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I am the Strength of Bears and Kings

@realityremedy / realityremedy.tumblr.com

The Measurer of your fate. 31, Trans man, Canada My pronouns are he/him/his.
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i saw your post about one of your 'prepper' skills being stuffed animal making. do you have any more like this? i try really hard to be disaster prepared without falling into Prepper Dude mindset (and i was raised by one, so its especially hard) and its so hard to find resources outside of that sphere of the internet

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I find it helpful not to try to imagine some vast possible apocalypse but to start with the smaller disasters that are more likely to precede it: what could I do during a flood? an earthquake? a killer heatwave with vast forest fires? a war? Forget zombie movies and look at what happens during actual disasters.

In these situations, rescue and shelter of large groups of displaced people will be our first priorities. Some of the skills we will definitely need within the first weeks and months are:

  • All medical skills as well as medicine production skills.
  • Plumbing and water filtration
  • The engineering skills to get life saving devices (medical devices, communication, air filtration, etc) up and running and to hook up generators, solar panels, heat pumps, etc.
  • Child care skills and toy production
  • Psychological care and community skills, particularly trauma prevention, conflict resolution and recreation.
  • Food preservation like canning, curing, drying, storing. Since getting actual food production going will take months and is season dependent, our first priority will be to make everything that isn't shelf stable into shelf stable goods.

I am just one person and I'm probably overlooking a lot of things. Luckily I will not have to do this alone and it is fine if I can only do parts of a one or two things on this list.

(The things I can do on this list are sewing stuffed animals, first aid, food preservation and trauma prevention work)

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anarchopuppy

mutual aid disaster relief are the folks to learn from/work with when it comes to this stuff. i can vouch for them from personal experience

as disaster becomes more and more of a daily reality this is something everyone should be thinking about imo

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do other fat people worry they look weird in pretty clothes outside so they wear more toned outfits and less colorful ones too or is it just me

There's a lot of rules about fashion that fat people are told to adhere to.

Don't wear stripes.

Don't wear patterns.

Don't show your body.

Don't show your arms.

Don't wear anything except black.

Don't leave your house without spandex.

Don't have short hair.

Don't shave your head.

Don't wear a crop top.

Don't wear skin-tight clothing.

And one of those rules that fat people have been told time and time again is to not wear fun, vibrant colors. Sadly, many of us were told these rules by our own families and friends. By loved ones who are even fat themselves. "Don't wear neon pink or a vibrant, flashy dress," they advise with a scolding shake of their finger.

But all of these rules are otherwise known as:

"Don't take up space."

"Don't let anyone hear you."

"Don't bring attention to yourself."

So, I think it's time for us all to do the opposite 👑

-Mod Worthy

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y-avann-a

I am not alive to fade into the background!

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If your apology is dependent on whether or not you're told you're forgiven, it's not a real apology.

Nobody owes forgiveness. Not forgiving someone doesn't make a person bad.

Apologies should be about trying to mend the hurt you did to the other person.

If you withdraw or hold back an apology because the person you hurt won't forgive you, that apology is about YOU and trying to make YOURSELF feel better.

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i love listening to marianas trench's music cause all the songs are a solid 7/10 but then CERTAIN PARTS just blow you away like 15/10 style. and then its over in a few seconds. like they shifted the curtain that's hiding god just to give you a peep then closed it again to continue playing rlly decent pop punk

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In addition to being pastors, my parents were both also professional teachers. My mom has a master's in education.

I still wish I wasn't homeschooled.

Like, I run into folks now who get super excited when I tell them I was homeschooled because they're thinking about homeschooling if they ever have a kid and want intel, and they get super grumpy and dismissive and defensive when I tell them how absolutely debilitating it was socially, and that it really wasn't worth it just to be a year ahead in math.

And part of that is this sense that homeschooling is an opportunity for you to customize your child. It's usually an extension of a broader fantasy that that's what parenthood is about. That you can minmax your child's stats and construct the perfect build, and the only reason everyone's all screwed up is just that nobody sat down and really micromanaged their child's education enough. Other teachers (and peers, for that matter) might steer them in directions you don't want.

Even when done well, homeschooling is about removing those outside influences so you can control their environment and prioritize your own goals for them. It's a magnet for people with narcissism and control issues as a result, it's a magnet for fundamentalists, but it's also a magnet for idealists. Sometimes it even works out great, hell, there are people who for accessibility reasons will likely be taught far better at home. But that's more a "lesser of two evils" situation.

One person cannot be smarter in every single subject than every single teacher that the kid would ever have. They can't singlehandedly replace the socialization, the networking, the mentorship, and the life experiences. And to think that they can borders on megalomania.

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I had to say goodbye to my dog a little over two months ago now. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him again.

I want him to sleep on my chest again. I want to feel his coarse fur and his leather ears. I want him to scare the fuck out of me by barking really loud and suddenly when he has to pee.

I know he couldn't live forever and it was his time. I just miss him.

He couldn't really walk anymore so I carried him all the time. I would have carried you forever, buddy.

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rimonoroni

teaching yourself how to deal with mildly annoying inconveniences is imo an essential part of treating the disabled people around you with compassion and no i'm not kidding

sometimes you have to share a public space with someone who has loud verbal tics. sometimes a chronically ill friend will have to cancel plans because of a flare up even if you were really looking forward to hanging out with them. sometimes an autistic person will talk over you or interrupt you because they missed a particular cue. sometimes people who struggle to take care of themselves will smell bad. sometimes people with intellectual disabilities will need you to give them more detailed, patient instructions, even if it seems simple to you. sometimes you will need to give up your seat on the bus for a physically disabled person even if you don't want to move.

accommodating disabled people is not always easy or comfortable; being an ally means doing it anyway.

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You're valid if you're afraid to open up because you're ashamed of your trauma and afraid people will think you deserved it.

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neil-gaiman

Some of your books make it seems like you believe in actual literal magic, do you? ()

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I can write down a few words and make people thousands of miles away, whom I have never met and will never meet, laugh tears of joy and cry tears of true sorrow for people who do not exist and have never existed and never will exist. If that isn't actual literal magic I don't know what is.

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What’s something that gives your anxiety?

Making Phone calls

people

socializing

going into a public place

talking to someone i don’t know

going to a party for my parents’ friend

STANDING IN THE CHECKOUT LINE AT TARGET WHILE MY MOTHER IS GRABBING THE MILK

All of these.

Also, having to go to any social gathering, especially with family and get the dreaded question:

“So, what do you do?”

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demonicae

an easier question would be ‘what doesn’t give you anxiety?’

“what gives you anxiety?” 

me:

There is no truer answer than everything listed above.

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imforg

I’m gonna quietly agree to all of the above

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harurusstuff

*nodding in silence*

:(

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moradach5

Yooo😭😭😭

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December 27th 2023. They fucking steal our organs while they commit genocide against us. They kill us and steal our organs. There are no words to describe how disgusting the zionist occupation is.

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Just so everyone is aware:

An international group of qualified mushroom identifiers who do worldwide identification in emergency cases have identified the Shroomers App as a potentially very dangerous system that could kill you if you try to use it to identify edible mushrooms. They use AI to generate almost all of their content, including their identification profiles on their app as well as their books and other materials. Not only is this unethical from a content creation standpoint, it is also extremely dangerous.

DO NOT USE APPS FOR IDENTIFICATION PURPOSES BEYOND SIMPLE CURIOSITY. A MISTAKE WHEN IDENTIFYING AN EDIBLE COULD COST YOU YOUR LIFE. DO NOT EAT ANY FORAGED MUSHROOM YOU CANNOT IDENTIFY YOURSELF BY SIGHT OR HAS BEEN IDENTIFIED IN PERSON BY SOMEONE WHO CAN.

ONLY BUY BOOKS FROM REPUTABLE SOURCES AND AT THIS POINT THAT MEANS ASKING EXPERIENCED PEOPLE WHAT BOOKS THEY USE.

Mushrooms are fun, amazing organisms. Enjoy safely.

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As a trans person, I miss when Harry Potter stuff didn't make me feel so sad and betrayed.

Note: Anyone who feels like coming at me with "get over it" or "find another fandom" or "it wasn't that good anyway so you're shitty for ever liking it" fuck off into the sun. I don't wanna hear it, and I'll just block you. Don't waste your time and let me feel my feelings about it. And people who wanna defend her can fuck off, too.

I re-read an old Facebook memory, some silly little story about someone's headcanon that Molly Weasley purposely shouted about the platform number she would obviously know because Harry looked lost and scared. I teared up a little.

And I just... I miss when looking at HP stuff didn't give me a pit in my stomach. I miss the ability to wear merch and talk about my house without being a traitor, without worrying that people will think I agree with her. HP was one of the things that first got my wife and I talking when we met.

It was such a big part of my childhood. It meant so much to me. I can re-read the books I already own and watch the movies I already own but they're tainted and I just miss when they weren't....

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Anonymous asked:

TW: mention of sex.

No, zoo visitor. We aren’t going to remove the male alpaca from that exhibit just because you asked.

Two reasons for that.

The first is that whole you may deem what they’re doing to be inappropriate behavior, it’s completely normal for animals to have sex. There’s nothing inherently wrong with it, and if you don’t like seeing it, there’s a whole zoo of animals who aren’t in that mood right now. Thousands of other guests here see things like that, but don’t come to us making demands to have the animals separated because they understand that it’s part of nature. You’re the odd one out here.

The second reason is that all the alpaca in that exhibit are female.

Posted by admin Rodney.

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