fireflies lighting up a rural Pennsylvania field at dusk
As a european i sometimes forget furefkied are actually real and not american folklore/cryptids. Like you’ve got friendly little bugs that glow in the dark….. b r uh
in case europeans were worried: we love them very much! even tho they’re clumsy and slow and sometimes bump into you, no one swats fireflies here, or takes them for granted. even grownups sometimes reach out in the summer and gently catch a firefly for a minute before letting it go.
By “reach out” that’s meant quite literally–you just kinda. Stick your hand in their flight path and they land on you and will sit on your hand for a bit. Sometimes if you’re just walking or standing outside while they’re active you have to shoo them off you because they’ll just. Sit on you.
They’re harmless and very pretty and it’s always a treat to see because they’re out for a relatively short time each year.
me trying to explain to my white, American husband why Filipino icon Charice becoming Jake Zyrus is a big deal:
#I can’t fucking believe I missed this#I am embarrassed to say I watched Glee the other night and was like#hmmm wonder what Charice is up to these days#and I was like HE’S TRANS???#HES SO MUCH HAPPIER???#HES HOT???#just bawling my eyes out#and my husband was like ? why are you reacting like this#it’s because Jake Zyrus is a beautiful Filipino king babe please
If you don't mind sharing, when did you know you were poly? I think I might be but still not sure. Did you try monogamy before? If you did, what does your triad feel like in comparison?
Oh gosh, this is gonna be a long one, folks.
So I didn't have a word for it for a very long time. But throughout college, I was very excited to make as many connections as possible. I wanted to explore my sexuality, I wanted to love and have sex with whoever I wanted, wanted to find out what kind of people really resonate with me. I never had any strictly monogamous relationships during that time but I always justified this thinking that college was not a great time to make roots as I wasn't planning on staying in that town anyways. All the partners I had were mostly cool with this but we always just called it, "an open relationship." At this point I didn't think this aspect of myself was a permanent part of me- I thought I just had that college wandering eye.
"what's your dream job??" Uhh to have 17 weird little hobbies that I don't have to be good at and hang out with friends. I get money via being the world's specialist little princess
You’re in the squad because of your optimized combat build and heavy weapons. I’m in the squad because they’re trying to romance me and want to hear my dialogue options. We are not the same.
I love both my partners so much
this weekend I sang a karaoke duet with my husband for the first time and he helped pick out some new plants for my bedroom window 🥺 and we cuddled and watched spy x family for hours…
today my girlfriend came over and we napped and had sex so good I can’t sleep right now 😩 she’s so cute and sexy and funny and smart and I love talking to her and hanging out with her (and touching her 🫠)
Also!!! I recently got my first tattoo!!
I don’t know I thought I’d give you guys some updates…. I am so happy and I feel so loved 💕
You see a big ass frog in the woods, what you doin
I have mixed thoughts on sex work. I love sex, but I hate work!
“Yeah, we hate seeing you work too!”
how does this post keep getting better
The inherent homoeroticism of killing your enemy and immediately regretting it
It’s about rage, it’s about obsession, it’s about making that two-person war your entire raison d’être. It’s about loving and mistaking it for hatred and loving and loving and loving to the point of destruction. His or yours, it doesn’t matter. And you think seeing him dead at your feet will make you feel better, but all you feel is a whole lot of nothing.
So I’ve been taking singing lessons for a little bit and I finally found my singing voice 😭
I’ve always sang the way I talk and had no idea how to not do that. Then yesterday my vocal coach had me do a lot of weird vocal exercises where I had to mimic various animals and eventually, it clicked. I know it comes natural to a lot of people but I never got it, ya know? I was certain my voice was built in a way that made singing difficult.
I am so happy to be wrong!!! Anyways I’m in my 30s homies… if you’re wanting to try something new it’s never too late. 😩💜
puss in boots: the last wish..................