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Remus

@remusthedroid

15. INTP. any pronouns except for she/her. Genderless boy and uncomfy with fem terms. Asexual and omniromantic. Academic. Robotkin, vampirekin and zombiekin.
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remusthedroid

Introduction

Hi, Im Remus/Jynx. I use any pronouns except for she/her. I use the term genderless boy because i feel it explains my gender accurately, if that makes you uncomfortable then leave and block me because im not changing to fit other peoples views. i am uncomfy with fem terms. Im unlabelled, polyamorous and taken by my amazing partners. I'm also vampkin, zombiekin and robotkin. Im 15 years old and in 9th grade.

I aspire to be a criminal psychologist.

I like drawing, writing, reading, poetry, sleeping, snakes, and researching random topics i find interesting. Im in the creepypasta, sanders sides, Wii deleted you, undertale, Marvel, Star Wars, Star Trek, Mandela Catalogue and Marble Hornets fandoms.

I use the label alt for my style because I listen to music from multiple alt subcultures and have the same political views as alt ppl.

If anyone has any book recommendations feel free to message me or send me an ask :)

Same with any questions you have :D

Also pls send me snake photos and facts I have a huge hyperfixation of them. Also my messages and asks are open to info-dumping about anything that interests you I'm very interested in what you have to say and I love learning things :D

DNI: pedos, anti-otherkin, anti-therian, dsmp fans, boyfriends(the webtoon) fans, proshippers, transphobic/homophobic ppl, racist ppl, sexist ppl, prolifers, ableist ppl, bigots, terfs and pretty much any asshole. Also if you arent comfortable with swearing i would recommend not following cuz i swear a lot.

Also pls be aware for systems who follow/want to follow, i dont have an opinion on whether endo systems are valid, i feel because i am not a system, i dont get to have an opinion on whos valid or not. If you're uncomfortable with this, block me.

Vent/rant blog is @fuckingeverythingup

#intro post
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josiebean202
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fairycosmos

parents are so crazy because they can say the most fucked up shit to you when your brain is forming and it sets the tone for your whole adult mind set and then they forget about it the next day

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hyenabogblog

Please remember that you do the exact same thing. Let’s give each other some grace and hope that we can work to heal each other.

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fairycosmos

i actually don't say fucked up shit to children

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willowhatesyou
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willowhatesyou

if you're a therian/otherkin and want to know more about your past life, i HIGHLY recommend searching up 'past life meditation brian weiss' it literally changed my life so GO DO IT !!!!!

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schrodingers-hoarding-problem
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schrodingers-hoarding-problem

learned about the rcta/ecta (aka race change) community on tiktok today

it is just so aggravating as an asian, specifically korean person because tbh, i wasn’t exactly proud to be asian when i was younger. like i did grow up fairly sheltered and oblivious, but i still had a kid on the playground who would say “ching chong” or pull their eyes back

yeah i understand with the ever increasing popularity of kpop and kdramas (& anime for japan) people are more interested in korea and korean culture. if that was all it would be great! this is fucking appropriation tho people

like sorry but listening to piano kpop covers while looking at a picture of some kpop idol is not gonna make you korean, what it will do is make people (especially east asians) hate you and be extremely uncomfortable

and like ik these people are all like 13-14, but still it’s just so so disgusting, and also with the way they mice around their countries as well? like i saw something where it was like “ways to be more japanese” and one of the tips was the say “kamsamnida” WHICH IS FUCKING KOREAN (also insane to me even more due to the history of these countries but i digress)

and not even to mention how aside from the obvious racist parts, is also hella transphobic? like you can’t pretend that these communities aren’t also making a mockery of the trans community (one that suffers enough as it is)

anyways it’s all jsut a lot and i needed to rant about it

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notthesomefather

My dear queer and trans heathens and norse pagans,

Remember today and always that your gods love you.

Remember today and always that Odin and Loki know and share your truth.

Remember today and always that Thor and Freyja battle by your side.

Remember today and always that Tyr fights for your justice and rights.

Remember today and always that Lofn celebrates your joy.

Remember today and always that your gods love you, that you have nothing to apologize for, that you are not alone, and that we will prevail against evil and cowardice.

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josiebean202

quick protip: if someone is crying or freaking out over something minor, eg wifi not connecting, can’t find their hat, people talking too loud, do NOT tell them how small or petty the problem is to make it better. they know. they would probably love to calm down. you are doing the furthest possible thing from helping. people don’t have to earn expressions of feelings.

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shoren18

I’m just gonna put it out there that if someone’s freaking about something small, they’re really freaking out about something big that they’re trying to deal with, or something long term that’s been building up, and that little thing is the straw that broke the camel’s back.

I don’t know, try and give people the benefit of the doubt. Don’t be the next straw on their broken back.

Needed this today.

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animate-mush

People don’t actually go from 0 to 60. If you think they did, you have failed to notice how long they’ve been at 59.

there’s also just those of us who get angry/upset at small things, like those of us with autism or adhd. we experience emotional dysregulation, which means we are not sure how to properly handle our emotions, or experience them in different ways than others do. we don’t have built up stress or anger, but rather we genuinely are having that reaction to that small problem because we don’t know how to control our reactions like others.

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transcyberism

steps to deal with someone having a Major Freakout over a Minor Thing:

  1. Express genuine sympathy for their feelings. “This must be really upsetting, I’m so sorry this is happening” type statements - try not to sound like you’re just following a script; use compassionate language appropriate to your level of rapport with the person.
  2. Ask them to help you understand what the problem is if it isn’t already clear, or if it seems like they need to vent about it. “What happened?” is enough - open-ended is good. Continue to reiterate expressions of sympathy as needed. Don’t over-probe if it seems like talking about it is overwhelming.
  3. Offer to help them plan out solutions - again, keep this open-ended. “Do you think there’s anything we can do to fix it?” or a similar question works well - using “we” shows you’ll help and support if they need it without taking agency from them. If it’s not a problem that can be fixed, ask a question geared towards redirecting them towards coping (e.g. if you’re very close offer a hug, tell them that it’s okay to vent to you, perhaps gently encourage deep breaths if you can phrase that delicately) or other alternatives - “Is there maybe something else we can do instead?” etc.
  4. Be prepared to take no for an answer. Offer to give them space if they need it. If they’re getting upset with you, go ahead and give them that space even if they don’t ask for it - “Okay, I’ll be over here if you need anything, just let me know.” Getting angry is a natural consequence of being upset - if they get angry at you, just take it as a sign they need time to cool off and re-approach later. Don’t hold it against them, but do remove yourself from the situation before you make it worse.
  5. Re-approach once they’re calm and talk about what happened. Let them know you aren’t mad at them, even if they reacted poorly, and talk with them about a plan for if something like that happens in the future.

source: literally trained in de-escalation

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teaboot
Anonymous asked:

what the fuck do you mean your keyboard doesnt have letters

ublock-origin answered:

We have no letters Kathleen!

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  1. some 8ish years now i reckon
  2. i have naturally acidic sweat. it's a family thing

we have already. They don't know exactly what is up with it, other than the sweat being slightly more acidic than normal and the acidic mantle being thicker and Way more acidic than normal, but it doesn't seem to have anything to do with acidosis. As far as we have tested, our family has had this since at least my great grandpa, and the guy lived to be 93 years old.

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ashestoashesjc
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captain-price-unofficially

What the fuck.

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naggingatlas

op is a xenomorph descendant from that one time ripley fucked the queen

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teaboot
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jactingjoices

we are in a media literacy crisis

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jactingjoices

friendly reminder that characters don't need to be saints to be entertaining. and telling a story does not mean endorsement. art does not need to be all about morally good people.

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vergess

IDK if this was meant as hyperbole but it's literally true:

Adult literacy is low.

Child literacy is low.

Information literacy has shifted dramatically in the last decade, but reputable information sources like research journals and factual news reporting have been unable to keep pace.

We are genuinely in a crisis of media literacy, with ever fewer genuinely factual resources available in the style and language used by contemporary audiences.

It may sound condescending, but we genuinely need to remind people, or worse, explain to them for the first time that art is not evidence of real world behaviour.

So, thank you, for this reminder. Genuinely.

You're correct:

Art does not need to feature exclusively morally pure characters. Art is not proof of the creator's secret, violent desires.

ETA; Yes, the links are US American; no your country is not immune to propaganda. Be POLITE in asking, and I will help you find the data for your own country as well.

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teaboot
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nchntd

In the club

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vacuously-true

I think I’m literally never gonna be sick of this masterpiece. I think watching it on a loop for eight hours could fix me. Dancing’s what clears my soul. Dancing’s what makes me whole.