*i know that not a word

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  • A relationship between two adults with a large age gap is not inherently abusive.
  • Parents maintaining some form of control over their child’s life whilst that child is underage and still under their parents’ care is not inherently abusive.
  • A parent reasonably disciplining their child is not inherently abusive.
  • Arguments in a relationship of any kind do not automatically make the relationship, or any of the people involved, abusive.
  • Friends who aren’t available to tend to other friends’ needs 24/7 are not inherently abusive or “toxic”.
  • etc.

Can people seriously stop automatically categorising things as abusive because it just trivialises the seriousness of actual abuse. I’m so tired of seeing things like “if your partner yells at you then leave them”, “if a friend isn’t there for you then they’re not a real friend”, “if your parents don’t let you do what you want then they’re bad parents”.

Just because you don’t agree with someone’s behaviour it doesn’t mean the behaviour is abusive. Humans are complex and very emotional and while small things can sometimes be indicators of abuse, usually negative emotions or behaviours are just because people are fucking complicated.

Things are not as black and white as “100% abusive” and “100% not abusive” - please keep in mind that there are shades of grey such as “possibly abusive” or “a shitty thing to do, but not abusive”, or “just fucking normal human emotions because not everyone can be 100% positive and nice to everyone all the time you twats”.

one of the most gut-punching lines to me in the entire musical has to be “tomorrow will be far away, tomorrow is the judgement day”. for everyone it really is The Moment where all eyes are on them. imagine how enjolras and les amis must feel when they realize they’ve lost. do they think that this is their punishment for rebelling? could this really be their Judgement? the same goes for valjean. he saves marius, but at what cost? he’s tired and he’s lost his daughter to the man she loves. or, he hasn’t really lost her, but he’s let her move forward in her life. a life seemingly without him as he pulls away. is this his Judgement? it’s like they’ve all planted seeds in a garden they’ll never get to see.

i’ll stop shipping destiel the instant those two assholes stop gazing desperately at each other with huge, sappy heart-eyes like they’re each seeing everything they’ve ever wanted and longed for in their stupid ass lives

me, sliding 3 dollars and a ball of lint over to miyazaki: what does the note in the music box say

{Important}

I apologize for not getting to private messages sent my way yesterday. I honestly wasn’t in the best mood for them. ♥

I know people are trying to check up on me, but I just prefer to be alone sometimes when I get that depressive and not in a right state of mind. I don’t want to bring anybody else down with me, and I also feel like a majority of people don’t know how to properly listen, if I am to be honest. I know each person will have their way of approaching a situation, but most of what I get isn’t very helpful in comparison when it comes to the state of depression I have, and I am sorry; especially to those of you who say you’re trying. ^.^;;

I had to make a somber choice this morning and unfollow a few blogs to retain my sanity, and I apologize to those I unfollowed. Keep in mind, it has nothing to do with you—it has to do with me and how I don’t want to be scared to look at my dash and see what’s on it now and again whether mobile or otherwise. I am tired of seeing this one thing again and again, feeling triggered, and then wanting to scream at the top of my lungs, because I don’t see what’s so great about this part of the fandom, so to fix it, I removed myself from part of the problem. ♥

If I keep feeling triggered by some things, I will probably continue to remove people to make sure I am back in my safe haven and my little hole, but be aware, it has nothing to do with you—just something far greater. You’re still free to come to me to talk, but I cannot bring myself to re-watching some blogs right now.

I know I’ve spoken about this in detail with some people in private, and you probably know what that trigger is—others, I will outright refuse to explain what it is, because…sad to say…I do not trust the conversation will end happily between us. I unfollowed you for a reason, and that reason is, I want you to be happy with what you like, who you support, and so forth. The best way to ensure that continues with my sanity in tact is just to remove myself from the problem. ♥

I wish it didn’t have to be this way, but in the end, I do need to think of myself. If I am getting sick because of one silly thing, I need to take a step back and recollect myself. It was either do this or delete my blog and run away, and I cannot delete my blog, because then I practically surrender all of my work. I am selfish when it comes to that…so I cannot bring myself to do it.

I am sure if I delete anything, it will be my to-do list. I don’t know if I have it in me to write certain imagines anymore. xx; I apologize, dears.

In the end, regardless, thank you for understanding.

~Oreana Galena

also my back and abdomen hurt like hell but fuck it i dont care im happier than ive been in goddamn years and i’m going to motherfucking enjoy it

Okay so I just had to do this quote as it’s beautiful! This fic quote is from Time Turns by @torestoreamends, which was a birthday present for the lovely @platinasi bless the both of you. 

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Recently, I was in Ireland for a week.

  • Me: sees queen Elizabeth is trending
  • Me: hasn't had an emergency news alert from the BBC
  • Me: is confused
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favorite moana songs 

for your own peace of mind, maybe dont pay too close attention to the lyrics of some christmas songs.

this is the christmas card im sending out. steve didnt know what text i was gonna put behind it when he drew the picture.

(You can get this on redbubble!)

and it turns out that clint, who has been humming christmas carols for weeks now, doesnt actually know any of the real lyrics, and has just been making them up as he goes along. this is his latest masterpiece:

Winter Soldier’s Gunnin’ You Down (To the tune of Santa Claus is Coming to Town)

You better watch out, you better not cry

You’ll probably bleed out, I’m tellin’ you why

Winter Soldier’s gunnin’ you down

He’s got a hit list, he’s starting a fight

He’s clenching his fist, it’s shiny and bright

Winter Soldier’s gunnin’ you down!

He sees you when you’re sleeping

He knows when you’re awake

His aim is really fucking good and he’s gonna assassinate

You better watch out, you better not cry

You’ll probably bleed out, I’m tellin’ you why

Winter Soldier’s gunnin’ you down

He’s yanking out wheels and firing guns

If you were smart you’d probably run

Winter Soldier’s gunning you down!

Winter Soldier’s gunning you down!

PSA to stimmers about floral foam!!

hello!! i see that floral foam is becoming a trend in stim videos and while i know the Cronch™ is very good floral foam is actually really dangerous!! it’s made of ingredients that can cause cancer if inhaled (especially after prolonged exposure) and can really irritate skin of some people if they touch it- basically floral foam is really hazardous to your health!! i just wanted to let everybody know in case they wanted to try using it for stimming it might sound great but health comes first everyone please boost!!

@stimvid