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I'm primarily here for the fandoms. Everything else is just extra.

I’ll represent you in court :)

Isn’t it consensual when she gave him the photos when they were together 🔚

From a lawyer: “The photos were consensual. But she did not consent to distribution “

He really thought he did something with that comment and his lil stank emoji at the end lol

Reblog to save a LIFE dat shit is not ok

for the ladies, and even gentlemen, who follow me and find themselves in this situation.

Same goes for you Men. If your ex leaks photos of your dick or any videos you sent her, you can sue too. Yea, giving the photos with consent is Aight, but spreading them around and “exposing” Ain’t it chief

Probably reblogged this at some point but here we go.

How do you write healthy parent-child relationships?

this might be more response than you want, but interesting (and kinda depressing when you think about it) fact: there’ve been a bunch of research studies where parents have been asked what they think makes a healthy parent-child relationship, and they tend to like…not answer the actual question because they think they’re being asked what good parenting is, which is not the same. so they talk about things like helping kids with homework and making sure they eat well. children, on the other hand, usually respond to the same question with stuff that’s literally just the definition of healthy relationships generally. affection, honesty, respect, spending time together, sharing interests. and the real kicker is, objectively, we know that’s the kind of stuff that actually has a much better impact not only on whether or not the relationship is strong and positive but also the kid’s overall happiness and psychological health.

so, if you want to write a character who’s really intent on being a Good Parent you’d have them putting massive effort into making their kid Grow Up Right, worrying about shit like if they have The Right Friends and they’re spending Enough Time Outside. but if you want to write a good relationship, just make parent and kid laugh together and respect boundaries and be emotionally supportive, like you would when writing a solid pair of friends or romantic couple.

No that was actually really helpful and I’m glad you took the time to give a serious response

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REMINDER TO THE TWITTER REFUGEES THAT TUMBLR IS AN INTERACTIVE SITE.

See how your dashboard is covered in posts? Yeah, that's because people reblogged them. Reblog posts. Reblog artwork and gifsets and text posts. If you like a post, reblog it.

"Oh but I'm nervous about social interaction" reblogging isn't social interaction. It's not. Its only interactive if you add a comment or something to it. Otherwise, it's adding things to a virtual scrapbook by yeeting the additions into a swirling vortex. No interaction necessary. Someone makes a post you like, you reblog it, that's it. Job done. Zero interaction, but a post has made it one step further in finding its way to people that might enjoy it.

Reblog stuff. For fucks sake.

Wait so when I spam reblog (not like one post over and over, but sometimes I just scroll through a blog and reblog almost everything I see) it's not annoying people

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Most of us not only aren't annoyed by someone going through and reblogging a bunch of stuff from us in a row, we actively enjoy it, because it means that whatever we've been posting has been a hit with others. It's like "yay! My followers liked the things I shared!" Which is kind of the whole point of this website. It's for us to say "Hey I like that; maybe those subscribed to me will like it also." If you reblog 32 posts in a row from someone, it's a sign that they've curated a good collection of posts.

If spamming someones notifications is something you're concerned about, though, you can always use the queue or schedule functions to spread the reblogs out a bit. With the schedule, you can select the exact date/time you want a reblog to be released, and with the queue, you set it up to share one post every x-many hours (up to you how frequent or infrequent), and then you add reblogs to your queue, so that (for example) they're released one by one every 3 hours. This means your name will only show up in their notifs once every three hours, which means you can reblog their whole entire blog, if you want, and it won't appear to them as spam.

Again though, most of us don't mind opening up our notifs and seeing one name over and over again in there. I personally love it; it makes me feel like I've made a meal, and someone has come and eaten themselves into a food coma on the food I created. It's great