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@onethingconstant

I write things, drink a lot of tea, and impersonate a grownup. My primary fandom is Marvel, with side orders of Shakespeare and SuperWhoLock. Bucky Barnes is my patronus. My AO3 handle is onethingconstant; I write a damn good Bucky and a fantastic Peggy Carter.

To all of my friends out there and ESPECIALLY my trans friends, if you hadn’t done so now, PLEASE GET A PASSPORT. President Obama made it VERY easy to get your gender marker changed on your passport. All you need is:

- An ID that resembles your current appearance (just get a new photo taken on a driver’s license or ANY government issued ID) - Passport photo that resembles your current appearance (From any drug store)

- Proof of legal name change (if applicable)

A physician statement that indicates you have either completed or are in process of treatment for gender transition (the hardest part) No surgeries, no red tape, no bullshit. And when people try to harass you or puush you around because “Hahaha your ID says your x” Whip out your passport and shut them DOWN. I carry mine wherever I go and I know a lot of my friends who live in the south do so as well.  This law could VERY easily change under a Trump presidency and I haven’t been as serious about anything as I am about this. PLEASE GET A PASSPORT. Even the passport card (which is half as expensive as the book is!!!) will do. Just please if you can, get ONE ID that matches who you really are.

And I know to be able to get all of this together is a sign of privilege in the first place, and from one black, trans, queer women to all of my vulnerable siblings I will rot in a jail cell before I let this country harm any of us and I this I swear. I will NOT take this lying down. PLEASE Signal Boost!

This is legit. My therapist at the VA told me this was the easiest way to get a form of ID with the proper gender marker on it.

I work in a supermarket. Your passport is a picture ID with your birthdate on it. We take it for buying booze. I’ve recommended getting one to more than one nervous person handing over their license. It expires just like your license and there’s some red tape for getting it renewed in a timely manner, but it’s considered as valid as your license even if it’s maybe less easy to carry around.

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AND it’s internationally valid, unlike, say, your driver’s license. 

THAT. Yes. Thank you.

IF YOU HAVE TROUBLE GETTING YOUR PASSPORT ONCE YOU HAVE APPLIED FOR IT:

i.e. if there are any delays in receiving it, if the Passport Agency requests documentation you don’t have, if you can’t get in contact with the Passport Agency–

CONTACT YOUR U.S. SENATORS.

They have caseworkers who can contact the Passport Agency for you and help facilitate a solution. Most senators have a casework form on their .gov website, or you can call their state offices. They are great resources!

The federal government is preparing for a potential surge in Mexican migrants coming to Canada after Donald Trump’s election victory, CBC News has learned.
Sources confirm high level meetings took place this week with officials at Immigration, Refugees and Citizenship Canada and in other departments.
The news comes as Canada prepares to loosen rules for Mexicans to enter the country by lifting a visa requirement on Dec. 1. That restriction has been in place since 2009.
Talks on a plan to cope with a possible spike in asylum-seekers have been ongoing for some time, but were accelerated this week after Trump’s surprise win.
Trump campaigned on promises to build a wall along the U.S.-Mexico border and to swiftly deport undocumented workers and illegal residents.
Toronto-based immigration lawyer Lorne Waldman expects an increase in refugee claims from Mexicans once the visa requirement is lifted. He also predicts a “significant impact” from Trump’s election.
“The government was very concerned about the potential for a large number of new claims coming from Mexico, and that’s why they hesitated for so long before announcing that they were going to remove the visa,” he said.
“And that announcement was made before anyone knew that Donald Trump, with his very different immigration policies from those of the current administration, won the election.”

Omg God bless Canada

Source: cbc.ca

I am a straight, white, middle-class American.

Can someone give me practical steps on how I can use my privilege to actively advocate for those who are marginalized by this election?

Me too.

And me.

Be their voice. 

Anytime you hear a friend or family member start to launch into his rhetoric, argue on their behalf. Be the Devil’s Advocate as far as they’re concerned. 

And when you argue, argue with facts. Know all of your information beforehand. And don’t be the one to get angry. 

And for those who are marginalized, be their friend. Be there for them. Listen to them with an open mind. Let them know that you are trustworthy and that they are not alone. 

This is a good response for taking care of things on the personal level, but there are a lot of other levels to helping out. White straight cis people are the majority, if you get more politically active on the whole, your numbers can help push things, and that action starts with each individual. A lot of people support people individually or sign e-petitions and call it a day, but the former only does so much and the latter usually often does nothing. Even when e-petitions are given to the party the petition is meant for, they often ignore them and throw them in the trash. Only a few e-petitions translate to action.

Here are a few things that work better. 

Write Letters

Write letters to your congresspeople. Those actually have staff reading them and the people of congress take them a little more seriously. Not because they actually care about these issues per se, but they assume if you’ve taken time to write an actual letter that you care enough about an issue that they might lose your vote if they take the wrong actions. An individual letter might not influence them to act but the more letters they get, the more they fear losing votes. These letters can influence the actions of the Congresspeople that actually care about their constituents, and for those that don’t, they sometimes follow popular opinion of their constituents to keep their office.

Vote

This seems like a no-brainer but part of the issue is people only vote in presidential elections. Remember to vote during primaries to pick candidates, elections of congress-people (which happen more often than the presidency), and even in local elections that might directly affect people where you live. Even with Trump being elected, his supporters may be more complacent (and his detractors may feel more pissed) in two years when the next Congressional elections happen. Trump’s more dangerous agendas will be significantly hampered if he’s working against a democratic majority in Congress. We have the power to possibly affect the legislative branch every two years, so people need to remember to take it by voting every time they can.  

Become Politically Active

You can also take part in political parties to support certain candidates (sometimes you can help them get elected by volunteering). Nominating the right candidate can mean the difference between success and defeat, and between certain issues being helped or being hurt or ignored. No one can really say for sure that things would’ve been different if Bernie Sanders had been nominated but he definitely inspired a lot more hope and galvanized more young people to action. A lot of moderates (and even some Republicans) respected him for his consistency and principles and disliked Trump, enough that some might have voted for Bernie as the scandals about Trump had come to light. 

A lot of people didn’t vote at all in this election or voted third-party because they disliked both candidates, something that might have been different with the right Democratic nominee. Personally speaking, I know at least ten people that voted third-party or didn’t vote that said they would’ve voted for Bernie. Helping good candidates by helping their campaigns can lead to a better shot at ousting Trump in four years. 

Help The Charities That Do Work On the Ground

If you’re worried about immigration, donate to organizations that offer pro bono legal services to people trying to obtain US citizenship or keep their VISAs. This can help people the country is trying to deport. There are tons of orgs out there! You can just google for them and research a bit to see if one is good at what they’re doing. If one near you takes volunteers of some kind and you have the skill set to help, volunteer. If you don’t have much money, donating even a tiny bit here or there counts. These organizations are usually underfunded and barely keeping above water, so even something as small as 10 dollars every so often can make a difference.

If you’re worried about how Trump’s policies will hurt the poor, or hurt people based on race, sexuality, gender orientation, etc., there are similar pro bono legal and/or charity organizations that help people with the same issues. Again, you can donate when you can, or if they have positions you can volunteer in, you can volunteer.  

Protest Or Support Protesters

If protests are arranged against some of the policies that hurt people, attend, don’t speak over the people protesting if it’s not your place, and make sure you comport yourselves with appropriate behavior (ie if the whole group is trying to be nonviolent so the press can’t claim they’re violent, be nonviolent too). Come prepared with what you need to survive being pepper sprayed or tear gassed, and have a plan for escaping to safety if you need to. If you don’t think you can handle getting pepper sprayed or have health issues that could be fucked with (for instance, I have asthma so inhaling that shit could kill me) you can be one of the people that brings food, water, and supplies for the protesters (like milk, water, and dawn soap to counter and wash away the pepper spray). 

Sometimes when these protests go down, churches and other local groups need money to provide these supplies to protesters so if you live too far away to protest or help physically, you can sometimes donate money to them that they can use to buy supplies. During many of the Black Lives Matter protests, local churches and organizations provided food, pepper spray first aid supplies, and water to protesters and took donations to help cover the costs.  

Protests can make politicians fear they won’t be re-elected. Even if they don’t scare Trump and Pence, they sometimes scare congressmen who have to go for re-election more frequently and fear losing their supporters. The fear can translate into action on their part. 

To Sum Up

Being people’s friends and standing up for people is good on the personal level, but does next to nothing on the systemic level, and can only happen if the prejudice is done openly in front of you (which doesn’t always happen). If you really want to help, it will take actual action, money (if you can spare it), and/or your time. Which a lot of people don’t want to give, but if you really want to change things systemically instead of just on a personal basis, it’s the only way. 

Reblogging to keep accessible. Thank you, everyone!!!

Like many others, I have been struggling to figure out what to do in the wake of the US election results. And then I was reminded why theatre is so important. So I am putting together a play on people’s reactions to the 2016 election results. If people hear how and why others are feeling, acting, and even voting the way they are, maybe we can work to bridge our understandings. If you are willing, share your story by submitting to the above link or contacting me at  peoplenotpolls@gmail.com (if you feel more comfortable telling it verbally or through email). All stories and reactions are welcome and wanted.

If you do not want to share your own story, please reblog this post!

If you do choose to submit your story it may be used in a public play that will likely be a series of monologues. In the remote, unlikely chance this makes any profit, the proceeds will be donated to the ACLU. If you have any questions or clarifications about the usage of the stories, please contact me.

Also please let me know if you have any ideas, questions, or comments for the project going forward!

I’m gonna outlive donald trump i dont care how long i have to wait i wanna live in a world where he doesnt exist and I dont have to hear or see him 

Spite, fuel me

im not goin anywhere

My Canadian friend offered to help me flee the US if necessary. Apparently her place is in an area that's like 25% Vietnam draft resisters who never went home and are now pillars of the local community. I don't know whether I'll need it, but the fact that her immediate response was to offer to take me into her home after my family meltdown and this shitfire election is just an overwhelming relief and also the most Canadian thing I have ever seen her do. It's not the first time she's helped me, either. Among other things, she hooked me up with a job that finally paid enough for me to escape my ex-brother's abuse and go where my stalker couldn't find me. She's the only person who read my first novel and knew immediately that I'd written it to decide whether or not to kill myself. She was the first person I spoke to in a loving way about being suicidal. And every time she's done something amazing like that, she's treated it like it was ordinary. Just being neighborly. She claims that it's a Canadian thing (though I suspect it's also a her thing, and maybe a very-good-human thing). I am just really grateful that Canada exists right now, and that I am friends with this person.

Last Chance

Ok Folks, listen up. The electoral college doesn’t vote officially until December 19th. It is extremely rare and almost unheard of for them to vote against the majority of their district BUT IT CAN HAPPEN. The Electoral College was made for exactly this purpose!  Remember, prior to December 19th, we have:

Court Case against Trump University Court Case Against Trump for accusations for rape and sexual assault If we pull together, we can swing this. We will have to be tireless. We will have to be unyielding. We will have to write, call, and march on every swing state that can have their electoral vote differently. We have to make our voices heard. Hillary WON the popular vote which means more of America wants her to be President than Trump. There is precedence for this to happen. There is cause. There is hope. With no state law against Pennsylvania voting against their popular vote, that’s 20 to go to Hillary. If Florida or any three other states swing, SHE WINS.

If we get them to vote different, we don’t have to worry about Trump or Pence because Hillary will have won. Until she hands over the nomination, she is still saying she is waiting for the official electoral votes to be made. 

We can do this. We can win. LET’S SPREAD THIS LIKE WILD FIRE ON HERE AND FACEBOOK! 

Dear god, someone tell me what to do

Find out the swing vote state’s Electoral College Representatives and phone, mail, email, share, and march on their offices. We have just over a month to get this together. If the Electoral College decides to change their votes for Hillary on December 19th, we will have Hillary as our President. The reason why so many people aren’t talking about this is because it’s very rare for the Electoral College to vote differently than the districts. Some states even have laws preventing that, such as Ohio and North Carolina. But, Pennsylvania does NOT have that law. Florida is tricky, but it can be done. NH is also another one that can swing it as well. If we get just a few of them to switch, we will have won.

Please do something about this and don’t just give up. sincerely, the whole world

Ok so if this is something anyone is interested in, here’s some information:

29 states have laws against “faithless electors”, those who go against the state’s vote, but there has been no penalty in doing so (yet). However, those Republicans may face consequences within the party, of course.

Winner-takes-all still applies, so the majority of electors will need to vote against Trump. However, Maine and Nebraska split their votes. Obviously, your requests will be honored more within your own state.

Important information.  Again, hitting a bullet with another bullet at this point but even if we can’t do this, don’t forget we have Senate and Congress votes coming up in 2017. We can vote in people to block Trump. This has a MUCH better chance at winning.  And while we do that, let’s make sure we let our congress know how unhappy we are with the Electoral College vote!

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Hey guys!

There’s a super small chance we can still avoid having a literal nightmare of a president here in the US, and I’d like to make a personal appeal for others to speak up and spread the plea. Despite the unlikeliness we can sway the Electoral College, it’s worth a shot.

Please! Sign the petition asking the electoral college to vote for Clinton. Look up the electors for your state, and contact them. Email, call, write letters, do all of it! Express to them the threat you feel he and Pence pose to your well-being, and the well-being of PoC, Muslims, LGBTQ, women, and many others. Site the thousands and thousands of protestors that have gathered against Trump since his win on Tuesday. Site all harassment has already occurred after just 1 day of Trump being the president-elect. And, just as importantly, lets spread this plea around!

Even if a Trump/Pence win happens, we have to be vigilant and make it hard for them to move forward with their legislative threats, as suggested above. Be active with your votes, your voice, and any funds you’re able to donate to much needed establishments.

(If you’re still uncertain how the Electoral College works, here’s a very easy-to-follow video!)

I will be updating this post with more links and info as I find them/as they’re given to me! Thanks so much to all the posters above who have taken the time to get this info around, and keep an eye on @ladylokiofmidgard‘s blog; they’re working on compiling contact info for electors!

My neighborhood is sandwiched between a Southeast Asian enclave, a city that's 90% Latino, and the local Little Arabia. I've never heard it so quiet. Even the kids and dogs are silent today. There's a giant regional park across the street and it was empty when I drove by earlier, except for two elderly people who look the right age to be Vietnam War refugees and are clearly not going to let the neo-Nazis to the west or the Klansmen to the north keep them from their afternoon walk in the sunshine. Those two were hobbling along, chattering at each other too fast for my limited Vietnamese to catch. Just like every other day. This is not the first time they've seen this shit, I think. They've survived worse, and they're keeping calm and carying on. Well, if the grouchy Vietnamese olds can do it, I guess I can too.

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When I was a kid it was my father’s people, the irish, who were looked down on. Called filthy foreigners. Discriminated against. Is that the xenophobic America you want? All religions, all nationalities, we all want the same thing.

I wish every white person at one of these protests would commit to doing one-on-one relational work with other whites to deal with their racism

This frustrates me because I’m in a very “liberal” academic space and my white classmates are always having lil breakout groups to discuss allyship, meetings to talk about how they can support black and brown efforts and organizing

But they seem to have zero idea how to actually talk about racism to other white people who don’t already agree with them

I was talking to a classmate today who told me he “felt bad” because his parents and siblings voted trump

And I’m just like: what’s the fucking point of doing all this chatting about allyship if you can’t even sit down and reason with the people closest to you.

Why are you always looking to us for a free education on race when you just compartmentalize that shit or use the insights to get closer to other poc

I think I can add something here as a piece of advice on how to go about this:

I work with a mix of people who carry a wide array of political viewpoints. I work closely with a guy in his 60s who tends to lean Republican on most issues. 

One day, I was in a car with him and another colleague, around my age. The conversation diverted into entitlement spending and race. Us 20 somethings were on one side of the issues and a 60-year-old white guy was on the other. 

After hearing him rant for a bit, I calmly asked, “Hey ____, what’s so wrong with those living in the projects getting unemployment benefits?” I let him answer and then posed another question off of his response. I kept calm and kept letting him speak, then asking follow-up questions. Eventually, he was calm and I could tell he was satisfied that I heard his point and where he was coming from. I also noticed that his views became less and less extreme every time I posed a question. His emotions were subsiding and he was critically thinking about each question. So, I expressed my position of how certain people are exposed to certain opportunity and race plays a major role in exposure. I related to people we both knew. I related to stories of friends that he didn’t know. I asked him, again calmly, if that perspective changes anything. 

He kind of grumbled something and we arrived at our destination, ending the conversation.

However, the next day he came in and stated that he gave my position a lot of thought and felt like I brought up a lot of great points. He said was willing to think about these things. 

I was COMPLETELY taken aback. I realized that my conversation was effective. I honestly don’t know who he voted for or if there a major impact on his thinking, but something changed enough for him to thank me and bring up a willingness to change, albeit how small.

So I guess my advice would be the following:

1) Have people re-examine their own thinking. Don’t tell them how to think or haw you think. Ask them questions that have them explore their thought process.

2) Relate your position to shared experience. Put a face and a name to the marginalized group. Don’t let them go to the ‘well they’re the exception’ answer. Go back to 1) and ask them questions.

3) Stay calm. Like 100% be calm. Disarm their emotions and don’t escalate with your own. This gives them an opportunity to think rationally rather than emotionally. 

4) Don’t do it to feel good about yourself. Do it because it’s the right thing. If you are white/male/straight/cis, you need to do this for those who are not. Keep your thoughts on the marginalized and not making yourself feel good or ‘not like them’. This is not about you.

5) On the flip side, understand white poverty and what is going on in the manufacturing industry. Get the other viewpoint, even if you don’t think it’s worth empathizing with. Just understand that issue. Keep it in the back of your mind when asking questions.

I honestly don’t know if this will work in every circumstance or is enough. I feel like I made a change in someone’s way of thinking.  I thought it was worth sharing. 

Thank you for this.

I do appreciate the messages from white people in our inbox, but here’s something that you can do in order to be an ally for us.

Your racist friends and relatives are far more likely to listen to you than us.

- Mod K

My racist relatives are cutting me off, but I'm reposting for anyone who can still have these convos.

Patriotism taken too far is fanaticism. No matter who you are or where you’re from. Foreigners aren’t your enemy, son. I’m the son of immigrants. When I was a kid it was my father’s people, the Irish, who were looked down on. Called filthy foreigners. Discriminated against. Is that the xenophobic America you want? All religions, all nationalities, we all want the same thing. To see our children grow strong. To provide safety to our families. To live in quiet times. Peace, son. Isn’t that why we became soldiers in the first place? To fight for a peaceful world?

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Join me at the literary cliff

OK, it's official. I'm making a Google Doc for this sucker. If you want in, pm me an email address. You'll get an invite by end of next week. For those who came in late, I can't go to protests because of my PTSD, and I can't fight with money because I make shit, so I'm joining the fight against Cheeto supremacy by writing a YA novel. And you can help, if you want, by being a beta. The novel is an idea I've had for a while but held off on writing. Its protagonist is a teenage girl living with her abusive alcoholic father. She has an unexpected encounter with a monster out of Norse mythology and ends up drafted into a quest to recover Loki's lost memories and prevent Ragnarok. The quest is complicated by her trauma, her father's abuse, and the secret she's never told anyone--that she is demisexual. I've held off writing this book because I knew it would out me as demi to my (religious fundamentalist) family, and I treasure my relationship with my mother. But I've decided that it's more important to be a voice for the next generation of queer kids, coming of age in Cheeto America. If a book like this had existed when I was 16, I wouldn't have thought I was broken. I can't stop my family from denying my human rights. But I can, like my protagonist, turn my wounds into beauties and use my pain to help soneone else. I also tell a ripping good yarn; for evidence, see my AO3. Anyway, pm me an email address to join the betas on this book, working titled "The God at the Back of the Bus". Let's show the fuckers what we're made of (namely magic, caffeine, and sarcasm).