his name is ice maker
Transfem in need of aid ASAP
my home situation is quickly degrading at the moment. i am currently living w a partner and a member of their family, but this morning there was an incident that makes it very clear to me i am not going to be welcome here soon. i fled to calm myself elsewhere before an ultimatum was given.
i have a friend offering me a vehicle if i can meet the cost of repairs and i will also need to find the money to secure a new living situation, hopefully still in my current area.
All of this, of course, is compounded by mental illness and transness being major barriers to stable employment.
anything helps
Pp: aeronneff93@gmail.com
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Ok it's getting real. Got woken up this morning by my partner's parent yelling at them, apparently demanding we both leave the house. My partner thinks this is the worse end of a pattern of mood swings but I just see it as the worse end of what I've dealt with getting even worse. I have not made significant progress toward leaving alone as I'm still struggling hard to get hired.
PLEASE HELP.
really jealous of people who can just... do things. like they dont go through the 39 stages of grief before and the 47 stages of grief after. they just do it like its some adidas commercial. like the spirit of shia laboeuf possessed them. still sounds fake to me but whatever. good for them ig
"The trannies should be able to piss in whatever toilet they want and change their bodies however they want. Why is it my business if some chick has a dick or a guy has a pie? I'm not a trannie or a fag so I don't care, just give 'em the medicine they need."
"This is an LGBT safe space. Of COURSE I fully support individuals who identify as transgender and their right to self-determination! I just think that transitioning is a very serious choice and should be heavily regulated. And there could be a lot of harm in exposing cis children to such topics, so we should be really careful about when it is appropriate to mention trans issues or have too much trans visibility."
One of the above statements is Problematic and the other is slightly annoying. If we disagree on which is which then working together for a better future is going to get really fucking difficult.
I think this is something young people in particular are confused about. My dad has always had a slightly off color sense of humor, he always feels the need to privately ask me “boy turned girl or girl turned boy?” if I mention a friend and stress said friend’s pronouns, and yet when we had repair work done in the house and the worker was listening to a podcast discussing the evils of transgender people and how to cleanse society, he went out of his way to contact the owner of the business to discuss his disappointment with that worker’s conduct and stress the negative effect that could have had if there had been trans kids in our home.
Our allies will never be perfect. They will never use the perfect language or have the perfect politics. But we have to appreciate those allies and meet them where they are, especially if they are willing to learn.
not being able to see prev tags is killing me please im so nosy pleqse this is destroying me slowly from the inside out
not enough people are fond of things nowadays. reblog if you're a true fondler
I think this might rub some people wrong, but I think it's important to say.
If you fucked up in the past in a relationship (platonic or romantic), it's not fair for that mistake to be held over your head.
It's important that we apologize and take accountability and try and do better in the future. And even doing those things, it doesn't mean someone needs to forgive you and keep you in their lives. But if they decide to keep you in their lives and try and move on with you, then it's not fair for past mistakes to be thrown in your face. Whether it's because you're fighting, or another reason.
Their feelings are valid about your mistake. And maybe sometimes they want to talk about it, and that's okay. But it's not okay for them to hold your mistakes over your head. There's a big difference between saying "hey, I'm having feelings about this thing again. Can I get some reassurance?" and them attacking you about it. You don't need to allow yourself to be attacked because you messed up in the past.
You don't deserve your mistakes to be held over you forever. You deserve to be able to grow, and move on from them.
please look at this picture junji ito drew of his moms crusty white dog
any advice for someone who isn't really that interesting?
you weren’t put on this earth to entertain people. live your life as a boring bitch to the fullest.
Dear President Joe Biden I am a poor Irishman suffering under the tyrannical rule of god-king charles the third and have nothing to drink but sewage water please send fifty crates of Dunkin'™️ Donut's™️ Dunkin'™️ Spiked™️ to Ireland immediately
Thoughts on NPC streams
idk what that is
You get an email from “Bear”. Just Bear. The subject line is “Just Imagine”. You open it and it is a picture of a salmon and nothing else




