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قل ابن الجوزي رحمه الله

ibn al-jawzī رحمه الله said:

انظر إلى حالك الذي أنت عليه

look to the condition which you are upon

إن كان يصلح الموت و القبر

if it is suitable for death and the grave

فاستمر عليه

then continue upon it

و إن كام لا يصلح لهذين

but if it is not suitable for these two (death and the grave)

فتب إلى الله منها

then repent to Allāh from it

وارجع إلى ما يصلح

and return to what is suitable.

[بستان الواعظين ١٩٢]

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ا يمكن أن تكون أكرم من المرأة حين تُحب، فإن أعطيتها الأمان، كانت لك وطناً.

You can't be more generous than a woman when she loves. You give her safety and she'll be a home for you.

- Nizar Qabbani

Getting married is easy but the hardest thing is finding the right partner who's going to help you maintain and increase your level of Imaan and Taqwa.

If you want to get married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:

1. Ya Allah please Grant me someone who will remind me of You.

2. Ya Allah please Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.

3. Ya Allah please Grant me someone who will elevate my Imaan.

Aameen.🤍🕊