I don’t understand why people are bashing, and making fun of Cam Newton. This Guy came a long way. Literally white people were coming for him cause he was a black QB. I’m really disappointed that some black people are going against him. This doesn’t make any sense whatsoever. We’re suppose to be supporting each other, not making memes about he’s reactions/Emotions during the game. The Guy has a lot going on, So many people were depending on him. He work so hard, he brought his team to the Super Bowl, he handed out footballs to his fans because of his awesome personality. I wish some people could see that.

Okay, we all need to have a little chit chat here.

I am literally so sick of checking my inbox or seeing it in comments on the effyourbeautystandards page on Instagram or seeing people just bashing other people because someone has joined and is participating in the body positive movement but they’re not doing it the way this person thinks is the right way to do it. So let’s just get something straight here.

You can lose weight and still be body positive.

You can wear makeup, dye your hair, get plastic surgery, or do whatever the fuck you want with your body and be body positive.

You can dislike or be uncomfortable with showing off a certain part of your body and still be body positive.

You can have bad self image days and still be body positive.

You can dislike parts of your body and still be body positive.


Nobody loves 100% of themselves and everybody has insecurities. And let me just say that from experience, being pestered about that certain part of yourself that you dislike over and over again, makes it a million times harder to try and love it. So how about in 2016, we all sit down, take a chill pill, and focus on ourselves instead of worrying about what everyone else is doing. Body positivity is not a race or a competition, everybody is on their own journey at their own pace and it’s not for you to decide whether or not that path/speed is right for them. Encouraging over criticizing 2k16. K? K. Glad we had this talk.

You don’t always need a plan. Sometimes you just need to breathe, trust, let go, and see what happens.

Okay listen up

My friend Dash is in deep shit right now, and I mean deep shit. After their father died and their mother lost one of their jobs, things are going in the shitter for them. They can’t even afford fast food, fast fucking food. I myself do not have money because I don’t have a job so this is all I can do to prevent my friend from dying in the streets. So please if anyone can help send money to veroniaeromosele@gmail.com on PayPal so they and their family can at lease survive through this. Please.

Thank you.


Raise your hand if you want to receive an EXO Valentine mail from your favorite EXO member! I know we all do :))) This month, IHAVEATHINGFOREXO decided to to this event for you guys! 

What is an EXO Valentine Mail?

It’s a Valentine envelope filled with EXO goodies related to each EXO member! There will be a total of 12 EXO Valentine mails :) The contents will be a suprise, of course ;)

So how exactly do you join this event? Read more below!

STEP 1: Follow IHAVEATHINGFOREXO. This event is for our lovely followers who constantly supports us each and every day! We will check!

STEP 2: Open your ASK BOX and SUBMIT BOX. If you do not open both of these, you will be disqualified. 

STEP 3: Watch out everyday for IHAVEATHINGFOREXO’s segments posted throughout the month of February. If you want to see which ones will be posted on what day, click here for the February Calendar. 

STEP 4: From Monday, February 8 to Saturday, February 27, there will be segments posted that will say “PARTICIPATE IN THIS SEGMENT TO GET A CHANCE TO RECEIVE _____’s VALENTINE MAIL!” 

For example, if there is a BATTLE segment that says “PARTICIPATE IN THIS SEGMENT TO GET A CHANCE TO RECEIVE SEHUN’s VALENTINE MAIL!”, you would have to vote on that battle to get a chance to receive Sehun’s Valentine mail. 

STEP 5: Once you participate in the segment, you will be entered into a raffle to receive the Valentine mail! Once the segment closes, we will reveal who will get the mail via randomizer. We will contact the winner so don’t forget to have your ask box and submit box open!

STEP 6: There will be 12 EXO VALENTINE MAILS dedicated to 12 MEMBERS scattered RANDOMLY throughout the month so it’s important that you check the blog frequently so you don’t miss a chance on receiving a mail! Easy, right? 

STEP 7: On Monday, February 29, all the Valentine mails will be shipped!

Important Note: If you already win a Valentine mail, you will NOT be eligible to win any more Valentine mails. We want more people to win in this event!

Are you all ready for this event? We can’t wait either!

And of course, if you have any questions or concerns, send us a message in the ASK/COMMENT BOX (off-anonymous would be preferred!). 


P.S. Please “LIKE” this post after reading! It would be appreciated!