” thing is such bullshit. u think i cant fucking jam to chopin? satie? beethoven? fuck you. i hear the first bar of prelude in b minor and i start fucking headbanging