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daisy buchanan is the most misunderstood woman in classic literature

frankly it's ridiculous that HufflePom on twitter has tweeted @ the sims for 400 days, asking for Jewish cultural representation, and has received nothing but a vague "we see you... we hear you... we're thinking about it..." from a couple of gurus.

what happened to monthly SDX drops, bringing new content to the game? how hard can it be to add a few new food options and some head coverings? for a game that markets itself on its inclusivity and its diverse community, this is unacceptable.

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yeah but what about when cat reddwarf loses on the best fictional cat poll. what about that. can i suibate then?

well you've got to let me know who cat reddwarf is first and then I'll decide

man idk how heinous you think something is, quit telling people to kill themselves. I'm not going to appeal to your moral sensibilities because clearly that's not an issue for you, so I'll just say that it's NOT a good argument and you're NOT enacting any change for whatever argument/position/ideology you're supporting, you just look like an asshole.

been two days and I'm trashing the discourse blog

TBH it's making me miserable. Good life lesson I guess: don't seek out arguments, you'll find them well enough by yourself. I'm still going to talk about things that upset me and I might get into the occasional debate, but having a whole blog dedicated to it kind of sucks and is already taking up too much of my energy

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if ur confused about why animal people advocate for keeping your pets at a "healthy weight" but sometimes also in the same breath will advocate against human diet culture, its because we know what body condition a cat is supposed to be at optimally. but literally there is not one for humans as far as we can tell.

humans are a weird, opportunistic, hyper-adaptable and variable primate and we have evolved to have a LOT of variety in size, shape, metabolism, and weight retention. this has been essential to survival in hard times and easy times. you know the thing people talk about sometimes how about half the population are night people and about half are morning people so we'd be better able to watch at night as a group? yeah, weight variation is like that: there's a lot of latent variation in human populations because as a community we survive significantly better if some of us are fuckin ready to not die during the longass winter of death and some of us can eat their weight in fish and then run a mile immediately after. this is also why some people gain muscle crazy fast and some people don't: muscle requires a lot of energy, so some people are built to gain a lot during a plentiful season and be really efficient then and some people are built to use less energy over time and be more useful during a long hungry period. cats and almost all other vertebrates simply don't have this kind of complex community variation built in, and tend to be much more uniform in build and weight. humans tend to be really variable in body and brain, and that's one of the biggest factors that's made us so successful! there are just a LOT of ways to be a human being.

all of the "science" on "ideal human body condition" we have at the moment is almost entirely bullshit and was done by white supremacists for eugenics purposes. it's just not something we know, and right now there's significantly more evidence that there is no ideal body type for everyone to reach. recent research indicates that humans are healthiest at a variety of weights and builds, and dieting is almost universally bad for you. even if the culture hasn't caught up yet.

genderqueer union against “men dni,” posts when

If I’m being real, I think people put “men dni” on their posts out of anxiety, or as a habit, or as sexuality signaling. If I’m being cranky, I think that the prevalence of “men dni” illustrates the work left to be done to purge gender essentialism from the queer community. I’m cranky.

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translactoseintolerant

a transid identity for those who identify as having, wish to have, or feel like they should have lactose intolerance!

oh shit we did it boys! I got translactoseintolerant on the map!

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respectfully i am part of the radqueer community and i actually don't think paras are inherently queer i just think that paraphiles don't deserve to be fucking murdered for something they can't help stop making generalizations sweetie </3

Respectfully when you say paraphile in place of pedophile, you are watering down what I'm saying.

A paraphilia is not necessarily a harmful thing-- some people are just really into feet, or balloons, or whatever, and that doesn't affect anyone negatively, so I don't care. I'm talking about pedophilia, which, if acted upon, is not only a crime but also disgustingly immoral. This goes for "non-contact" pedophiles as well. I don't think that they deserve to be MURDERED, like you implied, but I think that they need to be given therapy and treatment.

Second, the opinion of a single "radqueer" in my inbox doesn't change the fact that I have observed the majority of your community seems to think that pedophiles have a valid place in the queer community.

I think it's important that I point out that I didn't say "LGBTQ+ community", I said "queer community". While I recognize queer as an LGBTQ+ identity, I don't see these communities as interchangeable. I see the queer community as a group of people who don't societal standards who are anti-assimilationist and pro-liberation-- you can be a part of the LGBTQ+ community and not the queer community, you can be part of the queer community and not part of the LGBTQ+ community.

I'm not arguing that radqueers are trying to make pedophiles included in the LGBTQ+ community, I'm arguing that they're trying to include them in the queer community.

The idea of being queer is being unapologetically yourself and recognizing that there's nothing about you that fundamentally needs to be changed. Psychologically and biologically an adult should not be attracted to a child, so pedophiles have something about them that needs to be changed, sweetie </3