By the way, I’m over here on Twitter, and have been for ages. Not sure if I ever mentioned that. So if you’re one of the few followers I have who still uses Tumblr, or you’re stalking my blog years after I stopped using it, come say hi. I never changed my URL here once; I don’t intend to change my Twitter either, so this post should be evergreen, unless I get banned for yelling at TERFs too much.

If I used to know you on here, you’re welcome to follow me on Twitter, or DM me or something and let me know how you’ve been. Actually, I kinda miss a lot of people, so I actively encourage you to talk to me. Please talk to me.

Oh also I’m plural, so that’s neat.

Most classpect tests aren’t accurate because they don’t take into account the relationship between class and aspect. Let’s say the two most important things in your life are learning (Seer) and your friends (Blood). A naive classpect test would tell you you were a Seer of Blood as a result, but you might not have any interest in learning about or understanding social connections, and you might not use your friends to learn. Both parts apply to you but they don’t relate at all, so your classpect ends up wrong. This is especially bad with the Thief, Rogue, Prince and Bard, who tend to have negative relationships to their aspect, as your classpect might end up implying that your most important trait is trying to steal or destroy the very thing you value. The only saving grace is the interpretation of using the aspect to [verb], rather than [verb]ing the aspect itself. In other cases, you get really boring answers where the class and aspect are both based on the same thing. For instance, a Sylph of Life who was all about healing, a Prince of Rage who was about destroying stuff, or a Seer of Light who was about knowing everything. Only by binding class and aspect together are you able to start exploring specifics, seeking out how or what you’re healing, destroying, learning, etc. My solution is to use three tests to work out three aspects, depending on how you relate to them: Helping, hindering or using the aspect. Then pick a class for each. Usually your helping class will be a Maid/Sylph or Witch/Heir, while the hindering class will be a Thief/Rogue or Prince/Bard, and your using class will be Mage/Seer or Page/Knight, but it can certainly vary. Finally, pick which of those three classpects actually fits you. Optionally, pick a second or third as a sort of backup.

Hey Tumblr folks, I haven’t been around much but I figured I’d ask y’all for your opinion:

Do any agender people take issue with the phrasing “people of all genders” when talking about equality, due to it seeming to imply that all people have genders? Is there any wording you would prefer?

What do you MEAN Yang and Blake haven’t smooched yet?!

*You're

As a lesbian, my favorite thing about girls is the taste of their bones.

Snakes... Can’t live with ‘em, can’t live without ‘em.

Times when it is acceptable to call someone “daddy” when they are not your father:

Hey Tumblr is it still cool to be otherkin?

I’m out of the loop, what’s the Black Panther discourse so far?

Discourse time:

I'm starting to think I might be ace, and with that realization comes a return to my previously-held belief that ace people aren't inherently"queer", not that that word really means anything. Like, my society's culture around sexuality has hurt me, sure, and that sucks, but... It doesn't feel like the same kind of oppression as I feel for being a trans dyke. So, my opinion is, listen to aro/ace people, don't be a dick to them, and realize that most of them are also queer. But if they're also cishet, well, it's not our job to put aside our own needs to help them. It's kinda like intersex people: A big deal, and certainly queer-adjacent, but we're different groups, with different needs.

I don’t think I have DID and I don’t think I’m otherkin but whoops over time I’ve definitely collected traits of both without noticing for ages and now I’m not sure what the fuck an identity is.

Accusing people of faking their illness hurts everyone, even if you were correct in your accusations, which you likely wouldn’t be.

I miss them so much already. I should have been ready for this, but I wasn’t. They had wanted this since before I met them.

I’m love my datemate? Callout post for Arlo ur too fucking great and I love loving you.