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Like the Bird

@red-tailedcomet / red-tailedcomet.tumblr.com

Genderfluid! Here's my pronouny!
Kitsugender: a gender relating to foxes and kitsunes, and the gender can be tricky and disguised as another. Pronouns to match are kit/kitsu.
Pfp by hunbloom on instagram
header by the amazing @bored-venti-kin!!!
Cats are cute. Enbies are awesome. (pronouny.xyz)

pretty-girl-jurou -> red-tailedcomet

name: comet (like the BIRD not the space rock)

pronouns: they/it/she/he and mew/love/moon

age: minor

watched/read: BNHA, PJO, Danganronpa, Kamisama Kiss, Toilet Bound Hanako Kun, San-Karea, Happy Sugar Life, Future Diary, uhhh i know there’s more but i’ll add along as i go!

in progress from above: Future Diary, TBHK, BNHA

completed from above: PJO, Kamisama Kiss, San-Karea, Happy Sugar Life, Danganronpa

Other Socials: red-tailedcomet on Instagram, @theplushiecollection (mod ibuki)

Shoutout to songtives!

Songtives are introjects whose source is a song. You can learn more about them on Pluralpedia here!

All introjects are vital members of their systems and worthy of respect, autonomy, and agency. Even if your source is a song, you are just as real and important as anyone else in your system!

Shoutout to songtives who split because their system listened to a particular song obsessively!

Shoutout to songtives who split after their system heard their source song only once or twice!

Shoutout to songtives whose source song was made by their system’s favorite band!

Shoutout to songtives whose source song is one that their system doesn’t particularly like!

Regardless of your source, no matter how short or long the song, how many or few lyrics, how loved or hated the song is, you are real, living, and here in the present moment. You deserve to find happiness, joy, and community life, and we hope that you will be able to achieve this!

We wish all songtives reading this the very best in life! We love you, we care about you, and we’re rooting for you!

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Anonymous asked:

Hi! We recently discovered we have a songtive, and we really want to get to know them! We don’t have much experience with songtives, and we’re wondering if any of you have any resources we could check out?

Hello! Unfortunately we couldn’t find many songtive-specific resources out there at all - so sorry!

We couldn’t find much other than this. I’m sorry! General info for fictives or introjects may be useful for you though, since songtives are a form of introject!

🌸 Margo

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Anonymous asked:

Im questioning if im plural or not and Ive been needing some help to figure it out could I ask some questions?

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Shoutout to systems with uncertain origins!

With something as vast and complex as plurality, it makes sense that many systems may not know or understand how they formed. Not everyone has access to healthcare and support, and many systems are left to just figure things out on their own.

Whether your system:

- has a lot of amnesia, so you can’t remember your origins

- doesn’t have a clear idea of how your system formed

- is in denial/struggling to grapple with the reality of your system’s origins

- has some members who know your systems origins and others who don’t

- is questioning, or in the early stages of exploring your plurality

- or anything else!

We want to support, encourage, and uplift you! It’s important to remember that it’s okay to not know your system’s origins. Many systems cannot recall how and why their system formed, but that doesn’t make them any less plural or any less of a system!

You are a vital and welcome part of this community, regardless of your origins. It can take years to understand your system, and some go even longer without pinpointing how exactly their systems formed. This is not a process that should be rushed!

What’s more important is building trust and communication between headmates, and ensuring everyone feels safe and empowered. This also takes time, but we truly believe the safety and well-being of your system matters more than the origin labels you use to describe your experience.

We wish you all the best of luck as you continue to learn more about yourselves. Even if you never learn your system’s origins, you still matter, your system matters, and we’re rooting for you!

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Anonymous asked:

hello ! i am. looking for some advice i guess.

so our system has always been very introject heavy, but recently we've slowly been getting more factives and i kind of. dont know what to do about it i guess. i mean logically, i do know what to do - help them set up pk and simply plural, get them used to what our life is and tell them what they need to know and all that. but. i dont know. the best way to describe how i feel about it is. internalized cringe. if that makes sense ? like idk whenever we get a new factive it just kind of sends me back down the 'oh god what if we're faking' spiral. and like we're very aware that introjects dont have to be exactly like their source but whenever one of our factives starts using different pronouns or starts finding like neopronouns and mogai stuff or agere or kin stuff i just kind of. i dont even know. i feel like we've been in a lot of fandoms that are very agressive about like 'dont headcanon real people dont speculate about their identity' which is a good point and i Know that factives just existing differently from their source is normal and not the same as saying that those things apply to their source but im. scared of people who dont know a lot about systems accusing us of that i guess ?

im sorry that this got really long but i guess my main question is: how do i feel more normal/less anxious about having factives ?

thank you for any help or advice you may have, we hope you're having a good day !

(Quickly Ralsei wanted to say: Cringe is dead! Cringe is cool! We need more cringe! Normalize cringe! The cringier the awesomer!! :3)

I (Margo) can offer some more serious words of advice and encouragement:

It certainly can be distressing gaining more introjects than your system knows how to handle! I’d like to reassure you that it’s not uncommon to have factives in a system. Many systems have introjects of real people as headmates - it’s something that can come with the territory of experiencing multiplicity.

Remember that, for the most part, systems don’t get to choose their headmates. You can’t help it that many factives are joining your system, and feeling bad about yourself because of your system’s factives won’t help anyone. A large amount of factives is not an indication of faking. Rather, it could point to stress, anxiety, or something overwhelming in your life, just like a large influx of any headmates may indicate.

Your factives living their own lives is NOT the same as assigning headcanons to real people. Even if some of your headmates may feel otherwise, it’s important to remember that these factives are not actually the real people they’re sourced from. It’s okay for factives to experiment with gender and sexuality, branch out into their own likes and interests, and generally develop into their own people. And if others don’t understand this fact, that’s on them - not you, not your system, and certainly not the fictives affected!

Remember it is never your fault if other people are uneducated or assume the worst. That’s their issues to work through. Even if they try and make your factives feel bad for living their lives, try to remember that you can know and understand the difference, and you don’t have to let the words of people online have a severely negative impact on you and your system.

I know this kinda got out of hand, but I hope this is helpful or reassuring for you! We wish you the very best of luck with this, thanks so much for reaching out! ^w^

🌸 Margo (and 💚 Ralsei)

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Here’s some positivity for small systems!

Multiplicity encompasses systems of all shapes and sizes. As long as you experience (or have experienced) more than one entity sharing a mind and body, you’re welcome to call yourself plural! This post is for all the small systems out there!

🌷 Shoutout to systems who are dyads or triads!

🌱 Shoutout to systems who feel unseen or unwelcome in system spaces due to their small size!

🌻 Shoutout to systems who struggle to relate to and connect with larger systems!

☘️ Shoutout to systems who used to be large, but are now small due to fusion, dormancy, or something else!

🌺 Shoutout to systems who aren’t sure whether their system’s size would be considered small or not!

🍃 Shoutout to systems who have been fakeclaimed or harassed due to their system’s small size!

Even if your system is very small, you’re still a vital and important part of the plural community! Regardless of your system’s size, please know that you will always be welcome in our spaces. Your system is lovely and wonderful just the way it is! There is no minimum number of headmates a system must have in order to be valid.

We care about y’all, we believe in you, and we’re rooting for you! No matter how large or small your system is, you matter, your headmates matter, and you belong in this community!

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Unpopular opinion and if this makes me a villian so be it.

You all are really destroying your narrative by going after people playing a VIDEO GAME with harassment and bullying.

Maybe rather than saying and/or insinuating to people that they deserve to be harassed you explain to them as to why they maybe shouldn't purchase/play this game, yet none of you seem to be doing that, can't defeat hate with hate

Pretty sure there were a million posts going around about why the game is shitty, the first one I remember was people freaking out about the ACTUAL SLAVE you can own.

I'll come back and try to be as exhaustive as possible when I have a minute, but if you're still playing the blood libel anti trans video game after that you're beyond hope.

Yeah, hon? It literally doesn’t matter. The second you decide “my preconceived notions about this stranger give me the right to look up their real, actual name, their home address and their place of business”, you are, as you put it, “beyond hope.”

I can’t believe I have to explain this.

if you tell people to off themself over a GAME? thats just an indicator of how terrible you are. why would you ever even think to say that? SO WHAT? its a fucking GAME

You know what we need more of? Beginner’s classes for adults.

It’s supposed to be really, really good for you to keep learning new things as you age. It helps stave off strokes and dementia and Alzheimer’s and improves memory. And hey, learning stuff is fun.

But I really don’t want to be infantilized when I try to learn something. And I definitely don’t learn the way a child does. And honestly, what adult wants to be in the same class as children? Very few.

This occurred to me recently because I’d like to learn how to actually ice skate properly. My parents never signed me up for classes, because it wasn’t a thing they ever cared about or thought about. Now I’m in my twenties and want to learn, and also don’t want to be surrounded by a bunch of eight-year-olds who probably honestly skate better than I do. Because that’s embarrassing, and embarrassment is not how you learn.

Would it be good to lose the social stigma of being worse at something than a child? Yes. Hell yes. But we’ve got to start somewhere, and like I said: adults don’t really learn the way kids do, and a lot of people use these kinds of activities to make friends, and I don’t want to make friends with an eight-year-old, either.

So.

Beginner’s classes for adults. Let adults suck at stuff and learn how to get better and learn new things and broaden their horizons, while still being treated as adults. Classes for writing, for pottery, for chess, for art, for instruments, for singing, for sports, for chemistry. For everything, dammit.

Can I ask for a pk space themed template and if possible alter description ? Smth simple and minimalist but if it can have loads of details in it (ex: relationship status, boundaries, etc) thanks!

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As always, please read my pinned post before using. Like or reblog if you use it. I am posting it in a template discord server I made too, so you can join that one for easier access.

◜.・。.・゜✭・.・✫・SYSTEMNAME・ ﹕name(s) ⊱ ﹕pronouns ⊱ ﹕orientation ⊱ ﹕gender ⊱ ﹕age ⊱ ﹕relationship status ⊱ ﹕partner(s) ⊱ ◟ethnicity ⊱ ◜.・。.・゜✭・.・✫・SYSTEM INFORMATION・ ﹕system type ⊱ ﹕origin ⊱ ﹕alter count ⊱ ◟subsystems ⊱ ◜.・。.・゜✭・.・✫・FREQUENT FRONTERS・ ﹕name 𝄄 pronouns 𝄄 role 🗧 ﹕name 𝄄 pronouns 𝄄 role 🗧 ﹕name 𝄄 pronouns 𝄄 role 🗧 ◟name 𝄄 pronouns 𝄄 role 🗧 ◜.・。.・゜✭・.・✫・PERSONAL INFORMATION・ ﹕coll. likes ⊱ ﹕coll. dislikes ⊱ ﹕coll. hobbies ⊱ ◟coll. interests ⊱ ◜.・。.・゜✭・.・✫・BOUNDARIES・ ﹕DMs ⊱ ﹕FRQ ⊱ ﹕pings ⊱ ﹕PDA ⊱ ﹕flirting ⊱ ◟DNI

Alter template to go with it:

◜.・。.・゜✭・.・✫・ALTER NAME・ ﹕name(s) ⊱ ﹕pronouns ⊱ ﹕orientation ⊱ ﹕gender ⊱ ﹕age ⊱ ﹕relationship status ⊱ ◟partner(s) ⊱ ◜.・。.・゜✭・.・✫・SYSTEM INFORMATION・ ﹕role ⊱ ﹕fragment or fully formed ⊱ ﹕subgroup or subsystem ⊱ ﹕alter type ⊱ ◟source ⊱ ◜.・。.・゜✭・.・✫・PERSONAL INFORMATION・ ﹕likes ⊱ ﹕dislikes ⊱ ﹕favorite animal ⊱ ﹕favorite color ⊱ ﹕hobbies ⊱ ◟interests ⊱ ◜.・。.・゜✭・.・✫・BOUNDARIES・ ﹕DMs ⊱ ﹕FRQ ⊱ ﹕pings ⊱ ﹕PDA ⊱ ﹕flirting ⊱ ◟DNI

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Anonymous asked:

music themed complex alter template? with only a few symbols /nf

Thank you for the request! I don't think I nailed the "only a few symbols" part, but I hope you can somewhat use it regardless.

As always, please read my pinned post before using. All my templates (and a few more I don't post to tumblr or who are posted by server members) can be found in my discord server.

╭━♬⸺⸺⸺⸺♫♪♪♪ ㅤ ╰→ GENERAL INFO ╰→ name(s): ╰→ age: ╰→ pronouns: ╰→ orientation: ╰→ gender: ╰→ status: ╰→ carrd: ╰→ relationship: ╭━♬⸺⸺⸺⸺♫♪♪♪ ㅤ ╰→ SYSTEM INFO ╰→ role(s): ╰→ alter type: ╰→ source: ╰→ iw relations: ╰→ iw location: ╭━♬⸺⸺⸺⸺♫♪♪♪ ㅤ ╰→ PERSONAL INFO ╰→ likes: ╰→ dislikes: ╰→ hobbies: ╰→ favorite music: ╰→ style: ╰→ favorite color: ╰→ favorite food: ・♬﹒・﹒♪ ・﹒♫・﹒﹒・♪ ・ Now playing:Song-Music Artist ❞ 01:23 ━━━━●───── 03:43 ㅤ◁ㅤ ❚❚ ㅤ▷ ㅤ ・♬﹒||\© pk;s saint||﹒﹒・♪ ・

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Anonymous asked:

heyoo! can we ask for a simple grunge/rose themed system template with quite a bit of symbols? also, could you try and refrain from orientation/age/pronoun/etc questions? we all are Very different in my system so itd make it easier lol (things like frequent fronters w/ spots for their names/pronouns/orientaion are 100% alright, however!!) thanks!! :D

Thank you for the request! As always, please read my pinned post before using. All my templates (and a few more I don't post to tumblr or who are posted by server members) can be found in my discord server.

This template was tumblr-ified again, the emotes used there can be found on my template server linked above.

Here is an example how it looks like with the discord emotes filled out. I used placeholder information for some of it.

🖤 ⸝⸝ system name.・゜

𓆩 ﹙ ❝quote❞ ﹚𓆪 \🥀      𓄧 system typeorigin꒷    \🧷 alter__count__ ⁀⁀˖˚ [blank] heavy ༉‧₊     ꒫ ៸៸ other disorders \🕸 ╰︵︵︵︵︵︵︵︵︵︵︵︵     彡 bound__aries__ \🔪      ・direct messages 𓂃⠀ yes no ask     ・friend request 𓂃 yes no ask      ・pings 𓂃 yes no ask     ・flirting 𓂃 yes no ask » ﹗name and pronouns are in fronters display name » ﹗ask fronter for other information ⸝⸝ 𓂃𓂃𓂃𓂃𓂃𓂃𓂃𓂃𓂃𓂃𓏲࣪ .˖࣪⌍ ⁘ frequent fronters ・₊˚ 𓆩♡𓆪     ~name ꏍ pronouns 〃role     ~name ꏍ pronouns 〃role     ~name ꏍ pronouns 〃role     ~name ꏍ pronouns 〃role     ~name ꏍ pronouns 〃role ҂︩︪ ﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒﹒҂︩︪

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