would be nice if ppl didnt shit on or make fun of nds n disabilities, n mock it just bcus the person who calls it out disagree with them.
you all need to stop being ableist, you wanting to insult people and degrade them is actually, in fact not an actual reason to be ableist.
it’s in fact a reason not to use ableist language, that’s how ableism works?? using language that degrades disabled people is a bad thing, using traits of nds n disabilities to make fun of ppl is a bad thing, using slurs directed at nd or disabled ppl to attack ppl is a bad thing.
it doesn’t matter if you don’t think of disabled or nd people as inferior, you’re still stigmatising the traits, still using harmful and stigmatising language, and you’re still being ableist.
stop using names of disabilities or nds as insults, stop degrading people with ableist slurs.
when you use a trait to insult someone, you’re calling it bad or you’re mocking people who live with it, people who have not done you anything wrong and simply exist as nd or disabled.
it’s cruel, you’re all cruel when you do this.. you all need to take ableism seriously, not just when it’s convenient. and you need to check yourselves and unlearn shit when you are being ableist, instead of defending yourself and continuing to be shitty.
i care for more to protect neurodivergent and disabled people, than i care about defending people who are ableist, and i wish you all did the same. i wish you all actually cared to advocate for us.. and i wish you all cared to be intersectional.
i am so tired of people on this site being so shitty about this, putting ableist in quotation marks, making trigger jokes, using ableist slurs, mocking our terms, mocking our bodies and minds, mocking the way we act… attacking disability and neurodivergency. not taking us seriously.
it’s always like this. nobody ever takes us seriously. we’re always forgotten, hidden, neglected, silenced… nobody ever listens to us. you don’t have to contribute to that, it actually doesn’t have to be like this. in safe spaces and in social justice circles, we could actually try to make a positive change here, and actually genuinely try to be inclusive of nd and disabled people.
please… stop being ableist, stop mocking us, stop invalidating us.. start standing up for us, listen to us, and respect us.