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How to Love an Introvert

1. Try not to take their need for space personally. It doesn’t mean they don’t love you.

2. Don’t try to fix them. Accept an introvert for who they are and they’ll be loyal to you for life.

3. Know that introverts don’t let many people in, so you must be pretty important to them.

4. Introverts hate confrontation. Give them time to process things instead of pressing for immediate answers.

5. If you want an introvert to open up more, truly listen without interrupting when they do talk.

6. Recognize an introvert’s need for alone time is crucial to their health and happiness.

7. Know that introverts are fiercely loyal when they love someone and they expect the same in return.

IntrovertSpring.com

How to Find your Purpose

1. Take time to ponder the questions “What really matters in life; what do I want to have achieved when I look back over my life?”

2. Make time for solitude and silence. Filling every minute makes it hard to listen to our intuition, or that inner guiding voice.

3. Seek out people who inspire you – and then learn from them. There are many people who live inspiring lives. We can learn from their experience, and what they have to share.

4. Consciously monitor your progress. It is easy to slip back into unproductive habits. Hence, we need to be committed to sticking to our plan.

5. Accept that struggles and setbacks will be part of your experience. There will be times when you are tempted to give up and stop trying … but choosing to keep going will lead you to your dreams.

dear unrequited, i moved a little too fast. i jumped a little too high and leapt a little too far, so i apologize. i’m easily impressed, you see. you’re the first one to send my thoughts over the moon since my heartbreaker, so maybe i miscalculated. maybe i thought the universe owed me someone like you, after all the heartbreaks i never wanted. the problem is that you’re picture perfect. i see sunrises and gold and everything good in your eyes, when all i’ve been seeing lately are half moons and my reflection in a rearview mirror. but that’s not all that i fell for. i fell the farthest over the way words could roll off my tongue without the filter, and the way you listened to them without narrowed eyes or a gun in your back pocket. i fell for you because i understood you, and I just thought you understood me, too. i’m sorry if I ruined everything. i’m sorry if you won’t be able to look at me the way you used to, without awkward silences or pitying gazes. a part of me doesn’t know why i’m so sorry. i just want to feel loved again, i think that’s all it is. i wanted to be loved and i thought you loved me the same way i did. but you didn’t, and i think i’m okay with that. love, maybe.

letters I will never send #3 (via sparksofingenuity)

Every time I see you I get drawn back in and I know how it’s going to end because it ends the same way every single time and I know how I’m going to feel because I feel the same, shitty way every single time. But I still want it. Knowing the consequences and the pain and the problems, I still look at you and I still want it.
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Some people don’t realize what they have until it’s gone, but that does not always mean they are supposed to get it back.

Stephan Labossiere (via suspend)