Hey so im all new in the sb thing and i wanted to ask you where can i get in touch w them ? I dont know where even to start ???? Like do i have to be myself ? Or tell him only lies ? A checklist how to start all this would be niceee 😭😭

If you are new… Why not try dating a wealthy man first as a kept woman or spoiled girlfriend before jumping into SB … 

You can start with bumble and dating apps and check out CEOs … But be very vigilant… People lie… Make sure they check out and put yourself as someone who only date men who can take you places in your career, romantically and adventure wise.

I know a lot of people frown on Sugar baby websites… But, I have heard my sponsor’s friends (All whales) Talk about being on the site and checking out it from time to time… So you, could get lucky

I am not sure where you are located… But look for the most luxurious and expensive part of where you are and do activities there… If you are in a small town but have big city around you… Find a way to take yourself there as often as you can (An investment you have to make) And again, frequent high-end places.

Shopping: I know i said, do not waste all your money on designer trying to keep up. However, instead of finding yourself in women’s designer shops… And i mean real designers not half way shit…  Find your way to men’s. One you will either meet a wealthy man yourself, or two you will meet an assistant buying for a wealthy man (befriend them ) or 3  befriend the stylist/workers in that shop…  (I have seen this happen )

And like I said… the best place to start is Groom yourself… Dress like you belong… Even if you are dressed down and casual, you should have an aura of Money.  Then read, read, read… Get informed as much as you can. it certainly helps in creating chemistry beyond sexual high with the man

I know people here advocate to Lie… And 99% of the time… You should.  Depending…

You can lie about your name (Depending on where, how you meet them and what you intend the relationship to be like). 

In my case, i tend to meet people who i meet through work or out in my daily life… So i don’t have the need to lie . If i met them on a website i will lie about my name

Work: If you have a shitty low job…. Then try to improvise with how you present it… I think your lies should be close to the truth that if things get serious you can wiggle out of it…. But if not, they still wont be able to find you. 

Example: If you are an online English Teacher to kids in Asia… Say you are a a personal tutor to a wealthy family (insert a wealthy part of town )….  Don’t give your company name

If you work in McDonald (I understand you are mostly the person in need of financial help… But if you are looking for a whale. My suggestions will be, try and find a better position before going at this. Maybe cocktail waitress or waitress at restaurants ). But if you haven’t and are working towards it… Say you are a cocktail waitress around (insert area with very high end restaurants of lounges,etc)

Or you can say you are a fashion student…. Something that makes you look like you are around wealth or plan on being around one.

Clothing: People carry fakes… If you are okay with that… then do you… But while the average man might not notice… Even some whales… (These men have been around wealth for so long… Luxury has a different freshness to it)… Make sure your things even if they are not designers always look new.

Word of caution… Some men will think you are either lying or stupid if you are a cocktail waitress wearing a chanel bag.  My suggestion is to look luxurious but have them guessing if it is designer or not. That way you are hard to categorize, yet they still treat you how you want to be treated.

Tell them truths about you that will make you seem genuine… But not truths that can be used against you and used to find you. Everything doesn’t have to be a lie.

Give me a little time And I will create a checklist… (Will update this when i do)