Lee Jong Suk Joins Park Shin Hye For Cameos In New SBS Drama

Lee Jong Suk Joins Park Shin Hye For Cameos In New SBS Drama

Following news of Park Shin Hye’s cameo in the upcoming SBS weekend drama “Gogh, The Starry Night,” which stars Girls’ Generation’s Yuri, Kim Young Kwang, and Lee Ji Hoon, it has been revealed that Lee Jong Suk will also be making an appearance in the drama.

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“Gogh, The Starry Night” is a romantic comedy directed by Jo Soo Won, who previously worked with Lee Jong Suk in “I Can Hear Your Voice”…

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How we date in Modern Society

We think that intimacy lies in a perfectly executed string of emoji..We think effort is a “good morning” text with an emoji besides it. We say romance is dead, because maybe it is, but maybe we just need to reinvent it. Maybe romance in our modern age is putting the phone down long enough to look in each other’s eyes on a date. Maybe romance is cutting communication and unfollowing the social media of certain people we were “talking” to after an incredible first date with someone. Maybe “romance” is still there, we just don’t know what it looks like now. We soothe ourselves and distract ourselves. We open up Instagram and see the lives of others. See the places we’re not traveling to. See the lives we’re not living. See the people we’re not dating. That’s when it fucks you up because we begin to compare ourselves including those we are in a relationship with. We bombard ourselves with all kinds of bullshit and worship these pointless “relationship goals”& we wonder why we’re miserable. We wonder why we’re dissatisfied. We wonder why nothing lasts and everything feels a little hopeless. Because, we have no idea how to see our lives for what they are, instead of what they aren’t.When we choose, if we commit we are still one eye wandering at the options. We want the beautiful sunflower but we’re are still eyeing the flower boutique of Gerbera daisies. Even though they are less valuable, the amount is greater. If we have the sunflower why do we still eyeball the Gerbera’s? because choice. Our choices are killing us. We think choice means something. We think more is better. We think opportunity is good. We think the more chances we have, the better. But, it makes everything watered-down. Never actually feeling satisfied, we don’t even understand what satisfaction looks like, sounds like, feels like. We’re one foot out the door, because outside that door is more, more, more. We don’t see who’s right in front of our eyes asking to be loved, because we’re still busy looking around for the next thrill, the next jolt of excitement, the next instant gratification. We long for something that we still want to believe exists.This is is why people cheat , it’s when they aren’t satisfied both emotionally & sexually , they bail. And, even if we find it. Say we find that person we love who loves us. Commitment. Intimacy. “I love you.” We do it. We find it. Then, quickly, we live it for others. We tell people we’re in a relationship on Facebook. We throw our pictures up on Instagram. We become a “we.” We make it seem shiny and perfect because what we choose to share is the highlight reel. We don’t share the 3am fights, the reddened eyes, the tear-stained pillow cases. We don’t write status updates about how their love for us shines a light on where we don’t love ourselves. We don’t tweet 140 characters of sadness when we’re having the kinds of conversations that can make or break the future of our love. This is not what we share. Shiny picture. Happy couple. Love is perfect.Then, we see these other happy, shiny couples and we compare. We are The Emoji Generation. Choice Culture. The Comparison Generation. Measuring up. Good enough. The best. . We soon find ourselves in despair. We’ll never be good enough, because what we’re trying to measure up to just does not fucking exist. These lives do not exist. These relationships do not exist. Yet, we can’t believe it. We see it with our own eyes. And, we want it. And, we will make ourselves miserable until we get it.So, we break up. We break up because we’re not good enough, our lives aren’t good enough, our relationship isn’t good enough. We swipe, swipe, swipe, just a bit more on Tinder. We order someone up to our door just like a pizza. And, the cycle starts again. Emoji. “Good morning” text. Intimacy. Put down the phone. Couple selfie. Shiny, happy couple. Compare. Compare. Compare. The inevitable creeping in of latent, subtle dissatisfaction. The fights. “Something is wrong, but I don’t know what it is.” “This isn’t working.” “I need something more.” Living our lives in 140 characters, 5 second snaps, frozen filtered images, four minute movies, attention here, attention there. More as an illusion. We worry about settling, all the while making ourselves suffer thinking that anything less than the shiny, happy filtered life we’ve been accustomed to is settling. What is settling? We don’t know, but we fucking don’t want it. If it’s not perfect, it’s not settling worthy. If it’s not glittery filtered love, settling. If it’s not Tumblr-worthy, settling.We realize that this more we want is a lie. We want phone calls. We want to see a face we love absent of the blue dim of a phone screen. We want slowness. We want simplicity. We want a life that does not need the validation of likes, favorites, comments. We may not know yet that we want this, but we do. We want connection, true connection. We want a love that builds, not a love that gets discarded for the next hit. We want to come home to people. We want to lay down our heads at the end of our lives and know we lived well, we lived the fuck out of our lives. This is what we want even if we don’t know it yet.
Yet, this is no longer how we date now. This is not how we love now.

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Let's talk about what diversity actually means

Let’s talk about what diversity actually means

So…friends, come on over and pull up a chair we’ve got a yarn for you this morning. It’s about diversity and what calling for representation actually means. First and foremost, advocating for more representation does not mean forcing diversity for the sake of it down consumers, game makers, game players throats. It does not mean policing what people create. After all, the last thirty years has…

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EXO, INFINITE, A Pink, BTS, AOA, and More Announced in First Lineup for MBC's "Gayo Daejejun"

EXO, INFINITE, A Pink, BTS, AOA, and More Announced in First Lineup for MBC’s “Gayo Daejejun”

MBC has released the first lineup to their year-end award show “Gayo Daejejun”!

The award show will be hosted by Kim Sung Joo and Girls’ Generation‘s YoonA, in addition the acts below are currently scheduled to perform:

A Pink
Girls’ Generation
Red Velvet
Teen Top
Wonder Girls

Currently MBC’s “Gayo…

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Michael Jackson’s Thriller is now the only album in music history to be certified 30X Multi-Platinum in the United States, breaking the album’s own historic record. Thriller has sold more than 100 million copies worldwide. The King of Pop also remains the biggest selling artist of all time with over 1 billion records sold globally. Thank you to all of Michael’s fans who have contributed to this…

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