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@phanic-atthegay-blog

Darling I'm a nightmare dressed like a gay meme
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//18.12.2017

idąc do domu zacząłem myśleć co teraz robisz

czy włosy ci już urosły i czy ciągle ubierasz się całkiem na czarno

prawdę mówiąc uwielbiałem sposób w jaki się ubierałaś

i uwielbiałem słowa które do mnie mówiłaś

bardziej niż cokolwiek

dlaczego nie mogę cię nigdy spotkać gdzieś po drodze przypadkiem

chciałbym tak zobaczyć cię jeszcze raz

(naprawdę)

”czasami marzę, że czytasz moje wiersze” marta masłyk

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an energetic warrior, he has a hasty personality and he’s very quick to love or hate (inspired by this tweet)

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please reblog to save the phandom

if you are meeting dan and phil:

DO:

  • be kind! say nice and positive things!
  • ask to sign your book! they will be happy to and you will be sad if you don’t!
  • give phil a BIG LONG HUG; he gives the best hugs and you will want to never let go.
  • talk to them! don’t be nervous- they are too! dan is especially nervous so be comfortable!
  • dress appropriately and brush your teeth- nobody likes a stinky fan in dirty underwear.
  • get a picture! and if you want- they will do any (appropriate) pose you ask!
  • cry. just fucking cry your eyes out because this is the best moment of your life.

DON’T:

  • ask/talk about phan- sweet jesus just don’t do it. they are people and you should respect their privacy.
  • touch them inappropriately- THIS IS SO WRONG! don’t:
  1. lick them
  2. touch their butts
  3. touch their necks
  4. grab them
  5. pet them

They are not your pet! They are people and most of these things is literally sexual assault and I’m legit mad that I have to write this.

  • don’t say anything to make them uncomfortable
  • don’t refuse phil if you’re one of those “dangirls”
  • ask for an inappropriate photo pose
  • do ANYTHING that you will embarrass you later. this should be a good experience!

Also- a warning:

Their manager/guards can be mean. They might yell at you not to vlog but odds are D&P will tell them to back off. They might yell at you for “taking too much time”- just be casual and take an appropriate amount of time. Vlog if you want but be prepared. Hopefully for this tour they will organize it differently to avoid this.

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Rape Escape

  • Easy and very effective
  • Requires nothing but your body
  • Includes attack

Very useful to know, pass and share please.

Worth watching

I don’t mean to impose a personal favour on you guys, but I really would like to ask that everyone who follows me reblog this. 

I don’t think I made it very clear but last month I was sexually assaulted by someone who I thought was my friend (I don’t want to talk about it don’t ask), and it’s… really fucked with my head. 

Had I known this a month ago I would have been able to get away

So, essentially, I’m really pleading with you to reblog this so everyone who follows you doesn’t get stuck in the same position I was with no way out. 

I mean again I don’t want the point of this to be my sob story or whatever but if you could reblog this it would seriously mean a lot 

and im asking to all of my followers who see this post in your dashboard to please press play to this video, you never know when this is gonna be

useful, PLEASE DON’T IGNORE IT.

This is one of the first moves I was taught in Krav Maga, and it is one of the most effective.

It took me about a half hour to get down with practice, but once you get it, it’s an intuitive movement.

Please pass this along, it will save lives.

Important

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hayei

Please reblog this.

Please, if you see this, Reblog it. 

If you see this, reblog please.

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5 things I did that improved my mental health in the last 1 year 1. I realized my worth. It was so hard because it meant letting go of those who didn’t. And those were the people that I loved. It hurt so bad. When the ropes that tied them to me were cut, I got cut too. I bled. It hurt. But then those wounds healed like wounds always do. And Now? I am free. 2. I started taking care of myself and that involved going back to the things I learned as a child. Brush your teeth. Take a shower. Sleep on time. Sleep enough. Drink loads of water. Walk. Let your skin shower in sunlight. I keep a habit tracker. It’s simple. It lets me be conscious of my daily needs and whether or not I am fulfilling them. 3. I learned that you don’t always have to respond. To what people say, to that person texting you after 8 months of complete silence, to negative comments, to accusations. It doesn’t make you a coward. Not in the least. What it really does is, is let you be at peace. But the hard part? I also learned that you don’t always have to respond to ‘I love you’ either. 4. I learned to not be extreme. Yes I don’t want to do anything with them. But do I need to burn their letters? Delete all pictures? Even when I’m not sure how that will make me feel in the long run? No. I learned to store it all away in a place I wouldn’t touch until I wanted to. It’s been a year. I haven’t once touched. It works for all aspects of life. Had a bad day at work? Do you just yell and quit? No. Have 100 bad days at work where they don’t respect you but still continue to be silent and work? No any extreme isn’t good. 5. Food is important. So important. They just don’t say ‘you are what you eat’ to sound silly. Food is literally you putting something in yourself. You gotta be more mindful of what, when and how much you’re putting in. Don’t restrict yourself. But don’t not monitor yourself either.