well then i guess we disagree!!
i do not think stiles doesn’t want to be with lydia anymore just because he’s with malia. his feelings for lydia couldn’t have just disappeared after ten years because now he has a girlfriend, just like how even if scott is happy and dating kira and eventually falls in love with her, scott will ALWAYS love allison and hold her in a special place in his heart because she was his first love. i think that it’s unrealistic for the girl of stiles’ dreams, lydia, who he’s had a crush on for literally ten years, to be his one and only girlfriend. it wouldn’t be believable, especially because the first season and a half lydia barely knew he existed. i’m glad they’ve become friends because now he’s taking her off of her throne (which was unhealthy to look at her like that with nothing in return) and viewing her as an actual person instead of a prize or trophy
in season 2, stiles was supposed to have a thing with erica and then in season 3 with cora. obviously that didn’t work out and instead they worked on stiles’ friendship with lydia. i don’t get why they would a) dodge all of stiles’ possible love interests and b) build up stydia’s friendship and c) even have them share a kiss together if they weren’t going to date or get together later in the series. sure, he looks at malia like one would at his girlfriend, but he looked the same way at lydia for so long and i just don’t think it’s possible he’s completely over her after only a few months with malia
i get that stiles is with malia now and he likes her a lot and is happy right now, which is great for him, but i can’t see them working out and i don’t think they’ll be endgame. it’s hard for me to watch them together when they literally had no foundation and weren’t even friends before they got together. don’t get me wrong though, i love malia, she’s made a nice addition to the pack and is so independent and badass and hilarious and beautiful, but there is just no way i will never ship stalia just because i will always believe stydia is endgame.
what stiles has ‘wanted since season one’ was always LYDIA. not a girlfriend. lydia.