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@romanparrishlynch

just a girl reblogging everything that comes across her...
“In a marriage you love yourself first. You expose your bruised heart, you brush the dust off you yourself. You clean the house for yourself first. Not as a duty. Not as a responsabilty. As a favor to you. And you love, love yourself first. You peel the oranges for yourself first. You are tender with yourself. You smell the cinnamon, your salty mouth, your eyes of peppermint. You love that about yourself first. In a marriage, it’s never the husband who is misunderstood. The one drowning in the kitchen. Heartbreak and tears, and all kind of spices. The one with knife-cuts on both hands. The one standing tall. You love yourself because in a marriage time is more expensive than jewerly. And you don’t give yourself time? My woman, ’ tell me why don’t you enjoy yourself? Why do you wreck the world only to find out you are the center of the universe? Love yourself, cause you love more than anybody else. Nobody loves like you. In a marriage, you are elegant, sophisticated. Nobody owns you. Or owes you. God created you brilliant. And you know prayers of love. In a marriage you put yourself first. Cause the women before you would be damned if you gave your heart, the secret of the world, away to anyone less powerful, less tender than you.”

Collection Of Marriage Advices by Royla Asghar 

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"Rail only works over short distances" one of the most detached from reality carbrain statements I've ever read. Rail is objectively, demonstrably better to cover long distances than it is to cover short distances. Car culture legitimately gives you some kind of brain fungus.

did other Americans not get taught extensively in history about the Transcontinental Railroad and why it was such a huge deal

The entire POINT of rail is that it's good at long distances

girl what 😭

how old must we be before we are allowed to think about sex, i can never remember, they keep moving the goal posts.

We're never allowed to think ab sex sorry. Teen years are hormonal but being horny before 18 is a sin. When you're horny and 18-25 its cringe. When you're horny 25-35 "you should get a partner and stop being openly horny." When you're horny 35-45 that's weird because you're "kinda old." When you're horny 45-55 you're a creep. And when you're horny 55+ you're an old person who can't and shouldn't be horny. This is how they think. Sex bad, basically. Thinking about sex is bad. Wanting sex is bad. Anything even mildly related to sex or sexuality is bad.

about sums it up

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if you think it's weird don't follow their nsfw accounts: problem solved

Production houses: but if the writers stay on strike we can't guarantee the future safety of your favorite shows 🥺🥺😭😭

Viewers who 1, have already lost their favorite shows because they were cancelled in spite of good ratings and good reviews or 2, have stopped watching new content entirely until the entire series has aired and concluded as a result of so many good shows getting cancelled on cliffhangers and thus leaving said viewers unable to gain closure with those characters and with a hollow viewing experience, so they've begun a, watching older shows they know came to a planned conclusion or b, revisiting their old favorites and enjoying the nostalgia or c, reading new books or fanfic instead: YOU ALREADY CAN'T GUARANTEE THE FUTURE OF OUR SHOWS SO GET FUCKING WRECKED AND PAY WRITERS WHAT THEY DESERVE!

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idk who needs to hear this rn but suffering is not noble. take the tylenol

One time when I was younger I was refusing to take headache medicine and my mom said “the person who invented that medicine is probably so sad you won’t let them help you” and now every time I find myself denying medicine I just imagine the saddest scientist making those big wet eyes like “why won’t you let me help” and whoop then I take the medicine

scientist when you don't take the medicine they developed to help your pain

As long as you are taking a SAFE dose of it, then it's *good* for you. Pain is bad for the body. The inflammation from prolonged pain can worsen chronic issues and make it harder to heal.

Ibuprofen is best for pain that has inflammation, while acetaminophen doesn't help with inflammation but is more broadly effective on other types of pain. As long as you are taking the recommended dose, you can even take them TOGETHER, since they have different mechanisms of action.

You do need to be aware of how much and how often you are taking any pain medication. Overdoses can be very painful (even lethal.) And if you are in chronic pain often enough that you need more than the safe dose, then you need to look into other medications to manage that pain.

(Also, if you are specifically taking Acetaminophen/Tylenol for your go-to pain management, getting some NAC and taking that with it reduces the risk of overdose AND may strengthen the effect.)

One other thing: NSAIDS (ibuprofen, aspirin, and naproxen being the three big ones) can cause digestive issues with chronic use, including stomach ulcers. That doesn't mean "don't take them," it means "if you're at the point where you're on them all the time, every day, constantly, you should talk to a doctor about either reducing that risk or switching to another medication that doesn't have those side effects."

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Homophobes: *try to destroy rainbow statue*

Gays: “fine then we’ll make it an actual damn rainbow”

Reblog to put indestructible rainbows everywhere and kill a homophobe

The fact that Warsaw is a capital of my country makes IT even better for me to reblog

Bc BRO OUR FUCKING POLITICIANS MADE AN ANTI-LGBT ZONES (they deleted them after getting screamed at by EU) BUT STILL

Gross nature is a fundamental aspect of life. There is not a living thing that is not in some ways grotesque and base. Purity is only attainable by the mummified dead. In many ways, gross and vital are synonyms. The putrid swamp is dense with life, the living body cycles in masticated flesh and out vile waste. This exchange is holy, for that same waste will nurture budding fruit. Life within life within life, a spiral of beauty and profanity.

jessamine lovelace.... she's cruel she's mean she's disrespectful but as the story goes on and her backstory and reasoning is revealed more and more she becomes so hard to dislike despite it all because she's not acting out of pettiness or cruelty but rather pure desperation. and that doesn't get better for her it just gets worse until it gets to a point where she's fully deluding herself because she's SO desperate to have the life she's always wanted but can't have that she clings to a tiny tiny sliver of hope and she betrays everyone she knows for it and she's tortured for it and in the end it wasn't even real. it was just adult men taking advantage of a vulnerable child. and afterwards she's forced to go back to live the life she said she'd rather die than have to live except she does just that, die a horrible violent death before she can even reach the front steps of her former home. but even in death she doesn't find the relief she thought she would because she's now a ghost who cannot leave, still forced to live out that life she never wanted, except now it's for all of eternity

i know most of the "jaskier is super powerful secretly" content comes from netflix fans and there's nothing necessarily wrong with that kind of content. HOWEVER. it has always bothered me because there's an implication in those works that jaskier must be powerful to have value to both geralt and the narrative, which goes directly against the message the books go out of their way to nail into you every 5 seconds and that is that jaskier is incredibly useless in most ways and even sometimes a hindrance but geralt keeps him around because he values and cares for him so much that jaskier being with him makes geralt's life more tolerable