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@saturnbeary

saturn/cat | they/them | autistic little guy who writes and draws sometimes | multi fandom | @/titteringcat on ao3

quick intro:

  • please call me saturn or cat :D
  • they/them pronouns
  • i am a fanartist and occasional fic writer
  • @titteringcat previous blog
  • also titteringcat on ao3

fandoms I’m currently in (aka, what you might find fanart for)

  • across the spiderverse
  • les miserables
  • supernatural
  • harry potter: hogwarts mystery
  • heartstopper

(my art tag is #sat.art)

side blogs:

@snips4me (ahsoka content dumpster)

this post is subject to edits :) ty!!

les mis fans be like 'look at them i'm unwell' then post the most grainiest darkest screenshot of a bootleg you've ever seen in your life recorded from the back row of a theatre in 1997

Your post: more like Neil gay man lol

Your notifications:

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🔁 a-queer-spaceman rebloged and said : anybody else get an amonormativity vibe from this post?

🅾️ lovelyhouse replied: You know what? This isn’t funny. Nail gaiman is one of the greatest writers of our generation. Especially with all the harassment he’s been getting from anti ineffable husbands shippers. He doesn’t OWE you a normal name. Blocked and reported. I hope you end up in Guantanamo bay

😎 anonymous said: kill yourself faggot

🌸 kawaiipotato-alternate replied: 9400 Zane Ave N Brooklyn Park, MN 55443 United States everyone send bombs to this freaks house

//tw- mentions of pedophilia, csem, csa, and lolicon

Guys, please please please don’t use the term CSEM to refer to fictional pornographic drawings that involve fictional characters who are depicted as minors

I can’t believe I have to say this, but I’ve seen too many people, just in the past 24 hours, use the term to describe porn that someone drew

Holy shit, lolicon and the like is not CSEM, CSAM, or CP just because a hypothetical and fictional minor is involved in the art. Those terms are specifically used when talking about real sexual abuse cases involving real-world minors.

Fiction cannot be CSEM because it doesn’t involve the direct sexual exploitation and abuse of a real minor! The creation of these pieces of media do not involve the direct harm of a real minor!

Just say “lolicon” or “fictional porn involving fictional minors”. Just use something, ANYTHING, that isn’t used to specifically identify real life abuse materials! Please just don’t use a term that has this much seriousness attached to it as a means of labeling fictional content that you don’t like, even if it triggers you!

You being uncomfortable doesn’t justify the misuse of a term that is used to directly describe abuse, and it makes real victims of CSEM feel like shit when you label some random anime girl as a “victim” right next to them. Because, get this, when you label something fictional as CSEM, CSAM, or CP, you are inherently insinuating that there is a victim involved in the creation of this media, which is inherently untrue with fiction. STOP DOING THIS!!!

this is for those who despair over seeing ships or tropes that make them uncomfortable while they do their little scrolly-scroll on ao3, acting like they aren’t responsible for their own internet experience

(alternatively, the back button also works)

If you liked:

  • "women are my favorite guy"

Consider:

  • Supporting and accommodating multi-gendered people :)

Knowing tumblr this is gonna get death threats in my inbox, but here are some ways I'd like you to consider supporting multigender people!

  • No more "DNI cis people" or "DNI straight people." Personally this makes me feel very unwelcome as a person who still partially identifies with their AGAB. I'm technically somewhat cis by definition, but I'm nonbinary and trans. Stuff like this makes me feel like there's some sort of threshold of "queer enough" for people to be worthy of interacting with you. you're making a lot of multigender people feel unsafe by doing this. if you accept that bigender people are valid, you must also accept that people are gay and straight simultaneously, and cis and trans simultaneously. that's just kinda how being multigender works. a lot of multigender people will be alienated by this.
  • No more TME/TMA. Or any gender binaries at all. the world is not that simple, you can't just sort people's experiences into neat little categories. this one not only impacts multigender people, but GNC people, trans people who don't pass, and intersex people.
  • When people say "I use all pronouns" please take it to mean just that. I get this problem a lot. People hear that and think it's safe to just treat me like I'm cis or they/them me in fear of getting it wrong. Don't be shy to switch it up please! Especially with the pronouns that don't "match" our presentation, we probably barely hear those.