The pain of self disciplining yourself is better than the pain of regret
قل ابن الجوزي رحمه الله
ibn al-jawzī رحمه الله said:
انظر إلى حالك الذي أنت عليه
look to the condition which you are upon
إن كان يصلح الموت و القبر
if it is suitable for death and the grave
فاستمر عليه
then continue upon it
و إن كام لا يصلح لهذين
but if it is not suitable for these two (death and the grave)
فتب إلى الله منها
then repent to Allāh from it
وارجع إلى ما يصلح
and return to what is suitable.
[بستان الواعظين ١٩٢]
If it’s meant for you, it will reach you, no matter how long it takes, how distant it is from you or how difficult it may seem.
“And do not be like those who forgot Allah, so He made them forget themselves.”
{59:19}
"My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need."
Al Quran 28:24
ا يمكن أن تكون أكرم من المرأة حين تُحب، فإن أعطيتها الأمان، كانت لك وطناً.
You can't be more generous than a woman when she loves. You give her safety and she'll be a home for you.
- Nizar Qabbani
Getting married is easy but the hardest thing is finding the right partner who's going to help you maintain and increase your level of Imaan and Taqwa.
If you want to get married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Ya Allah please Grant me someone who will remind me of You.
2. Ya Allah please Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.
3. Ya Allah please Grant me someone who will elevate my Imaan.
Aameen.🤍🕊




