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Professor Pumpkin

@professorpumpkin / professorpumpkin.tumblr.com

Bisexual/Pansexual Polyamorous Pagan 30 something. @katthebaker14 is my sweetheart. @darkravn is my Lavender Heart. I am an open book. Ask and you will learn. Other blogs are @4fingerknifehand, @samhainkink, @grapplinggouken.

lots of times if I tell my boyfriend that I am proud of him for dealing with a situation, or that I'm sorry he's having to deal with a situation, he will say "no it's my own fault." meaning that he feels like he doesn't deserve praise or comfort for dealing with a situation that is his fault. (for example a financial problem caused or exacerbated by him having been too anxious or absentminded to deal with the situation sooner.) and I tell him this and I will tell y'all this, that I don't believe that. I think you are even braver and stronger for taking steps to deal with a mess that is of or partly of your own creation, because you have to cope with guilt and shame on top of the thing itself, and because you're fighting against the same ingrained dysfunction in yourself that caused the mess. that's like the bravest and most constructive thing you can do and you should be proud and I am proud of you.

also, mistakes don't mean you deserve to suffer

I am the type of neuro spicy that if I take my headphones off mid song, I have to skip the song. I can not come back and finish the song.

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The closest furries ever came to mainstream acceptance was when audiences watched Beauty & the Beast (1991) and collectively went "hmm. bad. turn him back." when the human prince appeared

Happy Solstice!

(My power grows stronger with each day from here.)

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I have gone on and on about Patrick Testerone Swayze pursuing this role and nailing it, but I really do want to point out that Wesley Snipes has absolutely no shame talking about the role and has been known to bring it up when people list his movies and don't include it.

Anonymous asked:

Do you have any pets? If not, what animal do you wish you could keep as a pet if you had the right space/means?

I dooooooo

I have 3 dogs. 2 rescue girls and one that I got as a puppy as a gift (never doing a puppy again lol)

They are:

Zoë, black brindle pit bull mix

Molly, Red headed tri color pembroke corgi

Korben, sable pembroke corgi

Pictures by Kayleigh Shawn

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