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Return of the Judai

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Thoughts, Discussions and Opinions on Jewish Life, Culture, Tradition, Religion and History. Jewish and gentile followers are both welcome. This is an Islamophobia free zone. If non-Jews want to ask us serious questions about Jews and Judaism, we promise not to give angry answers. We reserve the right to close this dialogue if too many people abuse it. Admins are Chaim, an Ashkenazi Jew of Polish/Ukrainian extraction; Linda, a Mizrahi Jew of Syrian extraction (currently on hiatus); and Miriam. Questions on specific ethnic issues should be directed accordingly; if you're asking a follow-up question and/or want an specific mod to answer, please refer to us by name so the question is properly addressed. Gentile followers should not reblog posts tagged "intra-Jewish issues" or "goyim don't reblog" otherwise reblog away.
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MJL promoting a piece by a BHI

MyJewishLearning published yesterday an article written by a Black Hebrew Israelite (BHI for short) - for those who are not familiar with them, they are an evangelical Christian movement that promotes antisemitic ideas.

The author claims to suffer with racism from within the Jewish community, but the article reads in a very weird way. So I decided to check (and I’ve seen that a few others on Facebook did as well), and found her page on a BHI website: Celeste Jackson; and her mom, Mother Anna “Levy”. Their “synagogue” is a BHI church in Saint Albans, NY.

There is racism in the community, and pieces like these (be it by Celeste Jackson or Nylah Burton, et al) make it harder to address that because they provoke a growth of scepticism toward those who actually face racism in the Jewish community. The reference others have often is non-Jews faking being Jewish for the sake of identity politics (Nylah), or whatever BHIs are doing (Celeste). Which makes easier for detractors to claim that when Jews facing such issues come forward with complaints, they are lying, just look at these *points to the LARPers*.  

It is doubtful if Tali (the Ethiopian Jewish friend) is aware that Celeste is a BHI. Both in Israel and abroad, Ethiopian Jews do not buy into BHI claims, and there is at least one video available on YouTube of such confrontations.

Please be careful with what you share, since Jewish publications clearly have missed the mark big time and keep ignoring Jews who come forward with complaints. I wrote an email to MJL (about racism, my experiences within the community, the effects - on Jews actually facing racism - of publishing an article by this con artist), and would encourage anyone interested in writing to them write as well, the email is community@myjewishlearning.com

Wait, this is the first I’ve heard of Nylah not actually being Jewish.

It’s a thing I’ve seen a couple of times but that fact that it always comes up when people don’t want to listen to Nylah Burton makes me suspicious of its authenticity

OK, just did some reading - she’s patrilineal with a Christian mother, and she feels no need to convert to the Conservative or Orthodox movements.

I understand this is a touchy subject and halachically speaking she’s not actually Jewish by these communities’ standards, but that’s a far cry from being a total outsider to the Jewish community, sent to undermine us with false accusations.

She's not patrilineal. Both of her parents are non-Jews, and she comes from a fundamentalist Christian background - there is a claim that maybe one of her great-grandparents was Jewish (dad's side) but even that is a maybe. Once this was all uncovered (which you'd have known if you have contact with Jewish groups on Facebook, where plenty of this is available), she started claiming that she feels Jewish, she won't convert, etc. She also requested for money for Jewish events (from gullible people like the ones claiming that somehow I am wrong for saying that a non-Jew is a non-Jew), which she never held and just seems to have put in her pocket. 

What people like her is just cheapening what it means to be a visibly non-white Jew (black, mixed race, among others) and to face racism in the Jewish community. And that I will not accept. I have gone through too much scrutiny due to my looks/colour and racism from other Jews to ever be okay with someone coopting my struggles for her personal gain. If you prefer to ignore black and brown Jews telling you that, that's your problem and you are part of the problem. 

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MJL promoting a piece by a BHI

MyJewishLearning published yesterday an article written by a Black Hebrew Israelite (BHI for short) - for those who are not familiar with them, they are an evangelical Christian movement that promotes antisemitic ideas.

The author claims to suffer with racism from within the Jewish community, but the article reads in a very weird way. So I decided to check (and I've seen that a few others on Facebook did as well), and found her page on a BHI website: Celeste Jackson; and her mom, Mother Anna "Levy". Their "synagogue" is a BHI church in Saint Albans, NY.

There is racism in the community, and pieces like these (be it by Celeste Jackson or Nylah Burton, et al) make it harder to address that because they provoke a growth of scepticism toward those who actually face racism in the Jewish community. The reference others have often is non-Jews faking being Jewish for the sake of identity politics (Nylah), or whatever BHIs are doing (Celeste). Which makes easier for detractors to claim that when Jews facing such issues come forward with complaints, they are lying, just look at these *points to the LARPers*.  

It is doubtful if Tali (the Ethiopian Jewish friend) is aware that Celeste is a BHI. Both in Israel and abroad, Ethiopian Jews do not buy into BHI claims, and there is at least one video available on YouTube of such confrontations.

Please be careful with what you share, since Jewish publications clearly have missed the mark big time and keep ignoring Jews who come forward with complaints. I wrote an email to MJL (about racism, my experiences within the community, the effects - on Jews actually facing racism - of publishing an article by this con artist), and would encourage anyone interested in writing to them write as well, the email is community@myjewishlearning.com

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Anonymous asked:

have you seen felix& meira. idk how i feel about it. but then again it is with hadas yaron and melissa weisz...

I have. It’s a really bad movie, lol. People taking a cours de francisation in Montréal sometimes watch it, that’s how I got to know about this movie in the first place.

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Anonymous asked:

My family has a Jewish background on my dad's side, and my great-grandparents were all Jewish. Should I get tested to see if I am a carrier for Tay-Sachs if I am not immediately related to any Jewish family members?

I’d say it’s advisable to get screened. From JScreen FAQ:

Should I be screened if I’m not Jewish or if I have converted to Judaism?
Yes. JScreen’s panel includes more than 200 genetic diseases that are commonly found in both the Jewish and general populations. Therefore, the JScreen panel is applicable for those with Jewish and non-Jewish ancestry.
Only one of my parents is Jewish. Is this program right for me?
Yes. Having even one Jewish grandparent puts you at increased risk for carrying one or more of the Jewish disease genes.

I’m taking it from this particular group’s website because I knew the answers were right there, I’m not paid by them to advertise their work or anything :)

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My grandma has always been-literally-the black sheep of the family. What photos we've found of her family all show the same dark curly hair and swarthy complexion, & as children, my uncles were taunted for "looking Jewish". We initially suspected North African or even Aborigine Australian heritage but recently we stumbled across headstones of her family buried in Jewish cemeteries! Her family all had distinctly Polish/German/Ashkenazic-sounding surnames, which was our first clue, (part 1)

(part 2) coupled with very strong Hebrew given names. Then we found the immigration records from Germany. In England they lived in what was then the Jewish ghetto and her parents converted to Protestantism as adults, hence the lack of Church records prior. We’re in America now so we can’t search the physical synagogue records & when we raise the matter with her she clams up. I don’t believe she was aware that her parents were converts and she’s now a very devout Christian, so I think the (contd)
(pt 3) topic makes her uncomfortable. She and her sisters mostly weren’t raised by their parents so I’m not sure what she would know anyway. We suspect her parents converted out of fear of antisemitism-if they were Jewish at all, that is. The records only go as far back as their arrival in Leeds from Germany in the 1880s. Do you have any advice on tracing my family tree? How can I be definite if they were Jewish? I’m not looking to make aliyah or anything, I just want the truth about my family.

Would anyone be able to help anon?

I heard that FamilySearch (a Mormon website) has a lot of information on tons of people, but I’m not sure how they choose their targets in order to put them on record, but maybe it’s a possibility to check out if they’d have information on anyone in your family tree and go from there? I’m really bad at this, hope other people can be of better help than me. Edit: blunderpuff said: 

There's a Facebook group called "Tracing The Tribe" that has a bunch of smart genealogy-minded people. Sometimes people on that group have hit dead-ends on their own families (thanks, Russian Empire 1890!), so they might jump at the chance to help go through yours, especially since it sounds like you've got some decent information already.
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Anonymous asked:

So my mom decided to change our Passover tradition of using a feminist Haggadah, and is using a Harry Potter Haggadah. I just wanted your thoughts. I don't think it's a good idea. I think commercializing this time is gross. Idk, I could be wrong, and I would love to hear your thoughts.

Is it the one by Rabbi Moshe Rosenberg? I haven’t seen the haggadah itself, but heard about it. If it’s a kosher haggadah - and I’m inclined to think it is -, I don’t see the issue. 

If it’s not to your taste, just skip on the haggadah and pick up one you like. At my “family” (more like late “adoption,” we have no biological relation but they’re like family to me), most of us use a different haggadah from the next person, some follow in English and others in French, and we all enjoy the holiday together.

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Anonymous asked:

Hey, I was just wondering why in your bio it says your are of *country* extraction, thanks!

It refers to where our families came from before the current countries, what are our origins.

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Anonymous asked:

The tumblr womeninarthistory has been posting the works of Jewish artists as a show of support and Idk, it's a little random but it was nice to see.

When I said it was random, I meant me telling you about it, not them posting about Jewish artists.

No worries, thanks for the heads up. Posting this in case others want to check it out (I haven’t yet but I will).

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Anonymous asked:

I don't know if this is something of discourse, and pardon me if it is, but if my maternal grandmother's maternal grandmother was Jewish, would that make me ethnically Jewish? I know that there is a lot more to Jewish culture than that, and I would never claim to be fully Jewish because of it (the rest of my family is Irish), but I was curious.

If you can prove an unbroken maternal lineage, you’d still be considered Jewish. Jewish status does not expire. I’ve heard about in the USA Rabbis only accepting proof up to grandmother, sometimes great-grandmother, and at the same time there’s someone (also in the USA) who released a book after she was able to prove an unbroken chain of grandmothers going back to Spain several centuries ago and then getting recognised as a born Jew based on that. If you can do that, I do not know an Orthodox Rabbi who would not recognise you as a Jew.

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Anonymous asked:

What's your view on messianic jews? I really like your blog but I wanted to know your views on that before I follow?

They’re evangelical Christians, no matter which name they use to call themselves.

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Anonymous asked:

Hi, I'm Jewish because my grandparents are (they are Ash) and they raised their children, including my mother, as Jewish. However, by the time I was born she had stopped practicing and dragged me through different non-jewish religions until I started living with someone else. I'm 21 now and I feel like she robbed me from learning about my culture. Is it too late to convert? And can I really call myself a Jew if I don't currently practice?

A few points:

- No need for conversion, you are fully Jewish according to Jewish law.

- Practice and status are two separate things, you are still fully Jewish even if you’re not practicing.

- The choices made by your parents / mother as a minor don’t change your status as a Jew according to Jewish law (i.e. you’re still a Jew).

The “according to Jewish law” has to be made very clear - and I think this is worth mentioning -, since there are ways in which someone fully Jewish can still face trouble for such upbringing, but that is not in accordance with Jewish law. For example: under the Law of Return, such individuals are not considered Jewish because of Israeli secular law (which conflicts which Jewish law). People in this situation (halakhically Jewish but family practicing another religion) have been instructed to not mention it to Israeli authorities when making aliya because of this. One of such examples - Is she Jewish? Rabbinate says yes, Israel says no (JTA).

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So, I wasn’t raised even remotely Jewish, but I’ve recently discovered that my maternal grandmother was born Jewish. She was born and raised in the American South in the 1920s and hid her Jewishness from my mother and I to protect us from antisemitism. Arguably this might mean that I am Jewish according to some people (right?), but since I wasn’t raised Jewish it would feel wrong for me to call myself Jewish. On the one hand, I want to acknowledge and learn more about my Jewish roots. On the other hand, I don’t want to appropriate an identity and experience that isn’t mine, nor do I want to barge into Jewish space when I haven’t lived a Jewish life. I’m not religious, so I don’t plan on converting, but I do want more of a connection to Jewish culture and history. So I guess my question is…what now? What’s a good way to refer to myself? Of Jewish descent? Part Jewish? Matrilineally Jewish? And do you know of any good resources for people such as myself? I just want to go about re-connecting with my Jewish heritage without stepping on anyone’s toes.

Miriam's answer [the question was sent as a submission; the person asking is named Jacob]:

Arguably this might mean that I am Jewish according to some people (right?)

It makes you fully Jewish according to Jewish law.   

but since I wasn’t raised Jewish it would feel wrong for me to call myself Jewish.

It's not wrong, if your maternal grandmother is Jewish you're Jewish.

I don’t want to appropriate an identity and experience that isn’t mine, nor do I want to barge into Jewish space when I haven’t lived a Jewish life.

You're Jewish, there's no appropriation. You belong in Jewish spaces as much as any other Jew.

I’m not religious, so I don’t plan on converting

No need to convert. But talk to a Rabbi and provide the necessary information about your grandmother's Jewishness. 

What’s a good way to refer to myself?

Jewish.

And do you know of any good resources for people such as myself?

There's plenty, but depends on what you're looking for. I've heard about some books for beginners that get good reviews and can be sometimes found in libraries:

* Jewish Literacy: The Most Important Things to Know About the Jewish Religion, Its People, and Its History 

* The Book of Our Heritage: The Jewish Year and Its Days of Significance (it's made of multiple volumes)

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hello, for miriam: um tempão atrás eu mandei uma mensagem perguntando sobre o conflito de ser ateu mas biologicamente judeu e você me ajudou com o conselho. gostaria de agradecer pois por mais que seja mais ateu que nunca me sinto extremamente conectado a minhas raízes ashkenazi (por parte de pai; alemanha e depois frança) e sefaradi (mãe e pai; portugal e ilhas portugesas) por motivos mais que empáticos. pretendo fazer algum tipo de conversão pra formalizar! obrigado!

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@mickoymilkovich estou curiosa para saber o que aconteceu no final. 

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Anonymous asked:

I have a question for Miriam: my family is Sephardic Bnei Anusim, this I know for certain, as it has been passed down by both oral tradition and my family shows up in historical records of the inquisition in Spain, Portugal, and Mexico, and in Spanish historical records before the inquisition. Plus, my family on both sides come from places with very high amounts of conversos. However, I am afraid that once I convert, I will not be recognized as a Sephard with an ethnically Jewish background. 1/2

I am afraid of this because of personal stories I have heard and many many many posts I’ve seen about Anusim not being taken seriously. I was wondering if maybe, you had any advice or any resources for me, or if you have anything in particular for Anusim, specifically Sephardic Bnei Anusim? It would mean a lot to me. Thank you so much. 2/2

I imagine you sent this a very long time ago, I was away for a very long time and I’ll be answering a few questions.

I don’t have any resources for you, but my advice for you and/or other people in a similar situation reading is: be pragmatic about it*. Conversion and your background are not mutually exclusive and you can have both - yes, you converted for recognition and/or to become halakhically Jewish, AND ALSO this is your family history and you can take pride in it. 

Some people will not be great about it, others will. In the end, it’s about you and what you want for yourself and your future family, if you desire to have one. Forget everybody else.

*Do you want to get married Jewishly? Be fully recognised as a Jew? How would your children's status and their life (schooling, etc) be affected depending on which status you have? Those are questions that are important to have in mind, to help guide your choice, and by no means are the only ones but can be a start. I wish you clarity in your journey. :)

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Anonymous asked:

oii miriam, você fala português? existe uma comunidade grande de portugueses judios no canadá?

oii miriam, você fala português?

Sim, português é a minha primeira língua - muito embora meu português esteja ficando pior a cada dia por falta de prática. Eu não tenho idéia de quanto tempo faz que a sua pergunta está na nossa inbox, eu não escrevi nada aqui em quase 2 anos. 

existe uma comunidade grande de portugueses judios no canadá?

Não. Judeus de origem portuguesa são raros por essas bandas, e os que são não falam português. Têm alguns judeus brasileiros (asquenazitas em sua maioria, alguns sefaradim de origem marroquina vindo do norte do Brasil ou de SP), mas não são muitos. 

Alguns brasileiros e portugueses se converteram ao Judaísmo, aumentando o número de judeus lusófonos, mas ainda assim somos poucos em número.

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This situation has gotten wildly out of control, well beyond my ability to contain when I have other things to do with my life. So, I am going to be taking a break for a while for my own mental health. Just a few points before I go...

1. Don’t imply Black People or Muslims are somehow inherently antisemitic because they aren’t. Don’t enable Anti-Blackness or Islamophobia. Please. 

2. Criticizing Israel isn’t inherently antisemitic. 

3. If you can’t engage in a conversation in good faith, consider not engaging.

See you all later.

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I believe in giving people a chance to redeem themselves. However, redemption involves repentance and Trayon White has failed that test. He made a good apology, but failed to walk the walk. This is disappointing. Clearly Louis Farrakhan remains a major force for antisemitism in the United States and anyone who downplays his significance is actively harming Jews. 

I agree with those on the left who say the right represents a greater threat to Jews, and yet, historically, a left that believes antisemitic canards will roll over and let us die when we are under threat. Too often those on the left will buy into myths of Jewish power to keep us out of their movements. That leaves us to fend for ourselves. Right now much of the left believes that Jews should be seen but not heard, that we have no right for self-advocacy and that we shouldn’t demand advocacy by anyone else. They want us to show up then shut up. They want us to be there as Jews but not to announce our Jewishness too loudly lest we disrupt their zero-sum worldviews and someone rob their of their voices by using our own. 

Enough is enough. Antisemitism is a genocidal form of oppression that has killed millions in living memory. Louis Farrakhan is poisoning Social Justice with his bigotry. It must be resisted. 

I’m…shocked that anyone believed his apology? Like when I read his statement about being at the holocaust museum not once did he mention Jewish people as….people? Lol. He kept calling us “Jews” much like how white people who don’t realize how racist they are call people “the blacks.” Its couched language. He would not be surprised if dude doesn’t believe that the holocaust didn’t happen at all. Honestly as a Black Jewish man I get to hear all types of antisemitic shit borne out of ignorance. But *shrug* lets be real, there is a great chasm between our peoples and those of us straddling the line in between are not fighting a winning battle.

We need to build stronger bridges and quickly. 

The Black and Jewish communities built those bridges in our combined efforts for civil rights first in the 10′s and 20′s during the factory labor protests and then in the 50′s and 60′s in the south.  Certain factions have been working tirelessly to separate Blacks from Jews since, as evidenced by Black social justice movements like BLM (first witnessed Hamas & Hezbollah flags being waved around in Ferguson) and Black adjacent social justice movements like The Women’s March, and Chicago Dyke March, incorporating “palestianian” issues into the very fabric of their organizations.  The Nation Of Islam has ALWAYS been antisemitic, this is nothing new, what they’re finding energizing now is again the incorporation of “palestinian” issues to bolster their hatred, and yes, it is in fact catching on.  What I see is the Dr. King’s inclusional nonviolence being replaced in left wing Black social justice politics by a more virulent black/islamic hybrid of Jewish exclusion zeroing in on Israel and more pointedly Jews to score points.  

It’s a very big problem.

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I’m here for all of this EXCEPT the assertion that focusing on Palestinian issues is simply veiled anti-semetism. To ignore that Israel and its allies and continuously ignore treaties and land rights to expand their territory and erase Palestine from the map little by little is dangerous af. Israel is and has been committing atrocities and what they’re doing is the same thing the British and them did when th u colonized the world. They stake their claim to the land on THEIR religion. A religion that the Palestinians by and large don’t practice. Just the way Europeans used Christianity and Catholicism in their views of manifest destiny.

Wanting history not to repeat itself in Palestine is not anti-semetic, it’s common decency.

The focusing on Palestinian issues isn’t a problem. The way Palestinian issues are addressed is a problem. You said:

Israel is and has been committing atrocities and what they’re doing is the same thing the British and them did when th u colonized the world. They stake their claim to the land on THEIR religion. A religion that the Palestinians by and large don’t practice. Just the way Europeans used Christianity and Catholicism in their views of manifest destiny.

This ignores the fact that the majority of Israel’s population are refugees (mostly from the Holocaust, Middle Eastern and North African countries and the Soviet Union) and their descendants. They didn’t come to Israel to conquer it for the faith or a non-existent motherland. They came to survive. What is being done to the Palestinians is unconscionable, but there are important differences between Israel, the UK and other instances of colonization and erasing that from the conversation is erasing the various life-or-death refugee crises that created the Israeli population. The simple fact is that an enormous number of Jews owe their lives to Israel. Erasing that from the conversation and using excessive terms like “genocide” are unhelpful and actively alienate Jews. 

Yeah nope. You don’t get to push people off on the land their families have lived on and cultivated and developed for generations just because you’re fleeing other atrocities. You don’t get to sit comfortably in Israel while your newfound home CREATES refugees out of the original inhabitants

So should they have just stayed put and subject themselves to pogroms and Nazis? Because that was the alternative. Paths of immigration were famously barred for Jews fleeing Nazism in the 1930s and 1940s. When MENA countries kicked out their Jews and stole their belongings Israel was the only country that would take them in.

This history of how Israel was created is deeply messed up. But telling refugees to basically go jump off a cliff isn’t helpful. 

So in this whole entire world of places to go they only have Palestine as a choice? Oh okay

Silly me. And the 1940s wasn’t THAT long ago but it was at least 60/70 years ago you and your informed self know good and well the erasure of Palestine really amped up AFTER that.

Idk who the fuck is telling refugees jump off a cliff with your active ass imagination but it wasn’t me

Must super interesting and not lost on me though that you’re fine with the creation of Palestinian refugees for the sake of Jewish ones though. That’s super telling

Meanwhile back at the ranch

Man I say it all the time, fuck Israel. Carrying out it’s bullshit version of manifest destiny and then when anybody questions it they are anti Semitic. I do agree White was anti Semitic as hell and so is Farrakhan but what we won’t do is act like Jews aren’t as racist towards black people as everyone else and that black people are some how anti Semitic for siding with the oppressed in a situation.

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When our blackness isnt seen as antithesis….man I’ll never forget last year being verbally attacked by white Jews on here for daring to recognize the mass slaughter of black people. Alot of shit that’s going down is straight up creepy and violent . And can’t be hidden behind antisemitism.

This whole thread is a dumpster fire but can we take a moment to discuss this comment right here saying that BLM and “”“”“black adjacent”“”“” (two organizations having nothing to do with BLM or black folks) are antisemitic because boy HOWDY the antiblackness is something fierce and a lot of my Jewish friends follow OP but OP hasn’t addressed this at all… wtf

@ saturnineaqua No one should demonize anyone for recognizing violence against their people. Those white Jews you discussed above were wrong to do so.

@ neonnecropolis Fair enough. You’re right. A lot of that post is a mess. The comment about “Black/Islamic hybrid” is deeply problematic because Black People and Islamic people aren’t inherently antisemitic. There’s too much blaming black people in general for antisemitism, which I don’t agree with and is, frankly, racist. Also, I don’t know how CDM is “Black Adjacent.” 

Nation of Islam, however, is definitely an antisemitic group and they’re correct on that account. It being supported by Women’s March leaders is a big problem and alienates Jews. Asking us to tolerate someone who regularly demonizes Jews and spreads false propaganda against us is a very big ask.