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🐇🌼🥚  OSTARA 🐇🌼🥚

🌼 Also known as spring equinox

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🐇 When Is Ostara?

🌼 Northern Hemisphere: 19-22 March

🌼 Southern Hemisphere: 19-22 September

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🐇What Is Ostara?

🌼 Ostara is a celebration of the start of spring, it’s when night and day  have become at perfect balance with each other. At this time, light now begins to take over darkness. Signs of spring are here for most of us or are arriving very soon. New life and growth are appearing all around us. Winter is drawing to an end and it’s getting to the time where we need to shake off the winter, if we haven’t already at Imbolc, and move full force ahead. All of the planning and procrastinating at Imbolc is now to be put to the test and begun. It’s a time for fertility, new growth, the birth of animals and insects too. The sun is slowly awakening to its full potential. The sun god and the young maiden goddess are married now and so conception is imminent. When she gives birth she will become the great mother. It’s also time to begin to honour your spring deities and your fertility deities, the main one being the Germanic Anglo-Saxon goddess Ostara who the sabbat is named after. She wakes up the earth with her powerful energy and creates fertility, growth and renewal all around. Ostara often takes the form of a hare of rabbit, which is why rabbits are a huge symbol of Ostara.

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🐇 How To Celebrate It

🌼 Easter, the traditional Christian holiday that is widely celebrated, has been adapted from the pagan Sabbat Ostara. As you may know, Easter is named after the female hormone oestrogen, necesary for fertility, which is one of the main aspects of the celebration of Ostara. As Easter has evolved from Ostara, there are actually quite a few similarities between the two holidays.

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🐇 Activities

🌼 Any plans or goals that you would like to complete this year, get started on them now; motivation is high!

🌼 Start your magickal herb garden if you haven’t already, if you don’t have room, no worries! Small pots and plants in appropriate places can be just as effective.

🌼 Take a walk, look for the first inspirational and motivational signs of spring, Maybe even press a flower or two.

🌼 Hold an Ostara egg hunt.

🌼 Wear green to represent the green earth arriving.

🌼 Spells to cast at this time would be for hope, love and good fortune or any that relate to achieving goals, to fertility and to love.

🌼 Bless an egg with a property of your choice and eat it.

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🐇Altar Ideas

🌼 Decorate it with green, purple and yellow ribbons to represent the spring and greenery that comes to the earth,

🌼 Light green,purple and yellow and orange candles.

🌼 Paint real or fake eggs for your altar to represent fertility and honor the fertility goddess Ostara.

🌼 Decorate your altar with some spring flowers- only pick a few though! After picking flowers, water them to give thanks and plant some more seeds around them if you can.

🌼 Pot up a plant and place it at your altar, keep it healthy and watch it grow and flourish.

🌼 Add statues, trinkets or stuffed toys of hares or rabbits- these are major symbols of fertility and immortality, and are close representations of fertility deities.

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🐇 Food And Drink

 🐇 Good foods and drinks for this time of the year are anything that represent fertility and seasonal foods to honour the beginning of spring:

🌼 Green vegetables 🌼 Seeds 🌼 Eggs 🌼 Dairy such as goat’s , cow’s and sheep’s cheese and milk. Free- range or home produced is best, but shop-bought or dairy substitutes, if you don’t eat dairy, are just as good. 🌼 Meats such as lamb, ham and rabbit, or meat substitutes 🌼 Flowers that are edible, on salads, etc. 🌼 Light breads 🌼 Fresh juices

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🐇Crystals

🐇 Relevant crystals to carry around with you this time of year and to meditate with, use in divination and spell work, and place at your altar are:

🌼 Clear Quartz

🌼 Agate

🌼 Rose Quartz

🌼 Amazonite

🌼 Jasper

🌼 Lapis Lazuli

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🐇Herbs And Flowers

🐇 Herbs and flowers that are preferable at this time of the year are seasonal flowers and herbs that can be planted, or that begin to blossom or be fragrant in the spring.

🌼 Lilies

🌼 Narcissus

🌼 Lavender

🌼 Honeysuckle

🌼 Lemon Balm

🌼 Daffodils

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🐇Incense

🐇 Good incense to use during casting circles, burning at your altar around Ostara time and for cleansing and consecrating, as well as for magickal workings, are:

🌼 Floral- spring flowers

🌼 Rose

🌼 Strawberry

🌼 Oak Moss

🌼 Sandalwood

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Source: A modern guide to witchcraft & magick by: harmony nice

Art Credit To: natachachohraart

Art by thienbao.deviantart.com

Color Correspondences

RED🌹

Signifies: Strength, health, vigor, lust, danger.

Holiday: Yule

Planet: Mars

Day: Tuesday

Astrological Sign: Scorpio

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ORANGE🔥

Signifies: Encouragement, adaptability, stimulation, attraction, plenty, kindness.

Holiday: Candlemas

Deities: Brigid

Planets: Sun, Mars, Mercury

Days: Sunday, Tuesday, Wednesday

Astrological Sign: Leo, Sagittarius

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YELLOW☀

Signifies: Knowledge, learning, concentration, persuasion, charm, confidence, jealousy, joy, comfort.

Planet: Mercury

Day: Wednesday

Astrological Sign: Gemini, Leo

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GREEN🌿

Signifies: Finances, fertility, luck, success energy, charity, growth rejuvenation, ambition, counteract greed and jealousy, plants kingdom including herbal healing.

Planets: Venus, Mercury

Days: Friday, Wednesday

Holidays: Spring Equinox, Beltane

Astrological Sign: Taurus

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BLUE🔮

Signifies: Tranquility, understanding, patience, health, truth, devotion, sincerity, honor, loyalty, peace, wisdom, protection during sleep, astral projection.

Planets: Moon, Venus, Saturn, Jupiter

Days: Monday, Friday, Saturday, Thursday

Astrological Sign: Libra, Sagittarius

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VIOLET/PURPLE💜

Signifies: Power, piety, sanctity, sentimentality, tension, sadness amplification of other energies, wisdom, high ideals, spiritual protection and healing, psychic ability, protective energy.

Planet: Jupiter

Day: Thursday

Astrological Sign: Sagittarius

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BLACK🕷

Signifies: Negation without reflecting, unlocking when stuck, banishing evil or negativity.

Holiday- Samhain

Planet- Saturn

Day - Saturday

Deities- The Crone

Astrological Sign: Scorpio & Capricorn

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WHITE🐰

Signifies: Purity, consecration, meditation, divination, exorcism, the full moon, healing, peace, spiritual strength.

(May be substituted for any other color.)

Planet: Moon

Day: Monday

Astrological Sign: Cancer

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GRAY🗝

Signifies: Balance, neutrality, used in erasing, canceling, neutralizing, and return to the universe without repercussion destructive energies.

Planet: Moon

Day: Monday

Deity: Athena

Astrological Sign: Virgo

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PINK👄

Signifies: Healing, familial or emotional love (rather than sexual), friendship, affections, unselfish emotions, spiritual healing, banishing hatred.

Gem: Rose quartz

Planet: Venus

Day: Friday

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BROWN🌰

Signifies: The Earth, grounding, trees, concentration, telepathy, spells to locate lost objects, protection of the familiars, pets, and animals.

Planets: Moon (tan browns), Venus (all), Saturn (dark browns)

Days: Monday, Friday, Saturday

Deity: Gaia

Astrological Sign: Capricorn

Holiday: Mabon

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SILVER💿

Signifies: Purity, the moon, treasure, values, female energy, the unconscious mind.

Day: Monday

Astrological Sign: Gemini

Deity: Artemis and other Moon Goddesses

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GOLD 📀

Signifies: The sun, male energy, wealth, financial wisdom, conscious mind, attracting happiness, activity, intelligence.

Planet: Sun

Day: Sunday

Astrological Sign: Leo

Deity: Apollo and other Sun Gods

"Should parents read their daughter's texts or monitor her online activity for bad language and inappropriate content?"

Earlier today, I served as the “young woman’s voice” in a panel of local experts at a Girl Scouts speaking event. One question for the panel was something to the effect of, “Should parents read their daughter’s texts or monitor her online activity for bad language and inappropriate content?”

I was surprised when the first panelist answered the question as if it were about cyberbullying. The adult audience nodded sagely as she spoke about the importance of protecting children online.

I reached for the microphone next. I said, “As far as reading your child’s texts or logging into their social media profiles, I would say 99.9% of the time, do not do that.”

Looks of total shock answered me. I actually saw heads jerk back in surprise. Even some of my fellow panelists blinked.

Everyone stared as I explained that going behind a child’s back in such a way severs the bond of trust with the parent. When I said, “This is the most effective way to ensure that your child never tells you anything,” it was like I’d delivered a revelation.

It’s easy to talk about the disconnect between the old and the young, but I don’t think I’d ever been so slapped in the face by the reality of it. It was clear that for most of the parents I spoke to, the idea of such actions as a violation had never occurred to them at all.

It alarms me how quickly adults forget that children are people.

Apparently people are rediscovering this post somehow and I think that’s pretty cool! Having experienced similar violations of trust in my youth, this is an important issue to me, so I want to add my personal story:

Around age 13, I tried to express to my mother that I thought I might have clinical depression, and she snapped at me “not to joke about things like that.” I stopped telling my mother when I felt depressed.

Around age 15, I caught my mother reading my diary. She confessed that any time she saw me write in my diary, she would sneak into my room and read it, because I only wrote when I was upset. I stopped keeping a diary.

Around age 18, I had an emotional breakdown while on vacation because I didn’t want to go to college. I ended up seeing a therapist for - surprise surprise - depression.

Around age 21, I spoke on this panel with my mother in the audience, and afterwards I mentioned the diary incident to her with respect to this particular Q&A. Her eyes welled up, and she said, “You know I read those because I was worried you were depressed and going to hurt yourself, right?”

TL;DR: When you invade your child’s privacy, you communicate three things:

  1. You do not respect their rights as an individual.
  2. You do not trust them to navigate problems or seek help on their own.
  3. You probably haven’t been listening to them.

Information about almost every issue that you think you have to snoop for can probably be obtained by communicating with and listening to your child.

Part of me is really excited to see that the original post got 200 notes because holy crap 200 notes, and part of me is really saddened that something so negative has resonated with so many people.

I love this post.

Too many parents wonder why their kids aren’t honest with them, and never realize their own non-receptive behavior and their failure to listen are the reasons why.

At one point or another, a child WILL keep a secret from you, but if it’s to a point where all their emotional feelings are being poured away from you as opposed to toward you, it’s probably because you haven’t been emotionally trustworthy or open. 

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Honestly, children are so open and honest until you teach them that honesty is punished and you don’t listen to them.

Nothing like curling up and watching my favorite Disney movie to get inspired while knitting my stained glass sweater vest! It’s coming along so nicely 😍

The Opheliac archetype in classic art.

And there is no one who can save me. She sits down to her coloured thread She knows lovers waking up in their bed She says, ‘How long can I live this way Is there no one I can pay to let me go 'Cause I’m half sick of shadows I wanna see the sky Everyone else can watch as the sun goes down So why can’t I?

The doctor I went to last week was looking over my history and he said “Endometriosis?” and I said yes. And he said “Is that just your speculation or have you actually been diagnosed?” and I was like “I have been cut open three times for it so I hope it isn’t just speculation.” and he just looked at me and said “Females tend to diagnose themselves” and without missing a beat I said “Well I hope you do your job so I don’t have to.” 

OMG OMG omg OMG. This every day. Must. Re. Blog.

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I took some screenshots of this video, about “leftover women” in China, women who are unmarried and over the age of 25. I took screenshots every time someone said something that created a picture with the subtitles that just…. resonated with me. Something women can truly understand.

These women deserve to be heard.