If you’ve had 4 glasses of wine and you keep checking your phone with that 1% of hope that he’s as drunk as you and he’s going to text you, you’re not over him. If you find excuses to drive through his neighborhood, you’re not over him. If he still crosses your mind every time you post a snapchat and you check to see if he watches it, you’re not over him. When are you going to learn that telling yourself you don’t care won’t work? Why is it so hard to accept the fact that something is over and grieve it then forget about it and move on? What are you going to do when you get drunk and break down and tell him you miss him and he doesn’t respond? You can pretend you’re over it as much as you want but you’re not actually over it until someone mentions his name and you can honestly say “wow I haven’t thought about him in a while, I wonder what he’s up to.” And until that point, it’s all acting. Just because you don’t talk to him anymore or you stopped throwing yourself at him, it doesn’t mean you don’t still want to. That’s the difference between pretending to be over him and actually being over him. You have to genuinely not want to care about this person anymore. And that’s the impossible part.

You got to learn how to vibe alone. You can't live your life being dependent on other sources of energy. You have the ability to be self sufficient so tap into yourself once in a while.

The energy you release into the world will return back to you.