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You struggled and you’ve suffered and you’re still here. I’m proud of you.
I had a really terrible week this week and I just wanted to say that finding your blog has reminded me that it won’t last even if it feels like I can’t face tomorrow. The world will go on, I will go with it, and that the mistakes that have been made will fade into nothingness. It doesn’t really feel like quite enough to say thank you but I will anyway, thank you.
I’m so glad my blog made you feel better!!!! Sending you good vibes and hoping you have better days coming soon 🙏 take it easy on yourself! Good times always come back around
i used to struggle with dissociation (still do). i think it was a coping mechanism i developed do deal with the bullying, anxiety, and my parent's arguing more and more often. i used to go weeks, even months, without feeling anything. there is a year of my life i can barely remember. but i haven't had a lasting episode in months. i'm really happy for myself.
Congratulations!!!!! Progress really is a great feeling :) I hope you continue to do well!
if you are good and kind to the world, you will find the world granting you goodness and kindness back
I'm feeling destructed, unfocused and unproductive.. please can you give some advice?
Honestly I’ve been feeling the same way lately so I understand what you’re going through. I’ve been setting REALLY small goals for myself and slowly working my way up to larger ones. For example, I’ll set a goal of taking a shower, and then the next day I have a goal of taking a shower plus eating a healthy meal, etc. I’ve also been working really hard on trying to remove negative things from my life. (For me I was part of a group text with some really shitty people, so I asked them to make a new group without me.)
Take it easy on yourself 💖 start small and work your way up
Your feelings are just as important as anyone else’s. Stop hurting your own feelings.
Being open and honest about your mental problems is Big Dick Energy
Boys, protect girls. Call people out when they make offensive jokes. Stand up to those who treat girls like objects. Walk a girl home if she feels unsafe. Listen to them and be considerate of their feelings. Destroy that myth that women are inferior.
Girls, protect boys. Call people out when they make fun of a boy for showing emotion. Stand up to those who tell boys to ‘man up.’ Support boys who enjoy feminine things. Destroy the myth that men can’t be victims and that women can’t be predators.
Boys, protect boys. Protect your bros from violent relationships. Comfort your bros when they need somebody. Stand up for your bros who are ridiculed for not wanting/liking sex. Destroy the myth that two men can’t be close without it being “gay.”
Girls, protect girls. Defend sisters who enjoy having sex. Stand up to those who define sisters for what they wear. Don’t judge your sister’s worth from how many boyfriend’s she’s had. Destroy the myth that girls have to constantly compete with each other.
Never try to force people to love you. You’re worthy of genuine love
Your happiness is more important than the opinions of strangers
always remember that love will always come back to u. in a different form, different person, different hobby, different touch. but in any way, love will always come back.
hello these gifs were made to help during panic/anxiety attacks. some are just basic breathing exercises and others use emdr (a technique that reduces or controls panic attacks or feelings of anxiety). bon appetite
In case you need a pause :)
hello these gifs were made to help during panic/anxiety attacks. some are just basic breathing exercises and others use emdr (a technique that reduces or controls panic attacks or feelings of anxiety). bon appetite
In case you need a pause :)
Stop hiding what you believe in. Stop hiding what you enjoy. If people judge you for it, so be it. Be open with yourself, you shouldn’t have to hide.
about first jobs: jobs considered "entry level" really don't mind if you have work experience. Think of somewhere you might like to work or can handle at the very least, go to them first, ask for a hiring manager/store manager and ask a few questions before applying! this will keep a face to the name and they'll be more likely to remember and contact you again once you put in your application! dont be aftaid to call in after a few days once u apply either, persistance is key!!
Aaa thank you for the advice!!!!!!! I really appreciate it!!!!!!
Never stop growing. Never stop evolving. Become the best person you can be
Stop settling for less than you deserve
