Toni

03/13/2019

Part of my Man Hater zine, you can read the full zine here.

No, dude, we're actually not worried about how "tight" we are. That's a male thought process. That's a patriarchal thought process.

We're too busy worrying about pelvic floor health degradation (either due to age or childbirth) and how it is routinely ignored by medical staff because it isn't life threatening.

Being “tight” is rape culture rhetoric anyway. Usually it comes from not being aroused enough for penetration. And that’s hot and feels better for men so it must be the ideal female body, right?

Why would we want misogynists like this in our spaces, Jesus.

The absolute fucking agony and misery of trying to find posts about feminism that have any teeth and deal with reproductive health and the ways that the (in)ability to bear children has shaped the history of women is like walking through a trying to walk through a beautiful garden but the ground is covered in rakes, and the rakes absolutely HATE trans people.

",and the rakes absolutely HATE trans people" Be real with yourself for one second and acknowledge you tacked on this last part at the very end because you know it's inherently considered hateful and transphobic to acknowledge sex-based difference and you wanted to make clear that your interest in women's biological oppression was still somehow subservient to the idea that being a natal female is somehow irrelevant to being a woman. It's actually kind of sad to see the desperation to speak about something real (the universal biological oppression of women that is obvious, historically important, and at the root of women's suffering globally) while still having to genuflect to the idea that the female body is an abstract, unreal social construction irrelevant to womanhood.

How dare feminism not center penis havers for one single conversation . How dare we talk about sexism and not modern male gender feels and how no male in history was married off and murdered by his husband for being unable to have male heirs 🤡

Violent patriarchal culture would like for you to think that femicide is an innate, and therefore justified, part of human society. It is not. Cultures can and must change. Don't let them make you think that it's hopeless.

Today in non-binary:

“I don’t feel safe publicly coming out as a ‘special’ non-woman who will still dress like and act like a woman.”

“Sometimes I wish I never came out as non-binary.”

Oh, man, that sounds serious. Why?

Oh! No one was paying you special attention for it.

And because you’re okay with your body and how you present, all you really want out of being “non-binary” is the right to control others’ language, which they’re no longer willing to do. And if you are you no matter what, then it should follow that even if people use “she” to refer to you, that doesn’t change your special “them-ness,” right?

Non-binary people seem exhausting and exhausted. It seems to me that if one must work so hard for one’s gender, then it is in fact a performance rather than something innate.

Today in: are the gender people okay?

“Being silent and moving to a different game does not make us more safe.”

Sir, this is about Stardew Valley.

But when you believe bullshit like the below to be true I’m sure the world is just littered with dangers:

>“Trans women are not biological men.”

> the study (which would not link to Tumblr no matter what I did but the New York Times has the quote from Pitsiladis) literally says trans women have an advantage over “cisgender” women in sports and also acknowledges that it studied fewer than 100 participants total (19 men, 12 trans men, 23 trans women, 21 women) so the sample size is so small as to be useless

> so now you’re just a male doped up on exogenous cross-sex hormones who’s better than women at a sport but worse than other men and doctors aren’t even calling you a man now

> and you’ll still never be a woman

> and you can’t even play as a trans or nonbinary farmer in Stardew Valley so are you safe anywhere?!?$?

if i could remove the shame and guilt girls feel from same sex attraction and give it to porn addicted straight boys, i would. how can they feel nothing for the way they dehumanize us while sapphics apologize just for existing?

“Not a single TERF opposes surgery that imposes patriarchal beauty standards on girls” literally every radical feminist opposes that actually. It would be cool if the pansexual furries could stay in their lane and stop trying to sound like the experts on feminism when they clearly have not read a WORD of radical feminist theory in their lives. If you don’t know what you’re talking about you can simply shut up instead of making things up to pin on the feminists you’ve been told to dislike

Also I think it’s interesting how half of the replies are saying “this is literally the same as the trans people getting ‘gender affirming’ surgeries so it’s good” and half of them are saying “see this is what you should actually be mad about, it’s completely different from trans surgeries and it’s bad”. So which one is it lol

“TERFs”: All surgeries for cosmetic reasons, including altering the body to conform more to societal ideals of a gender, are bad.

TRAs: TERFs literally love when children get breast surgeries. Also, ideologically, we can’t decide if it’s good or bad for cis people to get plastic surgery to conform to their gender but it’s unilaterally good if trans people do.

Conservatives: Women getting plastic surgery is good because it makes them hotter to me.

TRAs: TERFs are just the same as conservatives!!

17 YEAR OLDS GETTING BREAST IMPLANTS OR NOSE JOBS OR LABIA CUT OFF IS EQUALLY AS BAD AS UNNECESSARY DOUBLE MASTECTOMIES

It’s really not that hard. These industries prey on girls and women in particular. Non medically need, dangerous surgery, to make money and push unhealthy and often racist beauty standards

Exhibit 2744

Referring to JK Rowling, of course. Interesting how these unhinged cultists never conjure up similar, overly detailed rape and torture scenarios about conservative men whose opposition to trans ideology stems from homophobic and misogynistic views (like Matt Walsh, Ben Shapiro, or Jordan Peterson).

Interesting how these rape and torture scenarios are reserved exclusively for the one woman whose opposition to trans ideology stems from radical feminist and gender abolitionist views.

Exhibit 2747

In case you forgot today how much men hate you.

And the MRAs and "both sides are equal" people are cricket silent!! Give it time. Maybe they're still looking for tumblr posts in the misandry tag.

Exhibit 2751

How many of these men posting live with their mothers? How many have sisters? Daughters of their own perhaps?

How do you know your own male family member isn’t thinking this shit about you?

Her son is 15

Some clarification - in a later video she said it wasn’t over a cellphone, but I don’t quite know what would warrant a reaction anything close to this.

Oh my god… this is the worst temper tantrum i have ever seen…. Everything… everything is broken….. he didn’t leave a single thing untouched. Her personal possessions, electronics, every mirror, the countertop, the appliances, the TOILET, her work laptop, she had an extensive nail polish collection - probably a hobby or a side business, the baby’s things… how HOW do you recover from this. She’s going to get in trouble at work for the laptop, she may lose her job, she’s going to have to commit a major amount of time to recovering, distracting her from work and other responsibilities, her apartment will want money for the damages, this will affect her insurance, her appliances are broken and she cant use the bathroom and can’t cook or store food, all of her personal possessions are gone, she will have to spend so much time cleaning up, and now she and a baby will have to live in an unsafe environment until it’s cleaned up. Honestly with all the glass everywhere i think she’ll have to spend time elsewhere. She may get evicted, she may get sued, she will probably be in trouble with the police. This boy has caused real, significant damage to her life. He’ll have to be arrested or put in a psychiatric facility. She’ll have to deal with those proceedings.

this is literally almost as bad as loss from a house fire except she can't claim any of this on insurance,, never seen anything like this

and its SO clear he didnt just "lost control" He made question to damage every single thing possible, he calculated all this damage. Not even the worst psychological crisis would do that. And would not be just one hit to damage all things.

I just cant calculate hlw much she is gonna have to pay for all of this. She will have to buy everything she own again, basically

This is evil and done on purpose, completely. This woman needs help, if his son did all of this, he is dangerous to her

Acab but she needs to make some kind of police report. She should absolutely not feel safe in that house. THE MARBLE COUNTER IS SMASHED! What’s stopping him from continuing to destroy the house and her? Nothing. This boy is dangerous.

the thing that really horrifies me about anti-’terf’ threats is that they’re very specific and graphic?i never hear people saying ‘i wish pedophiles/murderers/racists’ would die with that level of horrific detail. like yeah ‘kill all rapists’ and ‘pedophiles should burn’ but not the kind of delight in violence used when talking about killing ‘terfs’

also a lot of it tends to be descriptions of real-life violence that women go through, like “I want terfs to be burned at the stake” “I want terfs to have acid thrown at them” etc and it says even more when you consider how many of them believe - not all will admit it but they often slip up and give it away - that terfs are all lesbians

yes, in fact i’ve seen left liberals/libfems start longass discussion threads about how it’s “not okay” to want to do graphic, violent things to convicted pedophiles, rapists, murderers and white supremacists because we should be “better than that”. and these same people often turn around and express or condone the expression of graphically violent acts specifically against lesbians. it’s almost like liberals are only too relieved to have found a socially acceptable, even politically correct channel for their misogyny (internalized or otherwise) and lesbophobia.

"please don't say lesbians don't like dick and gay men don't like pussy i'm begging you"

ok then beg you homophobic scum

why tf do they think lesbians are called rug munchers and gay men are called cocksuckers 😭😭

I saw a documentary on conversion therapy the other day and they were asking the gay man to just imagine that there was a man attached to the pussy and he will start liking it , now tell me how is that any different from TRAs who tell gay men that they are bigots for only liking dick and that they actually should be attracted to all men including ' men with pussies' .

Or when they tell lesbians that they shouldn't have ' genitals preference' because it's a 'woman' who's attached to the penis? And when they compare silicon straps to penis ? Yeah it's the same exact rhetoric of conversion therapy.

It has always been conversion therapy exact language. I heard this stuff in the 90s as a young lesbian. Same tactic.

half-convinced Tumblr was massively psyoped a decade ago to make a bunch of young people spread conversion therapy/anti-feminist rhetoric while thinking they're the ones being progressive

the ultimate blackpill is when you realize that most men view rape as desecration of property rather than an act of violence against another human