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Quinn

@quinn-isnt-here

18 They/Them
A gremlin with swag

trans women donation masterlist

aka for every transphobe i had to interact with i found a link to help donate to trans women. you can definitely send me more because i bet im gonna need more.

  1. trans women of color collective
  2. black trans woman transition fund (23k of 50k)
  3. help a trans woman escape yemen (3k of 12k)
  4. save the gully queens of jamaica (45k of 100k)
  5. memorial fund for bree black (3k of 10k)
  6. trans woman of color seeking housing (nearly there)
  7. memorial fund for chyna gibson (4k of 15k donated)
  8. black trans woman gender affirmation fund (20k of 45k)
  9. transition fund (2k of 15k)
  10. medical funds (tw: r*pe) (11k of 20k)
  11. poc trans woman transition fund (5k of 35k)
  12. transition fund (6k of 10k)
  13. support trans asylum seekers (usage of queer) (19k of 25k)
  14. major surgery transitional fund (2k of 95k)
  15. medical support (diabetic coma) (13k of 15k)
  16. transitional funds (10k of 25k)
  17. trans pride march (920 of 1.8k)
  18. hrt fundraiser (445 of 3.6k)
  19. reentry fund (help with housing, clothing, etc) (2k of 4k)
  20. transitional surgery (990 of 5k)
  21. transition fund (2k of 50k)
  22. memorial fund for lisa bryk (tw s*icide mention in description) (7k of 20k)
  23. transitional fund (3k of 20k)
  24. bottom surgery fund (2.5k of 5k)
  25. help two trans women get on their feet (160 of 5k)
  26. supports trans women of color in legal system (and reentry) 
  27. help a trans woman escape a bad household (4.5k of 10k)
  28. support a trans woman after being attacked (810 of 2k)
  29. help for medical treatments + better living (545 of 3.5k)
  30. help trans woman pay for car repairs (19.7k of 25k)
  31. trans woman of color transition fund (3.8k of 20k)
  32. incarcerated trans woman college fund (12k of 20k)
  33. donation to flee an ab*sive house before becoming homeless (1.3k of 6k)
  34. vocal surgery fundraiser (1k of 5k)
  35. support to keep a trans woman off the streets (immediately 150 but anything past that helps as well)
  36. gender conformation surgery donation (77.5k of 100k)
  37. help two trans women get conceal and carry permits (50 of 1.5k)
  38. help a black trans woman fight cancer (3.4k of 5k)
  39. the okra project (donates home cooked meals to black trans people) *
  40. help a trans couple pay rent (available until oct 1st)
  41. need help to fix their car so they can go to doctors
  42. general trans woman assistance donation hub
  43. trans woman assistance funds (targeted mainly for supporting sw trans women)
  44. marsha p. johnson institution
  45. black trans donation hub (including supporting black trans femmes in the arts)
  46. the tgip fund
  47. the transgender law center*
  48. help the fight to end violence against all women of color

LAST UPDATED: 10/21

* not trans woman/transfem specific

please tell me if any of these links need updated/replaced/removed/etc

new update!

please reblog this version and tell me if any links need to be fixed. i am happy to edit through these as needed! (and please submit donations if you have them. i update as i get asks + for the spite)

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feluka

cat laziness is so contagious. you'll see your cat flopped on its back in your bed a completely comfy cozy baby and you'll be like. you're right. you make a compelling argument.

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hjartasalt

One time I was working as a waiter at a burger joint where the fries were tossed in salt and coriander and as I was bringing food over to the table for these two huge beefy guys one of them asks what the green stuff is so I go "it's coriander" and his friend goes very seriously "he can't have coriander" and I'm thinking shit ok maybe he's allergic and guy 1 starts pulling up his sleeve to show me something and I'm thinking shit shit shit he's probably breaking out in hives rn and it's my fault but he just shows me his arm and he has this huge cursive font tattoo that just says "I fucking hate coriander"

neocities guide - why you should build your own html website

do you miss the charm of the 90s/00s web where sites had actual personality instead of the same minimalistic theme? are you feeling drained by social media and the constant corporate monopoly of your data and time? do you want to be excited about the internet again? try neocities!!

what is neocities?

neocities is a free hosting website that lets you build your own html website from scratch, with total creative control. in their own words: "we are tired of living in an online world where people are isolated from each other on boring, generic social networks that don't let us truly express ourselves. it's time we took back our personalities from these sterilized, lifeless, monetized, data mined, monitored addiction machines and let our creativity flourish again."

why should I make my own website?

web3 has been overtaken by capitalism & conformity. websites that once were meant to be fun online social spaces now exist solely to steal your data and sell you things. it sucks!! building a personal site is a great way to express yourself and take control of your online experience.

what would I even put on a website?

the best part about making your own site is that you can do literally whatever the hell you want! focus on a specific subject or make it a wild collection of all your interests. share your art! make a shrine for one of your interests! post a picture of every bird you see when you step outside! make a collection of your favorite blinkies! the world is your oyster !! here are some cool example sites to inspire you: recently updated neocities sites | it can be fun to just look through these and browse people's content! space bar | local interstellar dive bar creature feature | halloween & monsters big gulp supreme peanutbuttaz | personal site dragodiluna linwood | personal site patho grove | personal site

getting started: neocities/html guide

sound interesting? here are some guides to help you get started, especially if you aren't familiar with html/css sadgrl.online webmastery | a fantastic resource for getting started with html & web revival. also has a layout builder that you can use to start with in case starting from scratch is too intimidating web design in 4 minutes | good for learning coding basics w3schools | html tutorials templaterr | demo & html for basic web elements eggramen test pages | css page templates to get started with sadgrl background tiles | bg tiles rivendell background tiles | more free bg tiles

fun stuff to add to your site

want your site to be cool? here's some fun stuff that i've found blinkies-cafe | fantastic blinkie maker! (run by @transbro & @graphics-cafe) gificities | internet archive of 90s/00s web gifs internet bumper stickers | web bumper stickers momg | gif gallery 99 gif shop | 3d gifs 123 guestbook | add a guestbook for people to leave messages cbox | add a live chat box moon phases | track the phases of the moon gifypet | a little clickable page pet adopt a shroom | mushroom page pet tamaNOTchi | virtual pet crossword puzzle | daily crossword imood | track your mood neko | cute cat that chases your mouse pollcode | custom poll maker website hit counter | track how many visitors you have

web revival manifestos & communities

also, there's actually a pretty cool community of people out there who want to bring joy back to the web! melonland project | web project/community celebrating individual & joyful online experiences. Also has an online forum melonland intro to web revival | what is web revival? melonking manifesto | status cafe | share your current status nightfall city | online community onio.cafe | leave a message and enjoy the ambiance sadgrl internet manifesto | yesterweb internet manifesto | sadly defunct, still a great resource reclaiming online social spaces | great manifesto on cultivating your online experience

in conclusion

i want everyone to make a neocities site because it's fun af and i love seeing everyone's weird personal sites that they made outside of the control of capitalism :) say hi to me on neocities

I wish age gap discourse hadn't spiraled the way it has because I want there to be a safe space to say "Men in their 40s who date 25 year olds aren't predators, they're just fucking losers"

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dollblooms

... honey you just described a predator LOL

No, I said what I said. But thank you for providing an example of how this topic has become insufferable on the internet.

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dollblooms

i am honestly burningly curious about how a 40 year old man who fucks around with college grads is not a predator

"College grad" is not a developmental stage, nor is it what I would describe a 25 year old as. I was 4 years out of college at 25. My mother had two children at 25. You can be a fucking congressman at 25.

There's a difference between a man who is immature and buys into misogynistic views of beauty and aging and one who is a predator. Also, many actual predators? Not losers and able to move through society pretty freely being seen as cool and the ideal, so conflating the two isn't helpful.

This is going to be my final response to any attempt at discourse. You're welcome to continue amongst yourselves.

also sometimes a 40 year old and a 25 year old just weirdly find each and it's a perfectly normal relationship - like all human relationships are complex and situational, it's so rarely an either/or thing let alone just one thing only

if a 40 year old dude only dates 25 year olds, DiCaprio style or something adjacent to it, then yeah he's a loser

if a 40 year old dude meets a 25 year old through social event or friends or whatever and they happen to hit it off and make a go of it, and this isn't some sort of reoccurring pattern for the guy, that's just a relationship with an age difference

being predatory means something specific, and man I agree w/ OP and really wish people just stopped ascribing it to any and all relationship dynamics they personally might not like

predator and groomer - two words that need to go up on the "can't use till you learn their meaning" shelf

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evilsoup

jesus christ, a 25 year old is a fully grown adult lmao. Why give a shit about this.

First it was "oh your brain doesn't fully develop til you're 25, so sleeping with legal adults under 25 is basically pedophilia"; now, completely predictably, it creeps up so even if you're 25--*seven years* into legal adulthood, and *nine years* beyond the legal age of consent in Canada or the United States, I might add--you still have to be treated like a little uwu smol child infant who can't make their own fucking choices. You're OLD now; you're not a fucking kid; you're responsible for your own fucking actions! A 25-year-old could easily be the boss of someone i their 40s in an employment relationship. Sweet God.

I know, I know, gatekeeping the outdoors, that's supposedly bad, right, but I think if you show up to do a hike and you brought a portable speaker with you to play music while you hike, I think, like hear me out, there should be a gate, and someone at the gate should keep you from doing the hike.

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nicdevera

playing music in public should get strong social disapproval

Recorded music, anyway. Live music is different rules. If you want to lug an entire cello up a mountain you can do whatever the hell you want.

Carrying a speaker on a hike to make everyone listen to your bullshit, and simply sitting under a tree and playing a fiddle in the woods, are two activities so different they may as well not exist in the same world.

I think the critical difference is that the bringing of recorded music with you ties the space to Elsewhere, whereas the creation of live music with an instrument you brought both binds you to the space, and drags everyone who hears you play into it as well.

I think you're right.

Yeah I'll accept this into my belief system.

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3scythes

BG3 gameplay be like: to end my turn I will shove this enemy, not because it does anything 9 times out of 10 but because it’s an action I’m able to take and it feels good.

I like to see them fall flat on their ass

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wumblr

i hope they find a stupid tiny fish or something on mars and make mining illegal, just like the devil’s hole in california

these endangered bastards and their bathtub-sized habitat (just the surface shelf of a giant cave structure thanks) singlehandedly pissed off SO many businessmen lol

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deskgirl

@wannakissrobits How dare you hide this in the tags!

fun fact!! it turns out that now when u make a new blog, tumblr forces you to follow 3-4 people before you can change your icon or modify your blog in any way!! this, of course, means that, yes, some of the "potential bots" many of us have been automatically blocking could have possibly been genuine new users who were only just seconds in to having an account!!! tumblr is literally screwing new users over!!!!

I see this spreading today a lot, rumour that apparently "new users can't add icon, blog description, post or anything without following people first", and that we might have been blocking/reporting new user instead of bots.

THIS IS NOT TRUE!

I don't know why people repost this without testing or checking themselves first. I just signed up for completely new account with new email today (September 15th 2023), and can normally add my icon, banner, description, posts.. or edit blog in any way I want.

This is the new blog I just created and all functions work normally despite my not following anyone @sweetchild5250

I will delete it in few days just wanted the proof. don't believe everything you read without testing folks :) Keep blocking those pesky empty bot accounts :)

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rosecandy

I was curious so I actually tested this myself three times. Whether they make you follow people or not is entirely dependent on the sign up method.

If you sign up using email and create a password directly or use an apple account, it does not require you to follow multiple people before setting up your account. You can just go directly to your dashboard, set up your theme, header, icon, etc. without any interference. Then you can follow people.

However, if you sign up using a gmail account, it requires you to follow at least five tags and at least three people. There's not a skip option. After you've finished following people, then you can edit your theme, header, icon, etc. You cannot change or customize your blog in any way until you follow people unless you close the tab and reopen tumblr altogether.

This is a case where both OP and this addition are true but, as I said, it depends on how users are signing up. I'm not really sure why there's entirely different sign up methods like this.

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pjackk

8 years ago i saw a mothafucka in central park using a wet ripe pear to maturbate and the look he had- pure exacy so i been #Paleo style #FruitBusting in nature ever since when U get older U realize i shit U not Life = Gaia 🌲🍃🌳🍀🌴🪴🌳🌾🍃🌱⛰️❄️🪺⛰️🍃⛰️☘️🌴🪨🌱☘️🌱🍄🍀🍄🍀🌴🌹🥀🌷🌹🌷🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🌾🍄🌾🌵☘️