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Hi I'm Finn and I'm trans!

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You can always talk to me! This is a safe place for everyone!♡ [ Gender-queer // Non-binary ][ masculine // he/they ][ LGBTQ+ ♡ ] I mostly reblog LGBTQ+ // Trans related stuff.

i’m getting evicted for being trans & I need help. 

hey guys. my name’s chris. i was born christina. from the time I was five years old, I knew I was trans. and I spent my high school years being picked on for being too boyish. Art was my escape. Through art, I could draw my body exactly how I wanted it to look.

This year I turned 18, and finally told my mom and dad I’m trans. I wanted to do it before Christmas, so I could spend my first Christmas out of hiding. I knew my parents would be upset, but I didn’t expect them to kick me out.

Sadly, they turned on me. they said they loved me, but that i’d be a bad influence on my five-year-old brother. a big part of me is relieved that I’ll be out of the house, but the other part of me is freaking the fuck out. i’m jobless and broke. i have three more weeks before I have to pay rent and groceries all on my own. I’ll be looking for a job, but in the meantime I'm desperate to have the security of a month’s rent.

Please PLEASE help me. if you can even give $5 … it will help so much. 

PLEASE DONATE HERE and spread the word.

We are the Pride Knights, and this is our battle cry No enemy can shake us, as hard as they can try There’s a fire in our eyes that no hatred can kill A passion in our hearts that’s as strong as our will To our fellow queers who fight their battles on their own We promise to fight with you, you are never alone To our fellow queers who have fallen with the pain We thank you for your courage, your fight is not in vain
We are defenders of the right to be proud of who you are To love who you love and to accept every scar We are your knights, protectors of our pride Together we stand, together we ride

Thank you everyone for the overwhelming support you have shown for this project and for joining the @prideknights. Our goal is to let everyone feel and know they are valid no matter who they are. 

The website has been fully funded! Our next goal is to create armor so we can make empowering and inspirational Youtube videos! For anyone who wants to help: Be your local Pride Knight and support and empower others. You can get these designs on a variety of items in our store. The campaign ends on December 15. 

Words can’t describe how much I love this.

Great news everyone! The Etsy shop we work with for the armour has given us a 20% discount because she believes in our cause! The armour is now 42% funded! Thank you everyone for your support 🌈🔥🗡❤

So you are going to make empowering videos giving motivational speeches or something as a Pride Knight and inspire thousands of people who struggle with their sexual orientation or gender identity? 

That’s exactly what we’re going to do!

I totally support this. You have my sword!

And my axe!!!

Human lives aren’t opinions

Human lives aren’t opinions

Human lives aren’t opinions

Human lives aren’t opinions

Human lives aren’t opinions

Human lives aren’t opinions

Lee says:

Here’s a transitioning starter pack for all my trans folk out there! 

Transfeminine resources:

Presentation:

Medical transitioning:

Other:

Transmasculine resources:

Presentation:

Medical transitioning:

Other:

More resources:

Anyone can reblog, including allies!

Okay so, I have this possibly helpful tip/product for trans guys. I know it might seem like a small thing but often with trans dudes the smallest things can make a huge difference.

So, basically I found these underwear (made by Hanes) that are technically women’s underwear but they just look like boxers. (heres a picture)

Now, the reason I’m highly recommending these is because they’re made to fit a female body. The inside even has a place you can put a pad so you don’t have to wear those girly panties for a week each month (if that applies to you, it’s a definite plus). Not to mention they’re affordable (i found a two-pack on sale for 5$) and, since they’re technically women’s underwear, it might be easier to slide by the lesser-supportive parents and the like.

Again, this seems like a really small and dumb thing, but dysphoria’s a bitch and I know y'all just want somethin’ comfy between you and those jeans.

!!!!FUCK YEAH???!!! FUCK Y E A H!!!

@triggerwarned @aven-rave and any of my other trans bros I forgot.

Reblog to help a brother out

in case you don’t know yet:

i’m proud of you.

life is so hard but here you are; living, fighting, doing your best. “im not living”, yes you are. maybe life it’s not really good right now, but you’re here and you’re living.

that’s such an important thing. do not let anyone take it away from you. never. i believe in you. keep going. 

PSA

Trans rights are human rights

Trans rights are human rights

Trans rights are human rights

Trans rights are human rights
Trans rights are human rights
Trans rights are human rights
  • Trans rights are human rights
  1. Trans rights are human rights

It’s trans awareness week everyone so here’s a guide.

Here’s the transgender flag:

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FTM and MTF can be found offensive by trans individuals, while others may present themselves with such terms. FTM: Female to male. MTF: Male to female.

Since transgender people are the gender they identify with it’s not hard to see, though I see this mistake a lot, that transgender women identify as women and transgender men identify as men.

Nonbinary means a gender outside the gender binary i.e. male and female.

Nonbinary folks are transgender as they do not conform to their birth sex. Edit: not all nonbinary people identify under the trans lable, respect that. Though, they have another flag to use as well as the one above.

Here is the nonbinary flag:

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Common identities under the umbrella term that is nonbinary are:

  • Gender queer (can also be used as an umbrella term)
  • Demi gender- having a partial connection to a gender
  • Gender fluid- having a gender that varies (often hard to pin down)
  • Gender flux- having a gender that gradually changes to another gender edit: can also be a variance in intensity of gender
  • Third gender- a gender that is not male or female
  • Agender- not having a gender
  • Bigender- being two genders either at once or at different times (any two genders)

Each of these identities comes with its own flag.

Most nonbinary people appreciate the use of they/them pronouns, but may ask for others or have changing requests.

Transgender people have a hard enough time with their dysphoria without constant purposeful misgendering and dead-naming. Respect people’s identities no matter how they sound to you.

Quick note:

Transgender people may present however they please and after you are informed of their identification, pronouns, and name, use them.

I won’t not reblog this. Mateo is a personal friend of mine and this needs more attention than it’s been getting. He was dragged out of the room by his collar, the police wouldn’t let him use his wheelchair.

Mateo will not be silenced, and he will not be erased.

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The thing about being LGBT+ is, at some point in your childhood, no matter how accepting your parents are, at some point, you have to question: “do they love me unconditionally?” And then you have to plan for the possibility hat the answer is no. And that fucks you up. Straight cis people never have to question that.

i know that this may be hard to believe, but:

  • you are not a burden
  • you deserve happiness
  • you deserve to be listened to
  • you are so strong
  • you are kind
  • you are amazing
  • your situation right now is not your forever
  • it’s going to get better
  • your best is good enough
  • you are good enough
  • you are beautiful
  • you deserve to live your best life
  • you’re working so hard
  • you’ve gotten through everything that has been thrown at you so far; you can get through this too
  • you are worth so much
  • you are wonderful
  • you can choose positivity 
  • your past does not define you
  • your mistakes do not define you
  • your grades and achievements do not define you
  • your mental health does not define you
  • your struggles do not define you
  • it’s never too late to try again
  • it’s never too late to start
  • you are cared for
  • you are valued
  • you are so important
  • i am so proud of you
  • you’re going to be okay