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Guess what!

Guys I’m doing 100 ‘open when’ letters for my boyfriend, and I’ll give them to him this Christmas!

Here’s the list:

  1. Open when you’re happy
  2. Open when you’re mad
  3. Open when you’re sad
  4. Open when you’re tired
  5. Open when you can’t sleep
  6. Open when you miss me a little
  7. Open when you miss me a lot
  8. Open when you need a hug and I’m not there
  9. Open when you’re overwhelmed
  10. Open when life is too much
  11. Open when not even music can tranquilize you
  12. Open when you’re crying
  13. Open when we fight for the 1st time
  14. Open when we fight and it’s your fault
  15. Open when we fight and it’s my fault
  16. Open when you’re stressed
  17. Open when you think about giving up
  18. Open when you think about breaking up
  19. Open when nothing cheers you up
  20. Open when you’re losing your grip
  21. Open when you need to stay ‘here’
  22. Open when you need to be reminded of what’s real and what isn’t
  23. Open when you’ve lied to me
  24. Open when you’re disappointed of yourself
  25. Open when you’re disappointed of me
  26. Open when you need a smile
  27. Open when you need a laugh
  28. Open when you don’t know what to say
  29. Open when you’re so sad you can’t talk
  30. Open when we haven’t talked in days
  31. Open when you want us to talk but can’t
  32. Open when we’re mad at each other
  33. Open when you’re mad at yourself
  34. Open when you want to know some things I love about you
  35. Open when you need a reminder of my love for you
  36. Open when you want to ‘feel’ me but can’t
  37. Open when it’s your birthday
  38. Open when it’s Christmas
  39. Open when it’s New Year’s Eve
  40. Open when you’re proud of yourself
  41. Open when you’ve failed at something that mattered
  42. Open when you first receive these
  43. Open when you’ve got so much to say, words don’t come out
  44. Open when you need to relax
  45. Open when your mind is blank
  46. Open when the voices in your head won’t shut up
  47. Open when you’re doubting yourself
  48. Open when you’re craving something sweet
  49. Open when it seems the world is against you
  50. Open when you feel insecure
  51. Open when you’ve had a bad day
  52. Open when the distance is too much
  53. Open when you’re thinking about the future
  54. Open when you graduate
  55. Open when you’re bored
  56. Open when you’re feeling nostalgic
  57. Open when you’re feeling nostalgic about us
  58. Open when you feel lonely
  59. Open when it’s our 6 month anniversary 
  60. Open when it’s our 1 year anniversary
  61. Open when you need to know someone cares
  62. Open when you’re overthinking
  63. Open when you feel worthless
  64. Open when you need to rant/vent
  65. Open when you want to know more about me
  66. Open when you feel like I don’t trust you
  67. Open when I’ve been ordering you around too much
  68. Open when it’s raining
  69. Open when you’re horny
  70. Open when I’m distant and you don’t know why
  71. Open when you want to hear an anecdote
  72. Open when you want to relive the first time we met
  73. Open when you’re afraid of losing me
  74. Open when you feel I’m prioritizing others over you
  75. Open when jealousy kicks in
  76. Open when you want to hear a story
  77. Open when you want to read a poem
  78. Open when you want to know which songs make me think of you
  79. Open when you want to kiss me
  80. Open when we fall asleep together for the first time
  81. Open when we actually ‘do it’
  82. Open when you want to hear my 4A.M ramblings
  83. Open when you need support
  84. Open when you’re nervous
  85. Open when you’re worried about me
  86. Open when something reminded you of me
  87. Open when you want to give me a gift but have no clue about what
  88. Open when you aren’t feeling anything in particular
  89. Open when you’re feeling everything
  90. Open when you want to read my favorite quotes
  91. Open when I’ve been crying in your arms
  92. Open when you want to die
  93. Open when you’ve hurt me
  94. Open when you’ve said things you didn’t mean
  95. Open when I’ve hurt you
  96. Open when I’ve said things I didn’t mean
  97. Open when we move in together
  98. Open when we travel together for the first time
  99. Open when we first spend a holiday together
  100. Open when you think you’ve had the best day of your life.

And this is it! They’re not in order right now, as you can tell, but hopefully this will give you some inspiration or ideas for your own!