'more in real life'

this might be not so much about peopl in tumblr who are more informed, but more on people in real life but anyway:

“tough love” or giving people “real talk” or telling people “too bad this is the doggy dog world so you MUST be like this and you can’t be like that”

those are all more damaging than helpful, especially if you’re talking to someone who you know is neurodivergent

good for you if tough love talk boosts the ambitious overachiever in you.

but guess what, someone with a clear consistent history of anxiety disorder or major depression won’t get “motivated” at all, instead they will feel defeated

someone struggling with mental illness isn’t thinking “hmmm i think i’ll use this as an excuse to get away with laziness”

instead it’s more like “i can’t even do shit and everything overwhelms me and i can only do this small tiny amount of effort and im literally so useless because everyone else are doing much more and i get overwhelmed just by doing this tiny thing? i’m pathetic”

so when you give them “tough love doggy dog world” talk, all you’re doing is convincing them “yes you ARE pathetic”. it won’t motivate them, it will destroy them

and if you can’t accept that not everyone reacts in the way you want them to, if you can’t comprehend that some people react better with compassion and empathy and understanding, then maybe it’s better that you don’t say anything at all. at least you won’t make someone’s mental struggles worse than it already is

Woohoo! 100 Followers!

I feel like everyone probably says this but I really never ever thought I would be here with 100 Followers! I have the followers’ gift ready but unfortunately, it is late and I have some more real life things I need to accomplish before I go to bed tonight so this will have to wait for the moment… hopefully I will be able to get it up tomorrow.

There are 6 new BLCDs that are waiting for me to listen to them. 

AND almost all of my animes are ending this week –

BUT I’M NOT GOING TO BE HOME FOR THE NEXT 4 DAYS FML. 

I do plan on finding the time to watch the animes, but I doubt I’ll have time to open photoshop and make gifs (I’m not even sure I’m bringing my laptop with me). 

And it’s Vatican’s last ep on Friday! :( :( :( Damn it. I think I’ll only have time to watch it on Saturday morning (I always watch it the moment it’s out on Friday evening). 

Yes. My Otaku life is more important than real life. Water is wet etc…

BTW, if you haven’t listened to Yarichin Bitch Bu 2 - YOU MUST. I was almost choked to death from laughing like mad. Taku-chan went overboard with Yuri. Even more than in the first BLCD. I don’t know how they managed to record a full scene without cracking up in the middle XDD. I’m sure they had to make a couple of takes, but the finale ones are also impressive ^_^ (I know the cast really loves this story and they’re all also hoping for a 3rd BLCD - the Free Talk was WILD, god bless them all <3).

anonymous asked:

I love alex and millie more than i like actual real life children in my life like sorry but they're The Best ¯\_(ใƒ„)_/¯

I would say same, but I have a baby of my own, so I cant. Lmao.

anonymous asked:

You're right we're too focused on breaking records, we should be streaming. Did you see how much we dropped? It's because people thought breaking records was enough. We aren't working that hard to be taking a break n take care of ourselves it's not at all there. This is how we lose consistency, don't think others will stream. This hot 100 was something the boys wanted. If *you* can't stream that's your problem but don't say things like we're not enjoying the music, that sounds ignorant.

just……..relax…..records aren’t the most important thing in the world

i am streaming when i can but i saw people who are skipping meals or ignore their friends and family for days because streaming is more important than your responsibilities and real life

please realize that kpop is something you should enjoy and not a matter of life and death, if we can get bts to enter that hot 100 that’s great!! but if we can’t it’s not the end of the world and bts are still the same, amazing artists even without that

your way of thinking is really unhealthy and scary, being a fan should be a fun experience, it shouldn’t look like you’re a part of some cult

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J: so yeah we know each others passwords for things. i know michaels so i can help him out, and michael knows mine because,,,

M: BECAUSE ITS been the same since u were 11!! you are going to get hacked jeremy i swear to god change ur password.

“Amethyst ?”
“Yeah P ?”
“You know you’re my partner in time right ?”
“..heh, as long as you’re my partner in crime~

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Day 2: Crossover
Life is Strange
@fuckyeahpearlmethyst @annadesu

and only 47 i'm gays in my i'm gay account
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#EliaMartellWeek: Day 2 → Elia and Rhaegar

The man had her brother’s hair, but he was taller, and his eyes were a dark indigo rather than lilac. “Aegon,” he said to a woman nursing a newborn babe in a great wooden bed. “What better name for a king?”
“Will you make a song for him?” the woman asked.
“He has a song,” the man replied. “He is the prince that was promised, and his is the song of ice and fire.” He looked up when he said it and his eyes met Dany’s, and it seemed as if he saw her standing there beyond the door. “There must be one more,” he said, though whether he was speaking to her or the woman in the bed she could not say. “The dragon has three heads.” He went to the window seat, picked up a harp, and ran his fingers lightly over its silvery strings. Sweet sadness filled the room as man and wife and babe faded like the morning mist, only the music lingering behind to speed her on her way.

fun idea: someone who has never heard of the Percy Jackson books explain what the titles mean

example:
title: We Hail the Taxi of Eternal Torment
their meaning: I don’t know seems like a typical new york taxi to me

I think it’s so funny that people legitimately believe that somehow their liberal arts university or art school represents the core of what it means to be lgbt, to be queer, and that they legitimately give a decent window into the needs psyche & beliefs of ~the community~ as a whole.

Like, you need to acknowledge that you’re predominately surrounded by other white middle class twenty somethings, and that these isolated pockets, so often cut off from most of our reality, reaaalllyyyy is a poor representation of queer existence as a whole.