I wish people wouldn’t take my silence as me being stuck up.
I’m an observer, like my Dad, and sometimes I just sit quietly and observe everyone instead of talking. Our office is really open and so sometimes everyone is talking so I just listen and watch and observe.
Other days, yeah, I’ll pipe in and talk and be chatty but some days I am quiet and reserve and just people watch because I’m not extra social that day.
But instead of people seeing that, I think people see it as me snobby and awkward which, yeah I am awkward as fuck, but like, idk. Don’t assume someone is snobby or rude just because they aren’t super chatty. Some people are and some people aren’t, and some just depend on the day.