I don’t think I’ll ever understand peoples’ desire to put men and women in boxes of “masculinity” and “femininity” as if having qualities from both pools instead of qualities exclusively from the one you were born into would ever be a bad thing
Like, it just goes so completely against the way I think about people. People are all so fundamentally different and unique and completely irreplaceable! Why on earth would you want to hurt people by disregarding everyone’s inherent complexities in favor of your nice little filing system? Just so you can shove everyone into old, dusty boxes that they might not fit into?
I just think of everyone as being so unique and absolutely invaluable and nothing gets on my nerves more than people undermining that.