If you’re a feminist, you know that feminism is about equality for all, women AND men. Look at how Cam/Tom relationship got a chance to develop and grow. And now look at Joe/Sara, where all she’s doing is being “motherly” to him and then leaves him just because the plot requires it. And now try to understand why we complain about the lack of attention to Joe. It does not mean we don’t want Cam/Tom developed, but we are not blind to the unfair way they treat Joe’s character.