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Idk the whole “straight people are the majority of population” not only makes homophobes think this is an argument that straight is the norm and anything outside of it isn’t normal, but I’m pretty sure it’s simply not true.

We first have to consider how many LGBTQ+ people are in the closet, so they wouldn’t publicly say they aren’t straight, therefore they’re counted as straight even though they aren’t.

We also have to consider how fucking heteronormative this society is and how many people just haven’t figured out their identity maybe because people keep pushing them to be straight, or because they’re afraid to explore their sexuality.

I just think reproducing the speech that straight people are the majority doesn’t help at all, not only because it’s probably not true, but it contributes to people treating us as if we’re the ones being abnormal.

Out of all sexualities that exist I simply don’t believe being straight is the majority. I do believe a lot of people who think they’re straight are in the multisexual spectrum, but considering they’ve never explored that other part of their identity because they’re still attracted to the opposite gender, they simply haven’t figured that out. Not to mention how I think there’s way more people out there who’re either in the ace spectrum or aro spectrum, and how many more gays and lesbians who’re being pushed to like the opposite gender are out there.

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i think the aesthetic echo chamber created by tumblr is more dangerous than the political one bcs im self aware enough to kno my politics r radical but then me and the girlies are on here reblogging body horror and very weird erotic poetry and i get offline and interact w a real person and jokingly say something like fungus is tangibly divine in the way it facilitates the eternal dance of creation and destruction which is really creation as or by destruction and theyre like what the hell are you talking about freak. the aesthetic barrier between me and a girl in a vineyard vines tee is literally insurmountable. i find the trout to be a very nietzschean fish

This is true. The frontal lobe uses as much as 30% of your daily caloric intake. Imagine if every day, you had to max out on frontal lobe usage just to cope with reality. It puts the nervous system into a stress situation and this further affects the body’s ability to use calories efficiently.

Being neurodivergent or disabled means masking, and masking is incredibly difficult for the body. It’s also very demanding on the brain.

Also “you don’t look autistic” is fucking stupid and ableist to say.

Running ActLikePeople.Exe is fucking EXHAUSTING, let alone ActLikePeopleExpect.

To expand on the crumbling of the patriarchal edifice of the family.

If society agrees that children can know themselves, and have a right to self determination…. Everything else that Conservatives argue they have a right to exert over children crumbles. As just two examples….

ALL corporal punishment rightfully becomes recognised for the assault it is.

Failure to appropriately consider the wishes of children in medical care and provide information in an age appropriate way is recognised as child abuse and malpractice.

Children are entire people, they deserve all of the rights, privileges and protections afforded to adults.

I think this needs to be more said but if you’re someone who’s attracted to men (even if you’re a straight woman) you don’t need to date men.

A lot of us are raised to think we need to do things related to men but we don’t. You can be single if you want, being single doesn’t equate being lonely.

You don’t need to rely on men.

it is... actually transphobic and misogyny to call all trans masc lesbians men... you know that right? if they don't identify as men.. then they aren't men ??? masc lesbians exist and masc lesbians aren't trying to be men jdjqkfkg

men aren't lesbians! trans men are men! stop being transphobic!