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Ophelia Annabell

@opheliaannabellmae-blog

•Anxiety•BPD•ED•OCD•PTSD• Open minded artist hippie Old soul, I just don't belong here.
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Not that anyone cares but

This is my only outlet, everything and everyone else in my life are just not working for me. Not that anyone really follows me or talks to me on here but I'm gonna start talking here. Maybe someone, somewhere will finally hear me. Maybe not. We shall see. #sad #alone #depressed

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When you realize what you've been waiting for is affection and someone to hold you at night when you get sad, the person you're waiting for has no foreseeable chance to give it to you, but you don't wanna give up even though the nightly loneliness is getting unbearable.. every night.

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Ok so this post is extremely long and I put it all together for my blogs Feeling sad page but as I don’t have a huge amount of followers I realize so many people are not seeing this information so I’m posting it here too!

alternatives without harming yourself:

  • holding/squeezing ice.
  • splashing your face with water.
  • getting a rubber band and snapping it against your skin (this could hurt, though it’s better than other ways that people usually choose to self-harm).
  • take a hot shower or bath.
  • eat something sour. it will take your mind of the urge. (lemon, sour lollies)
  • massage where you want to self-harm.
  • get a red pen or red paint and draw/paint over where you usually self-harm.
  • remind yourself as to why you shouldn’t do it. (scars, harms organs, leave memories etc…)
  • describe what you are feeling. (is the urge/pain in your chest, fists, legs, arms, head).

killing yourself will not help. it is not a solution.

you have your whole life ahead of you. you have so many more years that you can accomplish things in. for example;

  • having a family.
  • getting married.
  • to watch the sun rise.
  • to watch the sun set.
  • to save someone else’s life.
  • finish school.
  • get your dream job.
  • to laugh.
  • to smile.
  • to go camping.
  • travel to new places.
  • to wake up every morning to the person you love.
  • friends.
  • family.
  • to keep that promise you made.
  • to accomplish a goal.
  • to meet your idol.
  • to listen to new music.
  • theme parks.
  • video games.
  • chocolate.
  • to be able to look back and say “i made it”.

what you’re going through is temporary.

in case you need to hear this:

  • you are loved.
  • you are wanted.
  • you are needed.
  • you are beautiful.
  • you are handsome.
  • you are important.
  • you are not alone.
  • you are okay.
  • you are strong.
  • you are worth it.
  • you are smart.
  • you are not a failure.
  • you are useful.
  • you are going to be okay.

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bristlee1

for those who might need it

❤️

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hurtliar

Nice ways to cope in a healthy way, for those who need it <3