Talking Dirty When Webcamming
A lot of people think of camming as an inherently visual experience, with a webcam model’s body and the things she does to it (and perhaps the things she uses to do things to it) being of paramount importance. But this is a naive view, as any cam girl who does nothing but sit naked and perform solitary sex acts on herself is destined for failure in the industry.
A large part, arguably the largest part of webcamming overall, is engaging with the audience through charisma and personality. And one essential facet of this which cannot be overlooked is so-called “dirty talk”.
The Power of Dirty Words
It is impossible to overstate the popularity of dirty talk among viewers of cam sites (and possibly, by extension, the male population in general). Of any given roomful of people watching a cam girl’s performance, a significant proportion of them will find it enormous arousing to hear her speak in a suggestive or overtly sexual manner. As such, the importance of satisfying this quirk is huge.
Unfortunately, many webcam models believe they “don’t know” how to do it well, and they often feel awkward even trying. What most ultimately find, however, is that they already have the knowledge necessary to excel at dirty talk, and that any feelings of awkwardness fade once they throw themselves into it.
The key to talking dirty in an effective manner is to feel comfortable doing it. Probably the best way for a cam model to build herself up to this point is to begin by simply asking her viewers to “talk dirty” to her, in the sense of asking them to share their sexual fantasies. Most guys will be only too happy to oblige this request, and by discussing their answers with them, a cam girl becomes more accustomed to dirty talk in general and can eventually take a more active role in doing it herself.
Of course, many viewers won’t require anything so creative as the stereotypical pornographic dialogue. For instance, “jerk off instructions” (JOI), in which a webcam model merely directs a man through the steps of masturbating himself, is incredibly popular. Doing this is exactly as simple as it sounds, and more of an effort is required to fail at it than to succeed. It is really a matter of reading the room in general and the person a cam girl is speaking with in particular, and saying what it takes to satisfy them/him.
