[mine: h50]


Just close your eyes
The sun is going down
You’ll be all right
No one can hurt you now
Come morning light
You and I’ll be safe and sound


The Five Love Languages | [insp]

1. Words of Affirmation: Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.

2. Quality Time: In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

3. Receiving Gifts: Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.

4. Acts of Service: Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.

5. Physical Touch: This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.


couple #1 - clearly not over honeymoon phase (will they ever?), but very devoted and serious about each other. visit is very heartbreaking and profond. they are literally the cutest and the saddest.

couple #2 - spouse is clearly angry at his  now-criminal and hotheaded partner, not very good at hiding it, but also not very good at hiding affection that lays beneath it. Jaily lover is kinda tired to death and just hopes for some dirty talk.

About Episode 7x18

I saw many of you upset about some of Danny’s reactions in this episode. I’d like to share my thoughts.

First of all, this is a great episode which shows how much Danny means to Steve. He can’t imagine a life without Danny, ‘cause Danny is already a part, maybe the most important part of his life. When Steve thought Danny agreed with the name, that look on his face, it made me almost cry.

Now, about Danny.

With no doubts, he loves Steve, very much, maybe too much that more than he can bear. Steve loves him too, but that animal always add a “buddy” “bro” kind of word after “I love you”, which makes he confused. Is it that kind of love between two adults, or just two brothers? Danny’s actions give me a feeling that he was trying to keep a safe distance between him and Steve. He was trying to accept the future without Steve in it.

But Steve will never give him a chance, ever. Because Steve loves him more than he can ever know. Because their love to each other is indestructible. Because their fate has been bound together tightly since their first meet in McGarrett’s garage seven years ago.

I’m not sure if I have made it clear. My point is, don’t worry about our boys, they’re fine. Hopefully they finally get each other’s feelings after all these things.

Always have faith that one day they may canon.

McDanno Forever