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Darlin You'll Be Okay💜

@scarred-butnotbroken

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man, teenaged girls aren’t allowed to have a genuine interest in anything without being ridiculed for it. if a girl likes ugg boots and starbucks she’s stupid and stereotypical, but if she likes combat boots and obscure coffee houses she’s a hipster wannabe and is trying too hard. if a girl listens to boy bands and other popular artists she’s a dumb follower, if she reads comics or plays video games she’s a poser/fake geek girl, if she likes sex she’s a slut but if she doesn’t like sex she’s a prude, if she wears makeup she’s fake but if she doesn’t wear makeup she’s a slob, if she has low self-esteem she needs to learn to love herself but if she has high self-esteem she’s overconfident and vain, if she’s interested in politics she’s a crazy social justice warrior but if she prefers to stay out of social matters she’s a dumb airhead. girls are literally mocked for every single thing they like or do, no matter what those things are, and i’m really really sick of it.

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Disney Princesses In Accurate Period Costume.

SLEEPING BEAUTY (1485).

POCAHONTAS (17TH CENTURY POWAHTAN). 

CINDERELLA (MID 1860’S)

JASMINE (PRE-ISLAMIC MIDDLE EAST)

SNOW WHITE (16TH CENTURY GERMANY).

ARIEL (1890’S)

BELLE (1770’S FRENCH COURT FASHION).

CLARIE HUMMEL

Megara (Ancient Greece)

Mulan (Ancient China)

Tiana (1920’s)

Rapunzel (18th Century)

I’ve reblogged this 6 times probably

This is my new favorite post

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Me: *starts tearing up because I think about how soon I’ll be able to wear sweaters and flannels and boots and drink hot chocolate and wear footy pjs to bed and bake cookies and watch leafs fall and omg*

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!!! ATTENTION EVERYONE WITH STRESS/ANXIETY/PANIC DISORDER!!!

I recently came across this adorable little thing,the Nemuriale Sleep Aid Kitten.It is designed to help with panic attacks,stressful moments or sleepless nights by emitting a small beat that should help re-order your breathing and heartbeat to the optimal rhythm and have you feeling nice and calm again. Just turn on your Nemuriale and it will continue to beat softly for 20 minutes ushering you to a new feeling of total serenity. 

You can buy it here and Sign up here for an extra $5 off! 

IT’S CURRENTLY 20% OFF SO YOU CAN GET IT FOR 32$ AND EVEN 27$ IF YOU SIGN UP WITH THE LINK UP THERE ^

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PSA to all you vagina owners

Are your ovaries throwing a temper tantrum because you’re not pregnant?

Take some dry rice. Throw that shit in a large sock. Now throw the sock in the microwave for a couple minutes. Now its a wonderful heating pad to sooth your ovaries. Or your back. Or your neck. Or whatever part of your body is hurting.

Alternatively, you can also swing it around and smack people who tell you that periods “aren’t a big deal” and that you should “get over it”. This thing packs a punch.

^^this stuff works

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lovemysub
Anonymous asked:

Been reading ur blog. U need to stop calling urself a dom. All this lovey crap makes real doms sick. A sub is not for respecting and loving. A sub is for using and thats what they like. Its fine that u love ur girl, just dont call urself a dom. Real doms show dominance, use there sub and leave her laying like the cunt slut she is. Bein all sweet, and all that does is give her power over u, which makes u not a dom.

Hi there, Anon. I almost didn’t even dignify this with a response, but I think you’ve actually given me a good opportunity to say something that new doms need to know, so kudos to you. 

First and foremost, let’s establish something right here and now: You don’t get to tell me what I am, and you are damn sure not the leading authority on what does and does not constitute a dominant. For the record, I didn’t wake up one day and decide to be a dom. I never even thought of myself that way until I met belovedsangi 10 years ago. I always had the characteristics of a dom, sure, but I didn’t ever put that title on myself. That title was given to me by my submissive. SHE is the one who wanted to call me Master, and Sir, and sometimes Daddy. I never told her to do these things. But of course, you probably think I am making my point for you and that if I were a REAL domly dom, I would’ve demanded those things. 

And that’s where you have a fundamental issue understanding the meaning of the title. So let me help you with that. 

A dom does not demand respect. He conducts himself in such a way as to be worthy of respect. 

A dom does not bark commands. His presence is such that he can seduce and command with nothing more than a glance. 

A dom does not raise his voice. He is the kind of man who gets what he wants without needing to. 

A dom is not a braggart. He is possessed of a calm, quiet confidence that is evident in his demeanor, the way he walks, the tone of his voice, and all other aspects of him. 

A dom understands balance. He knows that while a firm hand and discipline are critical in this type of relationship, knowing when to be gentle and understanding is every bit as important. 

A dom is a gentleman first and foremost. That doesn’t necessarily mean that he is a fancy man who values the finer things in life, but he does understand manners and protocol. He opens the car door for her. He orders for her if she is having trouble deciding. He treats strangers with courtesy and respect. 

A dom is a protector. He makes sure that his submissive feels safe and protected at all times. This means so much more than just telling her you will protect her. A dom shows her. He keeps a hand on her shoulder or on her waist in crowds so she doesn’t get nervous. He sleeps on the side of the bed closest to the door so that he is always between his submissive and an intruder. He walks on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street so that an errant vehicle will hit him before his submissive. If anything or anyone should threaten his submissive, he must be prepared to fight for her with the ferocity of an alpha wolf. 

A dom earns her submission. It is not a thing to be demanded, expected, or assumed. And he continues to earn it, each and every day.  

A dom values her submission. Fully submitting your will and trusting your body and well-being to someone takes a kind of strength most can’t imagine, and a dom never loses sight of that. 

A dom understands that being a dominant is 10% privilege and 90% responsibility. He is literally taking her life into his hands. He is accepting the most sacred and important thing she has to give. He is taking her burdens and bearing them as his own, always, every day. 

A dom is consistent. He understands that he can’t just be her protector, lover, confidant, master, etc. when he feels like it. There will be days when a dom is tired. There will be days when he is stressed. There will be days when he is broken. On those days, it is more important than ever for a dom to show his submissive that he is still everything she needs him to be. 

So what does it mean, then, to be a dom? I get the feeling that you, anon, would say that it’s all about making her kneel, having your way with her, shouting orders and using her. Helpful hint: Any jackass can buy himself a whip and bark commands. That’s not a dom. Don’t get me wrong, I do absolutely have my way with belovedsangi. I love it when she kneels. I love the kinky, rough, mind-blowing sex we have. I love to dominate her in the bedroom. But for every moment of that, there are a hundred moments of holding her, of talking to her, laughing with her, gaming with her. There are a hundred moments of making her feel safe when she is afraid, giving her confidence when she is unsure, comforting her when she feels troubled. Those are all things that a dominant does too. 

I love my submissive more than I love oxygen. I love my submissive with a fire that can never be extinguished. I value her and respect her in every way. I treat her like a queen and fuck her like a slave. These things don’t make me weak. They don’t make me less of a dominant. These things make me stronger than you can possibly imagine. There is nothing quite so formidable as a dominant who has found the perfect submissive to fuel his fire. Never will you see anyone love so strongly or fight so fiercely. 

Bottom line, Anon, is this: you sound like a boy playing at being a man. You decided one day that you were sick of women having willpower and a voice of their own, so you decided to call yourself a dominant and seek out some weak-willed submissive who wouldn’t talk back to you or stick up for herself. You are not a dom. You are a jackass with a whip. Classic case of toodomforyou.

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I will repost this every time.

Wow this is so powerful.. Preach on brother. This is what I am talking about teaching coaching and mentoring. We need to find these would be Dom’s and either weed them out or educate them. Things get so misconstrued at times and sometimes it takes a hard rebuke to set someone on the correct path.

Found it again so reblogging again…. Forever gonna reblog

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Always reblog

This goes for mommys and nonbinarys too!

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dadaishome

The Daddy’s Guide to That Time of the Month!

I’m surprised I haven’t seen many people talk about this…  I suppose a lot of people get squeamish about this topic…  but it happens to all little girls!  If you don’t want to read about this, don’t.  Just don’t yell at me lol.

Even if its not the most pleasant thing, I think part of being a Daddy is making sure that ALL of my little girl’s needs are taken care of.  Plus, I’m sure it makes a lot of them feel big and grown up.  Helping her can make her feel little, and help make those feelings go away.  Here are some things that you can do to make your little sweetheart feel better, and ease her through her “Sick kitty week”.

 1)   Make sure she’s comfy, but still cute!

Surely, when she’s feeling sick and nauseous, a little girl isn’t going to want to dress up…  she’ll probably want to relax in sweatpants and comfy clothes, which is fine.  Still, you should help her get dressed, and make her feel like the little cutie pie she is!  Dress her in some pretty colorful pajama pants, put some extra stickers on her diapee, and keep her hair in pigtails so its out of her face.  This’ll help keep oils away from her face, keeping her skin clearer, and ultimately making her more comfortable.  Make sure to reassure her that even if she’s feeling icky, that she’s still a beautiful little baby.

2)   Give her some wiggle room!

Most likely, she isn’t going to be in the best of moods, so give her some extra lenience!  Let her be a little brattier, let her whine, let her cry when she needs to. 

3)   Give her everything she wants (within reason!)

Bring her on a trip to the toy store.  Bring her out for ice cream.  Watch extra cartoons with her, and her favorite food.  Pamper that princess!

4)   Dealing with cravings.

Of course, they’ll probably certain foods.  Some of the common ones are:

 -Chocolate

-Sugar

-Salt

-Coffee

-Alcohol

Don’t let her have all of these!  Too much sugar will cause her to crash, and feel worse.  Coffee will hype her up, at the cost of dehydration.  Alcohol is a temporary solution, but she’ll feel worse afterwards.  Besides, little girls shouldn’t be drinking!  Chocolate and sugar are ok in small amounts.  Girl’s need for Magnesium rises during their period, and chocolate is a good source.  Instead of normal candy chocolate, look for the mostly Cacao premium brands.  These will help satisfy the craving and need for Magnesium in a healthier way.  Some salt is important, as it helps you stay hydrated, but too much will cause bloating, which will make for a cranky baby!  Make sure she drinks plenty of water, and make sure she’s wearing diapees for when all of that water makes her have to pee!  You don’t have to be too strict about her diet.  If baby wants a cookie, give baby a cookie.  Just don’t give her ten cookies!

 5)   Female hygiene products

Luckily, diapees are essentially just a giant wearable pad, and will work fine as a replacement without the added worry of ruining any pretty big girl panties she has!  So make sure she’s diapered, and when you change her, make sure to not embarrass her for what is going on down there.  Wipe, give her hugs and kisses, and make sure she doesn’t feel like you’re doing a chore.  You’re just taking care of the baby! 

 There is also the possibility that your little sweetheart will want to use a tampon anyways.  Some of them think that the feeling of stuff coming out of there is icky, even if they like to use their diapees for other things.  That’s ok too!  So make sure you know how those tricky contraptions work.  They aren’t too hard to figure out, but being something a male most likely hasn’t had time to figure out, here is a nice guide with plenty of information:  http://www.wikihow.com/Use-a-Tampon

 DON’T FLUSH THE APPLICATORS.  Unless you know, you’re a Daddy with exceptionally good plumbing skills and are looking for some extra unclogging practice.  Also, make sure to change them every 6-8 hours.  As a bonus, change them during her diapee changes.  This way she’ll still feel little even if you’re helping her with a “big girl” activity.

 6)   Helping with the physical pain.

You can do lots of things to make her feel comfortable and care free, but cramps and migraines are likely to cause her at least some physical pain.  Make sure she takes regular Ibuprofen or Midol, and try to ease her symptoms.  For cramps, tummy rubs are sure to help a bit.  Making sure her belly is warm might also help.  I’m sure a hand warmer under a teddy would do the trick =) For Migraines, make sure the lighting isn’t too bright, and keep noise to a minimum. 

 Give her lots of cuddles!!!  First of all, wittle babies love cuddles.  Second, cuddling can cause the release of endorphins, a “feel-good chemical” which is in a way a natural painkiller.  By cuddling her little silly butt off, you’re literally taking away some of the pain.  

7)   Respect her boundaries

Maybe she thinks her period is an icky thing that she wants to keep private from you.  Maybe she’ll want to change herself for the week.  You never know!  It would probably be a good idea to talk to her about all of these things before just doing them.  Either way, she surely won’t mind the thought.

 Welp, that is everything I could come up with.  If anyone has any other ideas, leave a comment!  I think I was pretty thorough, but being a Daddy, I don’t have a kitty so I don’t directly experience these things.  I just don’t like the thought of my baby having to deal with it all by herself <3

This is so sweet! ^^

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Daily reminders for littles:

- You’re never ever ever too needy - You’re never ever ever “annoying” -You’re never ever ever too much to handle -You’re always ALWAYS cared about, loved, and adored by your caregiver/significant other - You’re ALWAYS a good prince/princess -You’re ALWAYS super enough -You’re the bestest little in the entire galaxy and never forget it! ✨