i think one of the most important things you learn about making connections with others is that a significant portion of the time people just do not know theyre doing what theyre doing

sometimes someone is acting selfish because they just didnt think you had any interest in what theyre hogging. sometimes you dont get invited to the movies because your friend could have sworn that you said no. sometimes you think someone is mad at you because theyre bad at hiding how little sleep they got. we are all like little worlds that briefly crash into one another from time to time and we just arent physically capable of seeing the whole picture at once in those moments. and learning that really changed everything!

every day o need to save money and then there is some kind of little fucking item

Amazing how every guide on interacting with police, including ones that are explicitly pro-cop, are indistinguishable from guides on how to avoid being attacked by a wild animal.

Don't make any sudden movements, avoid eye contact, stay calm or you WILL die. Wait, what do you mean this is advice for interacting with a human being and not a hungry bear?

"Keep your hands on the steering wheel and don't have anything in them, a police officer might mistake a cellphone for a weapon." Okay, should I also hold my hand out for him to sniff when he approaches so that he knows I'm not a threat?

very well, i shall smoke this “bowl” with you. but take warning! henceforth i may become quite….. silly…

Shout out to everyone doing the hard yet necessary work of posting about fictional characters kissing online.

if i got possessed demonically i wouldn’t even notice it. with everything else i’ve got going on

people are so so cruel about executive dysfunction always theyll say you just lack discipline & dont take shit seriously & dont care meanwhile you are spending every waking second tortured over not being able to start. you get so used to screaming at yourself you need to do it right now OR ELSE that you become completely insensate to it & extreme distress just becomes your status quo. you distract yourself to try to feel better bc its not like youre actually succeeding at working on shit anyway & this is taken as evidence it was all just an elaborate ruse to goof off after all. you sacrifice your physical & mental health at the altar of productivity & it doesnt even fucking work

Been thinking about making stickers,. What do y’all think?

THE BEAR, 02.06 + Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson

Tbh if the black butler anime had focused on the epic transgender hedonism instead of the pedobaiting it’d hold up. I miss her

are people allowed to say kys here

We're allowed to say faggot don't worry about it

s/o to this skeleton babe from 1936

This is a really poignant illustration of the seductive nature of glorifying war but that is a LOOK and she is SERVING it

I’ve seen some people respond to governments restricting trans affirming care for autistic people with statements like “autistic people have higher IQs” and “I’m autistic and I have a biology degree” and I’d just like to say that autistic trans people with low IQs and no degrees also deserve to medically transition should they choose to do so.

i deserve a gold star for being so sweet and nice and not killing

♡ Betsey Johnson Heart Pearl Drop Earrings ♡

i’ve heard a lot of people say “don’t reach out to your friends first and see how many people will remain in your life. those are your true friends” and i get it. it sucks and it’s tiring constantly being the one to message first, to initiate hang outs but don’t take this so literally. some friendships require initiation. i have lost touch with so many people who genuinely cared about me and wanted me in their life because i stopped reaching out. it’s a hard pill to swallow but honestly some people just suck at it and it doesn’t mean they don’t love and value you. i’ve reconnected with some people over the past few months and it’s crazy how genuinely happy they are to see me and how engaged they are in the conversation. i just think sometimes we’re too harsh on each other & too quick to emphasize other peoples flaws and remove them from our lives but then we’ll all be alone and what’s the point of life then!!!!

me: i don’t want to see jellyfish so i will blacklist the tag #jellyfish

people with no common sense: je11yf1sh, je11¥fi5h, j*llyf*sh, je//ÿf!sh, j3ï||yf¡sh, gel lee fisk

result: cannot account for the sheer amount of possible ways to alter the word jellyfish

conclusion: i have to see jellyfish now.

Once again, tumblr is not tiktok, tag properly.