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This will simply be a place in which things I think should be reblogged will be. That's it. There is no main point to this whatsoever.

Look at me. Look me in the eye. On November the 8th, 2016, one of two things will happen: Hillary Clinton will become president, or Donald Trump will become president. These are the only two possibilities. The superdelegates aren’t going to switch. An indictment isn’t coming. There is no third possibility. There is no space between the spaces where you can hide. Every vote for Donald Trump requires two Hilary Clinton votes to overcome. A Hillary Clinton vote can only be overcome by two Donald Trump votes. If you stay home, a Donald Trump vote doubles its power. This is the real, actual reality of the situation. There is not one other option.

And there’s no ctrl-alt-del for the election. Read up on 2000 if you doubt this.

And to those of us who supported Bernie, he WANTS you to vote for Hillary. If you believe in him and his mission you will follow his advice. He knows that writing his name in, or voting for anyone else besides Clinton, is effectively voting for Trump.

Refusing to vote for Hillary is a vote for Trump, no matter how much you scream and say how it’s not. And if you’re standing by to do nothing in regards to taking down Trump, then you ARE grouped along with the rest of the people in this country that ruin things for everybody else.

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No, seriously, go read about the presidential election in 2000.

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If you weren’t old enough to remember and/or understand the ramifications of the 2000 election, I WILL TELL YOU.

Do not let Trump win. Please. I beg you. I went to grad school with people who voted for Nader in 2000 and my FB feed is full of them begging others not to make the same mistake they did. Bernie has his priorities straight, and the priority is stopping Trump.

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And if that doesn’t do it for you, this is the Republican platform 2016. It calls for:

If you vote for Trump, these are some of the planks of  the platform you’re voting for. 

You 👏🏻 can’t 👏🏻 stop 👏🏻 Trump 👏🏻 unless 👏🏻 you 👏🏻 actually 👏🏻 vote 👏🏻

Important scientific study: most bisexuals, when they realize their sexuality, are heralded by a heavenly chorus singing NSYNC’s “Bye Bye Bye”.  However, no research has yet been conducted on the equivalent experiences of asexuals and aromantics.  If you could share your musical experiences as related to your realization of orientation, it would be a great gift to Science and our research.

Okay, I’m realizing that I don’t know anyone I can trust to be on my side in this Discourse Hell. I recently found out that three people I know think aceness and aroness aren’t marginalized.

And I cannot, I literally cannot imagine what it must be like to be ace and/or aro in the middle of all this.

That’s why I’m making this post.

Reblog if you think aces and aros are oppressed.

Reblog if you think “het aros” and “het aces” can be closeted and that doesn’t mean they have straight privilege, any more than any other closeted MOGAI person.

Reblog if you think MOGAI is a legitimate term, and the people who mock it are wrong. Reblog if you think aro and ace people aren’t overreacting to “ace discourse” and the politicization of their identities.

Reblog if you think aro and ace people deserve a spot at the table. Reblog if your community is an aro and ace-accepting community. Reblog if you want to build connections with aro and ace people. Reblog if you welcome ace and aro people for their perspectives on heterosexism.

Reblog if you’re an aro and ace ally. There are fewer of us than you’d think.

You know, it will never not be ridiculously wild to me how much the ace community on this fucking site gets tarred and smeared by people who should goddamn know better. And it’s even wilder when you realize how fiendish and insidious it is that accusations of homophobia and lesbophobia get launched at people who  are criticizing members of the LGBTQIAP+ community for bad behavior. 

Seriously, want to shut down any and all dissent related to your Behavior? Make it so that the arguments are about Who You Are instead. Works every goddamn time. 

I already talked about this, but let’s bring it up again. More than a decade ago, when I was nineteen and a volunteer Security Officer for the Pride March, I bit off the heads of two well-known cis gay men, two leaders of the movement and famous online for their fiery condemnations of homophobia in my country. Said men would also engage in virulent transphobia and transmisogyny on their blogs, up to and including advocating the banning of trans women from the March. When they made it clear that they would be taking pictures of trans women to later eviscerate on blogs and forums, I told them point-blank that if I got even a whiff of that during the Pride March, I would have the gendarmes escort them out, put them in a taxi and send them home, until they fucking learned to behave. 

I got dogpiled for this by the community. The two were my most stringent detractors, but many others also joined them and for a long while I debated just cutting off contact altogether, for the sake of my sanity and blood-pressure. I got called a homophobe, got called a bitch, a whore, all for daring to stand up to those two cis gay men and their repugnant behavior that made the community actively unsafe for many others. 

Over the years, I’ve seen bisexuals (and particularly bi women) getting attacked this way and having the same epithets hurled at them, whenever they dared to criticize the rampant biphobia and misogyny associated with biphobia in the community (remember the whole ‘het-partnered bi people’ fiasco? You should be reminded of it for the rest of your life, if you actively contributed to it). 

I’ve seen pansexuals have everything from our legitimacy to our place within the community itself get questioned and doubted and actively rejected, but heaven fucking help you if you dared bare your teeth over this, if you dared show your anger, if you dared rip the goddamn community a new one, if you dared do a simple demographic study to see who the most vicious campaigners for exclusion were and then point them out. In that case, you were a homophobe, you were a lesbophobe. 

Am I to understand that in the above cases, not being a homophobe or a lesbophobe would have involved letting members of the community cheerfully walk all over me and unquestioningly spit on my right to be in the community, regardless of who I’m seeing or not seeing? 

Do I even have to point out how utterly fucked that is?

And now I’m seeing the same thing playing out with ace people and it makes me sick down to my fucking bones. The same arguments are at work, the same tired hatred, the same hand-wringing over nonexistent problems, the same Purity Litmus Tests and the exact same closing of ranks among the people most active in all this bullshit, to guard each other’s backs. 

‘Ooooh, you cannot possibly criticize us for what we DO, you see. That would make you homophobic/lesbophobic uwu’.

Language is power. Remember this. Having your language taken away from you is having power and agency be stripped away from you. Having the ability to point out and criticize the people most active in committing exclusionary acts against you is being rendered entirely toothless. And that is the intended end-goal. 

To the members of the LGBTQIAP+ community incensed by this. Ask yourselves why your first reaction is to lash out at me and others who have been repeatedly abused and excluded and kicked at and attacked within the community, instead of the people within the ranks committing all of these acts? Food for goddamn thought.  

Opal just loves being jiggled.

if this doesn’t get 1000 notes im never jiggling my cat again

Well since this got over 1000 notes she’s still happily getting jiggled.

Don’t ask me why there’s milk on my bed.

Why is there milk on your bed

i was drinking it okay???? I get my own gallon of milk and I drink it from the jug like an animal are you happy now

remember this