*sef

please, i’m begging you
please stop saying “but you look like a girl”
please stop asking “if you’re not a girl then why do you look like that?”
please
please fucking stop
i get it
i get that you think i look like a girl
but i live in this body, i live in this temple, and i do not need to answer intrusive questions about it just because you’re “curious” or you “disagree.”
please stop challenging it
please stop questioning it
please stop insisting that your opinion of me is more important or more “correct” than my own opinion of me
i don’t care if you think it’s wrong
please understand that i do not have to explain myself to you
and asking about my genitals and “what happened to make me like this” is rude, hurtful, and intrusive
please stop
please

anonymous asked:

How do I stop the heaviness without burdening the ones I love?

Stop thinking of yourself or the heaviness as a burden. That only adds to it. Those who matter will be there regardless of how it makes them feel or to the degree to which they may be inconvenienced by it. Life is full of inconveniences. One person’s flat tire can be felt by others - holding up the road, being late for work or office. But life goes on. The moment passes and so will we. Be brave. When you embrace yourself for who you are, don’t forget to embrace your vulnerabilities as well, because they also make up who you are (arguably, more than anything else).

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(Sef:Have some Percival Graves again.Just drew those,can be used but please with credit that I drew those!Not you! Those happen to often that people steal other peoples drawings without asking,and I go nuts if someone does that to my drawings*takes bazuka* good. Now those are a bit meh I still am not happy with my Graves design but what can we do,still learning to draw this asshole befor doing proper grabernathy art.

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Urgh this moment. Only realised on rewatch but the Emperor is talking about Prince Qi isn’t he? He’s accusing Prince Qi of buying loyalty through favours. Because much easier to believe that Jingyu was sef-serving and calculating than that he earned that loyalty honestly. And easy to see plots if you never doing anything our of altruism yourself. Jingyan’s face in the last cap is so exhausted and sad. He can’t even say anything to defend himself or his brother.

Learning lessons is a little like reaching maturity. You’re not suddenly more happy, wealthy, or powerful - but you understand the world around you better, and you’re at peace with yourself. Learning life’s lessons is not about making your life perfect, but about seeing life as it was meant to be.
—  Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

anonymous asked:

Do you think there is a correlation between astrological signs and the Chinese zodiac signs? Like I've looked into some of the personalities and found some patterns but I've never really thought about actual correlations. -sefs

Not that I know of. The Chinese zodiac is different because with Western astrology, it’s approximately split into 12 signs in 12 months while the Chinese zodiac is 12 signs in 12 years.

Chinese astrology is really interesting and it focuses on the lunar calendar. I don’t know too much about it but I’ll tell you right now that it’s more than just animals, lol. If I remember correctly, there’s five elements: earth, fire, water, wood, and metal. There’s also certain kinds of pillars, but that’s all I can say, lol.

I’ll definitely say Chinese astrology looks harder than Western astrology lol.